"The rich second generation in people's eyes, once an investment genius, has now become a greasy man of 30+."
From the first time Wang Sicong entered the public eye, he was crowned with countless labels, and behind each label was his bright side.
Rich second generation: Wang Jianlin's only son, casually take some pocket money from his father to start a business, that is, 500 million.
Investment genius: From forming a game team to entering the live broadcast industry, Wang Sicong never knew what a low-key thing was, and the initial investment seemed to confirm his investment talent.
Playboy: Not every rich person can be a playboy, Wang Sicong's girlfriend is the top stream in the live broadcast industry, whether it is appearance or figure, it is a first-class level, the key or the quantity, good quality.
Internet celebrity: Although Wang Sicong never admits that he is an internet celebrity, there is no doubt that his fame is much stronger than that of ordinary Internet celebrities.
But unconsciously, this once mercurial and rich man has now become a greasy uncle of 30+.
Judging from the recent "mutual tearing" incident between Wang Sicong and Zhang Yining, Wang Sicong has indeed lowered his position from the beginning and become a veritable greasy male image.
Zhang Yining's chat records with Wang Sicong have been widely disseminated by many short videos into "poems" and "songs", and the sentence "You know what liquid I am infusing, thinking of your night" has also become a laughing stem.
Regardless of the emotional entanglement of Wang Sicong and Zhang Yining, it also reveals a truth to us: 30+ people talk about marriage, it is really not suitable to talk about love.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="12" >01, people reach middle age, love is no longer a necessity</h1>
How many people in 30+ will be able to marry love? Most of the men in the 30+ are because they are old, the family is tight, the parents are anxious to hold their grandchildren, and some can't stand the sneers of the neighbors, so they simply find someone to marry.
And 30+ women, in the marriage market lost the advantage, but we are always self-hypnotic, saying that what "are waiting for the right people" and "do not want to be", but in the end, it is not the same as waiting, and chose to "marry".
Maybe your marriage is indeed happy at the moment, but it doesn't mean that in the marriage market, the vast majority of people are happy, on the contrary, just look at the divorce rate that climbs every year to show that most people are actually not happy.
After thirty years of age, we still have the luxury of meeting love, if the other party is too young, it is that we are too naïve. After all, 30+ people, which are not in the society for many years, by the hammer of life countless times, all are the same as the human spirit, who will be stupid enough to talk to you about love.
So in the end, it is better to be blunt and talk about the conditions more painfully.
Maybe before the age of thirty, we can be willful, we can look for love, because at that time everyone is still very ignorant, but after the age of thirty, everyone has passed the childish age, and the right to happiness is no longer extravagantly handed over to each other.
So you will find that the love in your twenties is to work together to make money and travel together; and the love at the age of thirty is that you have to have a house, you have a car, you also have to have a deposit.
For people in the 30+, love is no longer a necessity, there is something to add to the icing on the cake, and it is harmless to have nothing to do.
Talking about marriage is talking about marriage, don't pull love, love for people of this age, not to say that it is a comedy, in the end it is easy to become a tragedy.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="22" >02, talk about marriage, hurt love</h1>
It's graduation season again, which means it's breakup season again.
It is said that the love in college is worth remembering, beautiful and sweet, but after graduation, it will still face a breakup, because of the distance, because of different ambitions.
However, when we go to society to work hard for a few years, we still think of the love in college, when the love did not want anything, and the love at that time was called sentient drinking water.
And love in society, mixed with too many things, how much money you make in a month, how much bride price you can give me, whether your family conditions are superior, etc., these are all criteria for judging whether I should love you or not.
The previous love was simply like, and now the love has long become muddy.
People who have worked in society for several years, how many couples are separated when talking about marriage, how many couples choose to break up because of tens of thousands of dowries, countless.
Is it that we don't love enough? In fact, it is not, it is that our love is not pure enough.
There are too many things mixed in our love, money, desire and even a way back, so we dare not gamble easily. We often say that talking about money hurts feelings, and talking about feelings hurts money.
The same is true of marriage and love, after we go to society, talk about marriage, hurt love; talk about love, hurt marriage.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="32" >03, rationality vs sensibility</h1>
In rural areas, 30+ unmarried young people have already begun to marry second-married women, which was unimaginable before.
What kind of guy would want to marry a second-married woman? But now, if you don't marry, then you're doomed to be a bare stick.
It is not discrimination against women who are married twice, but the traditional thinking at that time had to make us weigh whether a marriage is worth it or not.
This is reality, reality is reason, and reason will always take a more active position. Between reason and sensibility, reason is obviously closer to reality, and it is easier for us to see the situation in the present.
30+ men, if they have no ability, are fantasizing about going to society to find love, unless you can really coax and cheat, you can coax the little girl who has just entered society, otherwise this is in vain.
And a 30+ woman, if there is no posture, still fantasizes about finding a diamond king old five, using marriage to cross classes, then what awaits her is either lonely or married to a poorer and worse man.
Sensibility tells us that we should live for ourselves and should not be satisfied; and reason tells us that we are not celebrities, not rich families, we are ordinary people, we should accept the most ordinary way of life.
Whether it is rational or emotional, we should actually have the courage to accept reality and the consciousness to insist on ourselves.
Voltaire said: Inability to love people and inability to be loved are the two great deaths of life.
Some people only have emotion in their hearts, irrational, so impulsiveness is synonymous with these people, if they are lucky, they can harvest happiness at the time, and if they are unlucky, they will stumble all their lives.
Some people only have reason in their hearts, and all things have a standard, such people live open-mindedly and transparently in the eyes of others, but in fact, they have never felt the real heartbeat.
Rationality and sensibility are actually two sides of our hearts, we are sometimes rational, sometimes emotional, so we have emotions, greed, hatred, hatred, hatred and hatred.
The book writes: Love cannot be forgotten, romantic love, realism married.
This is perhaps the reason why most happy families come to an end, and when our rationality and sensibility conflict and contradict, we may as well ask ourselves what we really want.
Virginia Woolf once said: Great souls are hermaphrodites.
In the world of feelings, we should also have such a great soul.