Girl, you are not allowed to eat your mother-in-law's leftovers! Yan Xuejing's son got married, and publicly praised her daughter-in-law for treating her like a mother's son getting married, and did a personal performance show? Can a daughter-in-law eat leftovers in public? Yan Xuejing's crying, the pain of a single mother? As a soldier, is it appropriate to be openly extravagant and wasteful?

Son married, what are you crying? You can't tell the difference between inside and outside the play? Is it appropriate to say in front of my father-in-law and mother-in-law that my daughter-in-law eats her own leftovers? If my girlfriend did this, I would have shouted:

Girl, put down the bowl! No leftovers from the mother-in-law!

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Recently, the news of Yan Xuejing and her ex-husband Lin Yue's son Lin Aofei's big wedding has rushed to the headlines, and there is a trend that overshadows the popularity of the national college entrance examination.

Originally, I thought that the heat of this message came from luxurious weddings, luxurious motorcades, 10,000 yuan or 100,000 yuan of share money, court-level banquets, a strong star lineup, and a beautiful daughter-in-law...

The result was not, or not all, and finally the son's wedding was made into a personal show for Yan Xuejing, the mother-in-law of the "performance artist".

According to the information revealed on the Internet, Yan Xuejing had an impromptu speech for more than an hour in the parent speech session at the wedding site. During the period, she used the tone of her voice and emotion, the tear-jerking "story" and the touching mother-in-law relationship as the general tone, sprinkling tens of thousands of words, and talking endlessly.

"Hey, Yan Guangming, the heart is so big!" Haiyan ran away with Song Xiaobao."

"Petrel, you can grow a snack"

As the groom's official's mother, Yan Xuejing should of course go on stage and say a few grandiose words, such as thanking the relatives and friends who came to congratulate her in the busy schedule, thanking her father-in-law and mother for raising a good daughter, and then promising to treat her daughter-in-law as a daughter-in-law, so that the family can rest assured.

However, Yan Xuejing, a woman who acted like a drunk, took her son's wedding as a filming scene, and repeatedly wiped her tears to tell the story of her daughter-in-law treating her like a mother.

Is the story she tells touching? Anyway, whether it has touched others is not clear, at least Yan Xuejing has shed tears on the scene several times.

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At our wedding here, it is usually the man's father who comes on stage to say a few words, most of them take the prepared manuscript and read a few sentences, and I have never seen a long speech like her making a report like this.

It may also be that she is too eloquent, so she forgets what the occasion is.

Talking about it, Yan Xuejing talked about the emotional place, she said the three good daughters-in-law in a row, and was moved to tears, this is a private matter but it has to be taken to a public place to show, so that the relatives and mothers sitting next to each other are embarrassed?

Perhaps when she was not yet married, Yan Xuejing's daughter-in-law Xu Mengdi lived with her husband Lin Aofei, and she, who was a mother-in-law, also lived with her son and daughter-in-law, so Yan Xuejing said in public that the three good daughters-in-law were:

First, her mother-in-law ate the rest of the meal, and her daughter-in-law Xu Mengdi did not dislike it at all, and she ate it when she brought it over;

Second, this daughter-in-law is more concerned about her mother-in-law than her son, and when she is sick, the daughter-in-law runs forward and after;

Third, the daughter-in-law treats her like a mother. As long as it was a snack she had not eaten, her daughter-in-law bought it and fed it to her mouth.

Are these three "good" real? Absolutely! At least so far, otherwise Yan Xuejing would not have been able to say it out loud with tears in her eyes.

As he spoke, he cried again

Even if this is true, it is not suitable to say ah in a public place, one is how to end the daughter-in-law in the future; second, if you can't get a divorce, these sensational words will become a laughing stock; third, the daughter-in-law's parents are on the scene, which is the most critical.

