Every child is a seed growing slowly, some are towering trees, some are a micro grass Wukong Q&A has a question of more than 3 million reading, slowly find that the child's nature is cool and thin, what to do? Recently, the topic of children's cold nature has attracted much attention, and many parents cannot stand their children's indifferent behavior, so they are deeply worried about it, lest their children become selfish people. Nowadays, children are afraid of the snow falling on others, and not everyone can see it. We can't empathize with the joys and sorrows of others. Hold the child more, the child will not let us hold it when it grows up. Experience more of the joys and sorrows of children's growth, chickens flying and dogs jumping, children grow up, they will gradually drift away from us. And we can only leave those little memories, whether they are annoying or happy, they are precious!

<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > Goku Q&A has a question of more than 3 million readings, and slowly finds that the child is naturally cold and thin. </h1>

<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > recently the topic of children's cold nature has attracted much attention, and many parents cannot stand their children's indifferent behavior, so they are deeply worried about it, lest their children become selfish people. </h1>

However, many times we forget that children are slowly growing, but we exaggerate their current behavior, and we are pulling up seedlings, and we want our children to become overnight.

Chinese parents are the most difficult group of people to live in the present, and they are a group of people who are supported by future expectations.

So parents want their children to be well-behaved, sensible, 100% academic, and versatile. But a seed also needs to be moistened by rain and dew, and it can only blossom and bear fruit after spring, summer, autumn and winter.

Parents do not want to experience the cultivation of sunrise, do not want to experience the face of the loess back to the sky, just want to skip the process of children's growth with one click, harvest sweet fruits, how is it possible?

My daughter has gone to college, and in retrospect, in the process of growing up, she unconditionally accepts the child's "indifferent" behavior, and selfless love can make the child grow up slowly.

< h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > today's children are socially fearful</h1>

When we were young, we grew up playing crazy with children in the hutong, and we could mix meals in the east house and write homework in the west house.

But most of the children now write their homework alone at home, facing only their parents, grandparents, etc.

Therefore, when they face relatives who can only meet once a year or relatives who can only meet once a few years, it is inevitable that they will not have a sense of closeness, cannot play with the children of relatives, cannot tolerate the touch of relatives, and are unwilling to play the piano and sing to relatives.

My daughter's last favorite thing is to take a photo with her relatives, every time she faces this situation, she can hide and hide, but she can also take a picture with a face, without smiling. Therefore, I was often taught how this child did not recognize the six relatives.

But after she went to college, she would also say hello and chat with her uncle on the phone;

He will also bring small gifts to his grandparents during the holidays, a silk scarf, a piece of spectacle cloth, and patiently talk to his grandparents about school;

When she sees someone on the bus who has not given up her seat to a pregnant woman, she will speak up and remind the person sitting to give up her seat to the pregnant woman.

Therefore, the "indifferent" behavior of children, it is just that they are not used to it, do not know how to face social relations, we can not ask children to be like adults, hide their feelings, eight faces exquisite.

If parents want their children to be warm to their relatives, buy a courtyard and live together.

<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > snow that falls on others, not everyone can see. We can't empathize with the joys and sorrows of others. </h1>

<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > hold the child more, the child will not let us hold it when it grows up. Experience more of the joys and sorrows of children's growth, chickens flying and dogs jumping, children grow up, they will gradually drift away from us. And we can only leave those little memories, whether they are annoying or happy, they are precious! </h1>

#愿孩子慢慢长大 #

#听听孩子的成长之痛 #