In the current society, weight loss is an eternal subject for women, and it is also a career they pursue all their lives. In order to lose weight, many women spend a lot of money on fitness personal training classes, participate in weight loss training camps, and buy weight loss products, just to make themselves lighter and slimmer.
In fact, the reason why women are so keen on losing weight is mainly due to the public's aesthetics, after all, it is now a thin woman who is beautiful and has a relatively obese body, few men will like her, and they will be inferior since then.
On the Internet, there are often media reports that obese women have self-confidence and embark on the inspirational story of the peak of life because of their success in weight loss, which stimulates the nerves of many women and makes them more confident in losing weight.
Many women in the teenage years, their own body management attaches great importance to, do not eat high-calorie food, often go to the gym, for their own perfect body. However, after marriage, some women often neglect their own body management, especially after giving birth, their appetite is getting bigger and bigger, and their body shape has become fat and bloated, which is completely different from the beautiful and thin appearance of the girlhood.
So the question is, if his wife "gets fat", how will the man's heart feel? Would they mind? Two married men told the big truth.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="6" > 29-year-old Mr. Wang: I have no interest in facing my fat wife </h1>
When my wife and I were first married, she was in very good shape, there was meat where there should be meat, and the thin place was very thin, and the thin little one looked very cute. At that time, I really wanted to see her, put my arms around her waist, gently embraced her in my arms, and I felt that I was the happiest man in the world.
Every time my friends get together, I almost always bring my wife to attend, and looking at the envious eyes of others, I feel that my face is particularly facetious, and I always have a showy and happy expression on my face.
However, since the wife gave birth to a child, her figure has gone out of shape, and her weight has soared, from the original 95 pounds to the current 130 pounds. A small woman of less than 160 centimeters has a weight of 130 pounds, and you should be able to imagine what she looks like now.
Since my wife became fat, I have completely lost interest in her, not only stopping taking her to friends' parties, but even some reluctance to go home. Every time after work, I took the initiative to work overtime in the company, even if I didn't have a job, I had to stay in the company for a while, I just didn't want to go home and see her.
For this reason, my wife did not argue with me less, thinking that I did not care about my family, either drank outside, or worked overtime at the company, and could not fulfill the responsibilities of a husband and father.
I didn't tell her despite the real reasons of my family, after all, one day husband and wife, I still have some feelings for her, and I don't want to hurt her heart. However, I really have no interest in her now, and unless she can get back in shape, we have no future at all.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="13" > 35-year-old Mr. Sun: I love my wife, and I like how fat she is </h1>
Modern society, is indeed a society with a good appearance, many men in love to find a partner, are on the woman's appearance and figure have high requirements, all hope to find an angel face, devil figure of the woman.
After marriage, some men even choose to divorce their wives because of their declining appearance and out-of-shape.
Although most men are visual animals and care about women's appearance and body shape, not all men are like this, and I am one of the exceptions. I think that a woman's appearance and figure are not the most important, after all, no matter how beautiful the face, it will also become older with time, and even the most perfect figure will become fat with the birth of children, which is a fact that cannot be changed.
As the saying goes: good-looking skin bags are the same, interesting souls are one out of a hundred.
The charm brought by a woman's appearance and figure is temporary, and it will change after all, even if the wife is beautiful, the man will eventually have a tired day. Only the connotation and cultivation of women are eternal and unchanging, and they are the source of women's eternal charm.
My wife is like this, after giving birth, her figure quickly changed shape and became a small fat mound. However, my love for her has not diminished, because I love her as a person, not her appearance and figure, so no matter how fat she is, I like it.
My wife is a very connotative woman, she likes to read, she also likes to travel, and she also writes well in calligraphy, and I think this is her greatest charm and the place where I am deeply fascinated by her.
Gold has no feet, no one is perfect. Every woman has her own shortcomings, but also has its own shining points, men need to have a pair of eyes that can find beauty, can see the charm of their wives, only in this way can the marriage of two people last.
Conclusion:
Through the self-statements of the above two men, we can see that men's feelings about their wives becoming fat are different.
Some men pay more attention to visual effects, very much mind that their wives are out of shape, and do not want to see their wives become fat. Some men pay more attention to soul fit, do not pay so much attention to the appearance of their wives, and do not complain too much about their fat wives.
In fact, a woman at different ages, whether it is appearance or connotation, will undergo great changes, can not be set in stone.
After all, no matter how beautiful the face, it can not withstand the invasion of the years, men should change their mentality at any time, and strive to see the shining point of the wife, so that the marriage can be truly happy.