Deyun Society, in the cross-talk industry, can be described as a household name, no one knows, fame, dazzling aura, extraordinary achievements, high status.
The train runs fast and has to be led by the headband.
Naturally, it is impossible not to talk about its founder Guo Degang.
But no matter how strong Guo Degang's front is, he can't withstand the hard work and pounding of the years, and there will definitely be people who are old and faltering on this day.
In other words, Guo Degang can support the Deyun Society for a while, but it is impossible to play for a lifetime.
Today's Guo Degang is close to knowing the Mandate of Heaven and has a great family, and according to the practice of the past and the present, he should have set a certain successor long ago.
In the end, who will the Deyun Society let take over?
Or hurry up and listen to what Lao Guo said——
If Guo Degang only has one son, then the question of succession is undoubtedly unsustainable.
But the reality is that Guo Degang has two sons!
According to the common practice of our ancestors, the successor naturally fell on the head of the eldest son.
But Guo Degang's situation is more special.
His eldest son, Guo Qilin, was born to his ex-wife, and his second son, Guo Fenyang, was born to his current wife.
If it were you, would you be able to let your eldest son inherit without hesitation or scruples?
The reality is stark and harsher:
Let the eldest son inherit, can the current wife be happy, can she be at ease, can she accept?
Let the second son inherit it, can the eldest son not be jealous and resentful, can he not think that his father is biased?
Compare your heart to your heart, put yourself in the shoes of Lao Guo, for the major affairs of the successor, it is really difficult to do.
Moreover, these two children were both born to themselves, and the palms of their hands and the backs of their hands were full of flesh.
Oh --
Don't talk nonsense, or hurry up and listen to Lao Guo's ideas.
In an interview program, Guo Degang responded to the question of whether Guo Qilin would succeed him.
Compared with his younger brother Guo Fenyang, Guo Qilin is impeccable in terms of fame, ability, or voice, but Guo Degang revealed that he never thought of letting Guo Qilin succeed him.
He said: "I really never thought about it. Guo Fenzhen is also, what he loves to do in the future, after he feels that he will go to strike iron, and when he is a carpenter, he will be a carpenter. People want to hold on to thousands of years old shops all day long, you say this can be good. ”
Deyun Society, since its inception in 1996, has been 25 years old.
Today's Deyun Society, sesame blossoms - higher and higher.
As I said above, Guo Degang cannot be at the helm for a lifetime, and he must need a suitable person to take over and inherit.
Even if you have two sons, it's easy to do, either this or that.
But Guo Degang's thoughts actually jumped out of the inherent thinking of everyone, making the world unbelievable, unexpected, and even more shocking.
Guo Degang not only never thought about it, but also said amazingly: the two sons, in the future, love to do anything, do what!
terrible!
peculiar!
admire!
I think that Lao Guo's idea and decision is enough to make countless people, especially parents, shocked, ashamed, and then deeply thought!
Whose child, who doesn't hurt?
Whose children, who does not love?
Old Guo, nothing can be out of the ordinary!
Can you compare with the average parent, Lao Guo, can you not be otherworldly and innovative?
For parents, they all hope that their children can be better than blue out of blue, and they all hope that their children can stand out from the crowd and honor their ancestors, and they all dream that their children can become the leaders of the industry and the model of the times as soon as possible.
However, many parents have made a fatal mistake, that is, to sketch the future for their children, to do what they should do and what they should not do, and to claim to care for their children and love their children.
Although, there is a saying that parents love their children, they plan for the long term.
However, the "long-term calculation" here, many parents, have a biased understanding, and even a big mistake.
The right, wise, loving approach is: parents are the director, children are the protagonists!
But in reality, how many parents are willing to be directors? And really do it as a director? How many parents must not only be the director of the child, but also the protagonist of the child!
Children, although they have their own brains, have become a racetrack for their parents.
Children, although they have their own legs and feet, have become the arrows of their parents.
Children, although they have their own dreams, are crushed by their parents.
The child, in the end, had to, and could not do anything, finally became a "good" child who obeyed orders, only promised, respectful, obedient and obedient!
You say, is this the pride of parents, or the honor of being a child?
Parents, have parents' opinions and suggestions. But children, for their part, also have their own ideas and futures.
That is to say, parents are parents, children are children, parents and children are related by blood, but it is true, you are you, I am me!
So, what should the best parents do?
You can care for and love your child's body, but you can't bind and manipulate your child's heart!
You can be the guide of your child's thoughts, not the leader of your child's thoughts!
You can give your child advice and opinions, but you can't ask and force your child to do it!
This is parents!
That's called parents!
That's what makes a qualified parent!
In the future, children will be grateful to their parents from the bottom of their hearts, will become the pride of their parents, will maximize their potential, and will complete life without complaint or regret!
Isn't it?
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