Ping Xintao, the husband of the famous writer Qiong Yao, died of heart and lung failure on May 23, 2019, at the age of 92.
After everything from Jane, Qiong Yao used a beautiful and elegant flower burial method to bid farewell to the man she had loved for half a century, which was quite poetic.
Since then, Qiong Yao, Ping Xintaoqi and the original Lin Wanzhen have been feuding for half a century, because the life of this center of contradiction has ended.
Qiong Yaohua buried Ping Xintao
According to Ping Xintao and his original son Ping Yun, on the morning before his father's death, his sister went to the hospital to see his father and found that he was in good shape, and then left the hospital and returned home to eat with his mother Lin Wanzhen, and the mother suddenly said: You tell him, I forgive him, not angry. “
As a result, Ping Xintao died that night.
At the last moment of his life, he finally gained the forgiveness of the original partner for his abandonment of his wife and children( daughters).
The flower burial of Ping Xintao was also completed by Qiong Yao and her original son Ping Yun. Pingyun also changed his previous anger and dissatisfaction with Qiong Yao, and quite easily expressed to the media that he "wished her well for the rest of her life." “
Previously, some media speculated that the original Lin Wanzhen family and Qiong Yao would trigger a property grab war because of #Ping Xintao's inheritance distribution, but it did not happen, because as early as 2010, Ping Xintao made a will to distribute the property under his name.
Ping Yun, the son of Ping Xintao and the original Lin Wanzhen, said that his father's industrial distribution was very comfortable, and it was completed according to his father's will: Crown Group returned to Ping Xintao and several children of the original match as usual, and the villa where Qiong Yao and Ping Xintao lived before his death belonged to Qiong Yao, about 600 million yuan, and Crown Pictures also belonged to Qiong Yao.
The smooth dispatch of the industry has resolved all the contradictions that were once there, and now that the Si people have gone, the original match who was hurt by him has also chosen to forgive, and the enmity between right and wrong has ended, and everything seems to be quiet.
It's just Qiong Yao's side of the box, but there are thousands of grievances that are eager to spew out. After Ping Xintao's death, Qiong Yao posted a long article mourning her deceased husband on social media, with sadness, tears, pain, love, and bitterness.
Qiong Yao mentioned in the eulogy that she has been with him for so many years, she has been putting up with it:
"This society, on both sides of the marriage, is unfair. I have been silent about the denigration of me. silent! Xintao, I have only recently realized many truths. Silence is gold, silence is Zen, silence is tears, silence is love. Silence is even more "forbearance"! How much have I endured? Heaven knows, you know me. “
Qiong Yao said that in order to love him, she couldn't bear to cry, but Ping Xintao's original partner had also published a book before, revealing the huge harm caused to her by Qiong Yao's extramarital affair with Ping Xintao, and she was also enduring!
Both women said that they had been endlessly wronged for this man, who was putting up with it, and who was hating it?
The love-hate entanglement between Qiong Yao and Ping Xintao and Lin Wanzhen lasted for half a century.
Lin Wanzhen is the original match of Ping Xintao, she came from a rich family, her talent and appearance are good, and she can paint well. After marriage, she gave birth to 3 children for Ping Xintao, and when Ping Xintao founded Crown Culture, she contributed money to support her husband's career development.
Ping Xintao founded Crown Magazine in 1954 and Crown Publishing House in 1965. Qiong Yao, whose original name was Chen Zhe, was born in Hengyang, Hunan Province, and was born in Chengdu, Sichuan.
In 1963, Qiong Yao began to become popular because of the novel "Outside the Window" and knew Ping Xintao, and with the full help of Ping Xintao, Qiong Yao quickly ushered in the first golden period of her career.
Ping Xintao, who has an extremely keen sense of smell in the publishing industry, discovered the huge commercial potential value of Qiong Yao, desperately encouraged Qiong Yao to write books to make money, and exerted the charm of men, tempting Qiong Yao to start a business with him, double partner, and become his cash cow.
The following year, Qiong Yao ended her previous marriage and moved to Kaohsiung to write under the arrangement of Ping Xintao. She began serializing novels in the "Crown" magazine founded by Ping Xintao, which became a hit.
