<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="18" > conflicts between children, parents to protect the short and even punch other people's children? School violence has emerged</h1>
School violence, bullying... Such harsh words still appear in our real lives.
Recently, the parent of a fifth-grade student in Shanghai's Changning District complained to the relevant departments that her daughter was slapped by the parents of her classmates who rushed into the classroom and caused local swelling on the left side of her face.
In this regard, the staff on duty of the Shanghai Changning District Education Bureau told reporters that complaints have been received and will be transferred to the relevant functional departments for disposal.
The complainant's parent, Mr. Yuan, said that the incident occurred on October 26, and afterwards he had called the police and gone to the hospital for injury examination. The daughter and her classmates had a conflict in the second grade, and afterwards they had apologized to each other, but the parents of the other party did not appreciate it and said that they wanted to return it.
Primary school students fight, parents protect the short hand to slap, causing the face of the child's classmates to swell locally! Can countering violence with violence really solve the problem?
In fact, there are many such incidents in real life, from kindergartens to middle school students, and the friction between children is sublimated to disputes between parents, and the severity of the situation can be imagined.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="39" how do > view the incident in which Primary School students in Shanghai were slapped by their parents into the classroom? </h1>
Why are more and more parents unable to deal with problems calmly and use violence to solve them? More is still emotionally out of control, distressing their own children.
Empathetic thinking, what parent does not feel sorry for their children? But for the sake of children, is it really right?
In this regard, many netizens said: "If they do not educate their children, there is always a society to educate", "If the average parent does not have a neuropathy, there must be a reason for it"...
Netizens' comments hit the pain point: there is something wrong with education.
In general, children with violent tendencies have long been problematic in family education.
There are many versions on the Internet that teach people how to deal with children being violent. Some even suggest that netizens take a video to collect evidence, and then sue the other party to the court. There are also teachings to let the call back...
Although these methods are to relieve hatred, but they have once again intensified the contradiction, we let our children go to school, not to be able to play the jianghu righteousness, when it is time to shoot.
In fact, the best way to solve the contradictions between children is to let the children solve them by themselves, and parents have also played an exemplary role in them.
Especially for young children, conflicts between them are likely to fight the next day, and the parents are angry and half dead.
The child in the above incident is already a fifth-grade student. Children will be subjected to violence at school and their self-esteem will be destroyed, which requires friendly treatment between home and school. If you are not careful, you will be labeled as "bullying", which will have a bad psychological impact on both children.
First of all, it should be affirmed that the parent who slaps the child is wrong. An apology cannot solve the hurt in the child's heart, and the other parent's request to call back is not reprehensible.
But can violence really solve the problem? Probably not.
Secondly, parents who hit people must be sincere, not only to apologize to their children, but also to pay for their emotional negligence. Otherwise, in the future, whose children are bullied, they all go to beat each other up and apologize and it will be all right?
Third, this incident also inspired school education to promptly channel contradictions and disputes between children to avoid more tragedies.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" Data-track="2" How to curb violence in schools >? Li Meijin: You must have explosive power to not be bullied</h1>
School violence inevitably occurs in our lives, how can we curb the occurrence of such bad incidents from the source?
When Professor Li Meijin talked about campus violence in the program, she mentioned two problems, the core of which is: if you are strong, no one dares to deceive!
First: Teach children not to bully people, nor to be bullied. This is a tutoring problem, be sure to let the child know that the more energy you have, the more you can't bully those who are weaker than you.
Second, how to prevent children from being bullied?
Li Meijin pointed out: To enhance the physique, learn to protect yourself! "Children must have physical exercise. Where there is movement, there is explosiveness. With explosive power, it is not easy to be bullied. ”
At the end of the day, there is something wrong with education! Some people say that since violence cannot be solved, it is necessary to go to the other parent's theory. Just imagine, a child with violent tendencies, his family education is a problem, and then go to the parents to communicate, the effect is not great.
So how can it be solved? As experts say, to enhance their own physique, only if they are strong enough, they can not be bullied.
At the same time, educate children in school once they perceive the invasion of people with violent tendencies, and immediately make their position clear, so that the other party knows what the consequences of bullying themselves are.
In the face of children being bullied, many parents are wrong. Teach your child to fight back? Definitely, when you compromise for the first time, there are second, third, or even countless times of being bullied.
Some parents will accuse their children of "why are you so useless, and you can't fight back when you are beaten"? The child is inherently "kind", and when the parents blame the child, his heart becomes more and more inferior.
Therefore, in the event of school violence, it is particularly important for parents to guide their children. It is necessary to educate children not to bully others, but also to educate children not to be bullied by others.
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Author: Hou Mingxuan's growth diary
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