May the southwest wind, long death into the arms of the king. ——Cao Zhi, "The Bright Moon on the Tall Building"
As the saying goes, "a woman's second rebirth is to marry a good husband", marriage is particularly important for a woman, and the husband's attitude towards his wife will also directly affect the woman's mental state.
Today's story takes place in the early 20th century, from a bookish lady. Her father had been Chairman Mao's teacher, and then bad luck befell her, and after losing her parents, she became a movie star, had two marriages, but suffered from mental illness.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="27" > sudden misfortune</h1>
Wang Renmei's father was a math teacher, and even Chairman Mao was a student taught by her father. In those days, teaching was a sacred profession.
Under the influence of her father, Wang Renmei's academic performance is also very good, and she often runs to her father's library to get some magazines, newspapers, and famous books. Not only that, she was also full of talent, singing and dancing.
When Wang Renmei was 7 years old, her mother died of a sudden cerebral hemorrhage. The young Wang Renmei did not understand why her mother never came back after entering the hospital, and her mother left her forever.
Wang Renmei lived with her brother and father, but she lost her mother at an age when she still needed maternal love, which seriously affected her life and made her very insecure.
According to the normal life trajectory, Wang Renmei's days after the family should be to find a door to solve their lifelong events. However, the bad news came again, after Wang Renmei graduated from elementary school, her father died after being stung by a horse bee.
In the most helpless age, he lost his parents, and then Wang Renmei lived with his brother, but his brother could not give his parents-like love after all, which made Wang Renmei's heart desperate to be cared for.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="26" > the duration of the first relationship</h1>
Due to the change of family, Wang Renmei dropped out of school early. In 1927, she entered a school in Shanghai to learn to dance, because Wang Renmei's better countenance and her intelligent and lively personality soon attracted the founder of the school.
After a series of steady studies, in 1931 the school merged into a film company, stood out in the casting auditions, and then starred as the heroine of "Wild Rose". Since then, Wang Renmei has stepped into the show business circle.
It was also when starring in "Wild Rose", Wang Renmei met her first husband, and the young people with the same encounter soon collided with the spark of love, but this love affair was opposed by Wang Renmei's brother, who also published a series of remarks in the weekly magazine to openly argue with Wang Renmei, and Wang Renmei did not want to show weakness and immediately fought back.
After marriage, the two soon had the crystallization of love, but without the guidance of the elders, Wang Renmei was still doing strenuous exercise with a big belly, resulting in premature birth of the fetus in the abdomen, the child was very weak after birth, coupled with Wang Renmei's poor care, the child died shortly after birth.
The departure of the child is a great blow to both husband and wife, they both see the child as a symbol of a beautiful family, that the family will be complete after having a child, but the departure of the child also represents the disillusionment of this wish.
After learning this lesson, Wang Renmei's husband Jin Yan strongly asked Wang Renmei to be a full-time wife at home, and Wang Renmei has been in a state of half-shadow for the next ten years.
The time when the two people really came to an end was in 1937, when the Anti-Japanese War broke out in full swing, and Jin Yan wanted to take Wang Renmei to the Chinese studio together, but Wang Renmei refused. The two went through divorce procedures because of the disagreement over this matter.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="19" > the arrival of the second relationship</h1>
After the divorce, Wang Renmei put all his focus on his career, in 1952, Wang Renmei was framed for having an affair with the head of the military command, the oppression of the surrounding environment, as a public figure private life chaos, under a series of suppression, Wang Renmei's spirit received great stimulation, and was therefore diagnosed with schizophrenia.
Accompanied by her family, Wang Renmei quickly stepped out of the shadows. She was introduced to her second husband, the painter Ye Qianyu.
After marriage, Wang Renmei soon found that the personalities of the two people were incompatible and broke up many times. He also said to others: "Ye Qianyu is a good painter, but he is not a good husband." "In the end, the two people are still living noisily, and they have gone through 30 years together, foaming at each other and accompanying each other.
Husbands and wives, who have a plain and uneventful life, are small fights and small troubles. In the end, Wang Renmei left her husband in this world and went to heaven himself. The painter Ye Qianyu was annoyed for life because of a sudden myocardial infarction and missed the last chance to see her.
In the early stage, Wang Renmei was unfortunate, she lost her parents at a young age, divorced her first husband, and she herself suffered from mental illness, fortunately, in the second half of Wang Renmei's life, she found someone who could quarrel with her.