Do you mind if someone else makes their own jokes?

In the year of graduation from elementary school, due to the low score of the test, the teacher said to me in front of the whole class: "You look at your little score, there is not enough steamed buns to eat, there is nothing to do, the face is black like the bottom of the pot, and you can only farm in the countryside for a lifetime...!" The whole class laughed loudly, and my young mind seemed to shrink suddenly, feeling hurt self-esteem, ashamed, bowing his head and tearing, and his face burned hot to his neck. The teacher didn't hear a word clearly afterward. I've hated him for a long, long time since.

When I was eighteen years old, when I was a soldier in the army, between training, I assisted the clerks in the team to make a blackboard newspaper, and the squad leader suddenly stared at me and shouted: "Everyone else is pulling grass outside, you are quite good at finding a place to cool off, your face is so dark and afraid of the sun?" Hurry up! ”。 The clerk and the other squad leaders then laughed at the same time, and I laughed and ran back! Then you forget that your skin is a little darker than others. hehe. Rural people's skin is a normal phenomenon, I don't know why, at that time my skin seemed to be darker than others, it seemed to be dark and reflective, and it actually became a joke seasoning!

In fact, it is nothing to make a joke, and it is also a kind of generosity not to mind others making their own jokes. But I don't like to make jokes about others at will, for fear of embarrassing myself. I know that funny jokes make people happy, and it is also wisdom to appreciate jokes and humor wisely. Therefore, facing other people's jokes with a calm mind will not be easy to calculate. If we calculate it, it means that we can't afford to make that joke, and we can only get angry in exchange for ridicule. Of course, jokes can't be excessive, and excessive jokes often produce serious problems. A joke may make the other party angry, turn against each other, or even lose affection, and die without contact. Before you joke, find out if someone else can stand your jokes!

Friends, do you mind if others make fun of you, and how do you deal with it?