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For most people, men don't care about loyalty, loyalty is because the temptation is not enough, women don't care about decency, decency is because the stakes of betrayal are too low.
32-year-old Xiaomei has recently been very entangled, she is obsessed with chatting with male colleagues late at night, and the content of the chat between the two is becoming more and more ambiguous, if this continues, she is worried that unpredictable things will happen, but she can't extricate herself!
This made her fall into a deep sense of self-blame and entanglement, after all, she loved her husband deeply, and the enthusiasm of her colleagues made it more difficult for her to refuse, he hoped to find a balance between the two, but could she really do it?
Let's hear her story:
My name is Xu Mei, 32 years old, I have been married to my husband for six years, I remember when I first got married, he was very enthusiastic about me, he would greet me every day, even if I worked outside, I could feel his gentleness and thoughtfulness.
At that time, our relationship was very harmonious, the couple's life was also very harmonious, our marriage was also full of passion and charm, and I had a heartfelt sense of happiness by snuggling next to him every day.
With the passage of time, especially after having children, our energy gradually shifts to children, the passion of the past gradually recedes, and the relationship between husband and wife becomes tepid.
Maybe the marriage has passed its shelf life, and now, although my husband and I have no contradictions, we are a lot less intimate with each other, often in the same room, but there is nothing to say, it feels like two unrelated people living together!
Over time, I will inevitably have some resentment in my heart, and sometimes I will feel lonely and lonely, but I have nowhere to talk.
Some time ago, the company came to a young colleague, called Sun Xiaohan, two years younger than me, handsome and handsome, just assigned to our department.
Because in the same office, every day when we are idle at work, we will get together and chat, sometimes talk about work, sometimes talk about life, talk about some trivial things in family life.
Once, after a meeting of colleagues, after leaving, I happened to meet him driving over, and he offered to take me home, and I gladly agreed. Along the way, we talked a lot about a lot of topics, he told me about his emotional frustration, and I also talked to him about the troubles of life.
It was this ride that affected my life, and since then, we have interacted more, and from time to time we will message each other and chat with him, feeling that there is always no end to the words, and the mood is also very relaxed.
At first, we talked about normal topics at work and life, and later, we talked about marriage and emotions, but as the relationship became closer, the content of our chat became more and more sensitive.
His words made me feel very shy, and sometimes I would meet with red ears, although I knew that this was not good, but I could not control myself. Every night before going to bed, I would pick up my phone and expect messages from him.
Nowadays, our relationship has become very ambiguous, and if it continues like this, I am afraid that we will have something that breaks the bottom line. But if I break off contact with Xiao Han, I feel very lost, and chatting with him has become the spice of my boring life, making me unable to give up!
I am now a little dazed, a little overwhelmed, on the one hand is the indifference and loss of married life, on the other hand is the enthusiasm and temptation of colleagues handsome men, I love my husband, more my family, but in the face of the temptation of the outside, my heart is always ready to move!
What exactly should I do?
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