Seeing these three points yan Xuejing said, I don't know how netizens will feel, anyway, my ten-year-old daughter does not eat her mother's leftovers at home, as for my remaining meals, my daughter does not eat, but I think this has nothing to do with whether the child is filial piety.

However, as long as the daughter-in-law herself is willing, it is understandable that she eats the rest of her mother-in-law's meal, but whether it should be made public on such a big occasion is debatable, because the daughter-in-law's parents may not be comfortable.

Of course, it doesn't matter if you eat leftovers with "selfishness". Some netizens are very fierce, believing that the daughter-in-law's approach is purely for personal interests, and only then do their best to cater to the mother-in-law.

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In 1992, yan Xuejing, who was 20 years old at the time, was an actor in the Jilin Armed Police Cultural and Labor Troupe, and it was during this period that she met Lin Yue, who lived alone with a daughter after divorce, and Lin Yue, who was 30 years old at the time, was the boss of Liu Laogen's big stage.

Through a period of interaction, Yan Xuejing ignored the opposition of her family and relatives and friends, resolutely chose to marry Lin Yue, and gave birth to a son Lin Aofei the following year.

So far, when Lin Yue changed from "husband" to "ex-husband" is still a mystery, which at least makes it clear that the two sides are peacefully separated. But there is a public message that can be extrapolated to the time when the two of them broke up.

On the morning of October 11, 2020, at a wedding ceremony, when Yan Xuejing, who was a representative, stood on the stage and spoke, she did not expect her first sentence to say: I am Ma Mingdong's daughter-in-law, I am representing my mother-in-law's family...

Since then, the news of Yan Xuejing's divorce and remarriage has been confirmed. Three days after the speech, Yan Xuejing posted a video on the Internet, claiming that she was celebrating her three-year-old daughter's first birthday.

It can be inferred that Yan Xuejing and Ma Mingdong's daughter was born on November 14, 2017, which shows that in a certain period of time before this, Yan Xuejing had already said goodbye to Lin Yue, but the two chose to "silently break up".

Therefore, Yan Xuejing shed tears several times at her son's wedding ceremony, most likely because she felt indebted to her son after her divorce, or felt that her son lived in a single-parent family, and she felt guilty and responsible.

No matter how to explain, Yan Xuejing cried many times at the wedding ceremony where her son should have been full of festive atmosphere, and exposed the daughter-in-law's eating of her leftovers, I don't believe you can see if her father-in-law and ex-husband look at her eyes.

Look at the look in her eyes as her mother-in-law and ex-husband look at her

Judging from the exposed information, the woman's parents are very young, and the appearance is very high, although I don't know what family it is, I believe it is not much worse, but in terms of economic conditions, it should be inferior to Yan Xuejing.

Otherwise, will the daughter-in-law still eat her leftovers?

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Judging from the information registered by the headline encyclopedia, Yan Xuejing is currently a national first-class actor in the Cultural and Labor Corps of the Political Department of the Navy.

According to netizens, Yan Xuejing's rank is a full division, and it is estimated that it is no problem to work as a deputy before retirement.

Look at the lavish wedding on the spot, using the most luxurious five-star hotel in Beijing, transporting the bride in luxury cars of Rolls-Royce and other brands, and the wine table is lined with national liquor, king crab and lobster...

Of course, if the common people do this, it is understandable that Yan Xuejing, as a soldier, should not be extravagant and extravagant, because at present, there are relevant disciplinary constraints on public officials and party members and cadres, and there should also be relevant regulations for military personnel.

However, she was not constrained in any way.

At this wedding, many actors were invited, and visually saw Li Yugang, Yang Lixin, Cheng Ye, Yan Guangming and his wife, Pan Zi of "Big Head" and "Pan Ga's Friendship", and the video footage of Guo Degang's blessing was also transmitted at the scene.

Finally, I would like to ask everyone, if it is your daughter, do you agree that she will eat the leftovers of her mother-in-law? If your daughter's mother-in-law said this in public, how would you feel?