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The climax of the TV series "Wang Baojun and Xue Pinggui" should be the scene where the two meet each other 18 years after each other.
I thought it was the two of them crying with headaches, each telling their own experiences in the past 18 years, of course, mainly Wang Baojun, after all, her encounters were relatively poor.
Ben is Miss Qianjin, who can enjoy a good life, but because Xue Pinggui has directly become a low-level figure, since then three meals a day have become a problem. However, she was obsessed and vowed to wait for Xue Pinggui to return.
Now that her wish had been granted, the person she loved the most had indeed come to her on a high-headed horse. All her efforts have been rewarded, at this moment, how can she bear it? How can you bear not to recount your past?
After all, Xue Pinggui is the support of her life for many years.
However, imagination is a beautiful thought, reality is cruel.
Xue Pinggui, who has been pampered for many years, did not recognize his lover at first sight? After recognizing it, he was worried that Wang Baojun could not guard the cold kiln for many years, and even thought of testing her?
Wang Baojun, who learned the truth, had to sob secretly. Over the years, she has cried too much because of life, because she misses her lover, because of her fear of the future. But only this time the crying was uncomfortable, only because the man who said he wanted to shelter her from the wind and rain did not believe her?
In real life, there are too many women like Wang Baojun, who are not afraid of the shape of the body in order to be able to give birth to the crystallization of their lovers; in order to make their lovers eliminate the fatigue of the day, their hands that never touch the spring water are soaked in the water day by day; in order to make their little family more and more warm, they work all day long.
In the day-to-day labor, their bodies gradually deteriorated, and their state became worse and worse. Although they are willing, they are always worried that their husband, who has entered middle age, but still has a straight posture, will dislike her fat figure?
So would a middle-aged man mind a woman's figure?
For this question, I believe that you will understand after listening to the following men.
Mr. Zhang: Mind, can't accept
I often tell my wife that I don't mind her out-of-shape stature, after all, she has paid a lot for our family. But this is a lie, and every time I look at her fat body spinning around in front of my eyes, I find myself in no interest.
I hate myself like this, but I just can't control my eyes. Every time I go shopping with my wife, I can't help but look at the good-looking girl twice. For this reason, my wife criticized me more than once. I accepted it humbly at first, and then I dealt with it.
I know that my wife has given a lot for the whole family, but I have also paid! All these years, mortgages, car loans, etc. are all I am paying back. It was under such pressure that I remained in the same shape as before I got married. Why can't the wife?
In the beginning, I had euphemistically expressed my thoughts to my wife. But before he could finish speaking, she scolded him, saying that he in my story was not considerate enough, but gentle, there were many things, and he was particularly selfish.
In order not to listen to my wife's nagging, I told her against my will that no matter what she became, I would not care. The wife was particularly happy to hear it. Looking at her double chin, I couldn't figure out why Li Longji liked the fat Yang Yuhuan at that time? How beautiful is the skinny woman!
Mr. Lee: Don't mind, I love her soul
My wife is chubby, before marriage, and after marriage.
At first, the good guys saw my wife, and their eyes were full of teasing, saying that I was slim and how did I find such a fat girlfriend?
I think it's okay. When the two are together, if they only focus on appearance, then they will most likely end up separated. Because we're all getting older and not looking good.
So when I first looked for a girlfriend, I set the condition for my future partner: the soul should be interesting.
Looking closely at life, you will find that people in this life, in fact, there are not many wonderful moments, most of the time people live ordinary days, to support their families, to run for the house tickets. In such a boring life, if there is an interesting person around, the day will be much happier.
And my wife is such a person, she has a lot of fun things in her head, and I feel very relaxed with her.
I like her like this. So even though her figure doesn't meet societal standards, I still see her as the most important person.
Mr. Zhao: Some mind
My wife used to be very thin and slender, and walking with her I was worried that the wind would blow her away. For this reason, I have taken her to eat a lot of food, but she seems to be easy to thin and can't get fat.
Until she had a child, her figure quickly gained weight like a ball, and she never lost weight. Whenever I see her fat figure, I am extremely worried. It is said that after people become fat, the chance of getting sick will be higher. I hope that my wife can live a healthy, healthy, family and beautiful life.
But no matter how I told it, my wife couldn't listen to it. Say too much, just say I hate her. In fact, where do I hate her? I'm just worried that she's sick from being too fat.
Of these three men, the most unexpected should be the second and third men. Especially the second, his attitude towards women's figure has surprised many women.
It turns out that "I will love you no matter what you become" is not a woman's self-indulgent imagination, it is true.
Some men really don't care about your appearance, only about you as a person. As long as your soul is still the same as it was, then no matter what it becomes, he will treat him like a jewel.
Will such an answer make a woman who is worried that she is not liked by her husband because of her body shape is slightly at ease?
In fact, the slim figure does not only represent the external appearance, it also represents the perseverance and self-discipline of a woman.
Some actresses don't take long to get back to their original appearance after giving birth to their babies. It's not because they're thin, it's not because of God's favor, it's because they're self-disciplined enough to know the impact of a bad image on their careers, so they have to return to their original appearance no matter what.
Moreover, the figure is also closely related to health. It is true that studies have shown that people who are too obese have a higher chance of getting sick than normal people.
So whether they are worried about whether they will be rejected by men because of their out-of-shape, or out of health considerations, women should try to maintain a good body as much as possible, after all, health is their own.
If the man does not like it, even if he is slim, he will still choose to leave. For example, Luo Zijun in "The First Half of My Life", she has always attached importance to investment in external appearance, so she does not lose Ling Ling in both state and figure.
But Chen Junsheng still chose to leave her.
But Luo Zijun's investment in her appearance was not in vain, on the contrary, she gained a good body.
Therefore, smart women do not care at all whether men mind their own body, they simply do not allow themselves to lose their attitude, which is why they have become winners in life.
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