"Even a child can't see it well, what else can he do?"
"What I say for the rest of my life is what I say, you are not qualified to refute it"
"This is your retribution, your recognition."
Upstairs, there are often such yelling voices from men to women, and the love-hate mixture in the voice makes it easy to hear the story in the couple...
Repentance of a 55-year-old woman:
Now he is completely self-inflicted on me, and self-inflicted is due to a greedy play I had a few years ago, ruining the relationship between husband and wife, at the cost of atonement for the humility of the rest of my life.
Married to my husband for so many years, I have always been a treasure in his palm, and he often said that I am the driving force of his struggle and his spiritual pillar.
Fast forward many years, and the children have become a family and live their own little lives.
My daughter-in-law used to ask me to help with the children but was resolutely blocked by my husband, because he wanted to take me out on a tour, to see the great rivers and mountains of the motherland, and to live a life that belonged to our freedom in the old age.
It was a few days before my husband bought the ticket that the appearance of a man completely changed the rest of my life.
That day I went shopping in the supermarket, met my former colleague Lao Zhang, I wanted to say hello on the line, I couldn't stand Lao Zhang's warm invitation, so we had a meal together.
During the meal, Lao Zhang kept praising me for not being like a woman of this age, looking like A thirty-something, and unabashedly saying that I had a crush on me for many years in the company before, but at that time, they were all married, so they kept their good feelings in my heart, and I was overwhelmed by several sweet words, and I had a sense of shyness like my first love.
We talked so much that we tossed and turned and couldn't sleep when we got home. At this time, a WeChat message sent "Tomorrow please watch a movie, not to see it." ”
The next day, the ghost made God go in beautiful clothes, and after watching the movie, something happened to him that shouldn't have happened. Afterwards, he told me he was going to his son in Shanghai and might never see him again.
When I got home and saw my husband, I felt guilty, I felt that I was not a good woman, not a good wife, but in the blink of an eye, I thought that he said to go to Shanghai, and if I couldn't see it later, I was lucky to think that no one would know about this matter.
One day, my husband suddenly threw a note into my face, opened it, and said" Thank you for letting me have a good memory, I love you." It turned out that Lao Zhang had put this note in my pocket that day, and I didn't know that my husband found this note when he washed my clothes.
I knew that the East Window incident occurred, I couldn't hide it anymore, crying and begging my husband's forgiveness, my husband didn't say anything, threw away my hand and turned away.
My husband did not divorce me, but like a changed person, no longer concerned about me, became pointing fingers at me, calling and drinking, canceling the tour, letting me go to my son to bring children, a little bad began to say something is my retribution, I am not qualified to refute and the like, I know wrong, but no amount of repentance can change the reality, the price of greedy once, is that I use the humility of the rest of my life to atone for my sins.
Because of an extramarital affair, this woman changed from a treasure in her hand to a humble grass in the eyes of her husband.
Because of an extramarital affair, the man turned his attention to his children and no longer cared for his wife, because he felt that the only people he could rely on in the future were his children and grandchildren.
For this woman, men love and hate, want to let go of reluctance, do not let go of the heart and can not go through the hurdle, now, as long as women can take care of their children and grandchildren.