Qiong Yao in her youth
In 1966, Crown Publishing House published Qiong Yao's "Six Dreams", together with several of her famous works "Smoke and Rain", "Several Degrees of Sunset Red", "Silk Flower", etc., which belonged to one of the earliest Qiong Yao publications on the market, and soon became popular.
Ping Xintao and Qiong Yao joined hands, began to on the basis of the success of publications, jointly opened the Qiong Yao film era to create, in the mid-to-late 1970s, Qiong Yao himself intervened in film shooting, vigorous, stars like clouds, and now, after more than 60 years of development, Crown Culture Group has developed into a company that includes diversified businesses such as text publishing, audio publishing, film, television, galleries, small theaters, dance classrooms, and modern dance troupes.
In the more than 10 years that the two have known each other, Ping Xintao has comforted Lin Wanzhen and had 3 children with her, while promising Qiong Yao that he will divorce and marry her in the future.
Lin Wanzhen was once very distressed after being snatched from love by Qiong Yao's horizontal knife, and even wanted to jump off the bridge to commit suicide.
At the beginning of qiongyao's family intervention, qiongyao was also criticized by the outside world.
However, she continues to publish articles, showing the love between her and Ping Xintao, which is more touching than novels, especially with the continuous popularity of her novels and TV series, her fame is like the sun in the sky, and she and Ping Xintao have almost become the "national couple" in people's minds.
In front of the "national lovers", Lin Wanzhen is as annoying as "Little Three", and people feel that she hinders Qiong Yao's true love, so she has received countless threatening insult letters and dead rats.
This seems to confirm a sentence: "In love, the person who is not loved is Xiao San." ”
But Rao was like this, Qiong Yao and Ping Xintao's unclear Guan Ito continued, and Lin Wanzhen also endured peacefully for more than ten years. Ping Xintao constantly promised Qiong Yao: When the child reaches adulthood, he can understand his feelings, and he will be with her.
In the end, Ping Xintao did choose Qiong Yao, who would make money.
In 1976, Ping Xintao divorced his wife. In 1979, after 16 years of entanglement between Ping Xintao and Qiong Yao, he finally married Qiong Yao, and it is said that Qiong Yao's grandmother's road to rectification was also full of bumps.
Qiong Yao and Ping Xintao
After letting go, the three of them did not feel well with each other.
In 2016, Ping Xintao was hospitalized for stroke dementia, and the tissue area of necrosis after his stroke was as high as 11×8×3 cm. He wrote in his will: "When I am critically ill, please do not send me to the intensive care unit. I don't want any tubes and medical appliances to keep me alive."
Qiong Yao therefore did not want to insert a nasogastric tube for Ping Xintao, and wanted to let him die with dignity. This move was met with fierce resistance from Ping Xintao and the three children born to the original match, and the eldest son, Ping Yun, denounced on Facebook that Qiong Yao was not attentive enough to his father, and that taking care of his father depended on summoning "1 secretary, 2 caretakers, and 1 servant".
At the same time, Ping Xintao's children believe that their father's "dementia" is not "critically ill", so the requirements in the will are not valid, they believe that Qiong Yao just can't accept her husband's dementia, because her husband can no longer say "I love you" to her, he feels that he is a "soulless body", so he is unwilling to continue to let him "live".
In the face of criticism, Qiong Yao had already "predicted" on Facebook: "Thinking about the next step, people all over the world will probably know that I will not intubate Xintao." I could hear that I had become the conversation material after dinner: 'Do you know that Qiong Yao?' When she first robbed someone's husband and lived a good life for decades, when Ping Xintao was old and dementia, she didn't want to take care of him and wanted him to die! I think of the four words that Ruan Lingyu left behind before she died, "Fearsome words"..."
In the end, she showed weakness in this war of words, and publicly said to Ping Xintao's children, "I'm sorry, I was wrong." And returned the husband to his children.
She said bitterly: "I am now gray in my thoughts, and I no longer believe in human affection, and the feelings between me and your father for more than fifty years have become pale and weak under your attack!" And lamented that "his life has failed."
At the end of 2017, after the conflict with Ping Xintao's children escalated, Qiong Yao made a public appearance and announced that she would reclaim the copyright of 65 of her books and no longer hand them over to Ping Xintao's Crown Publishing for distribution.
According to Qiong Yao herself, she did not sign any licensing contract with Crown Magazine to distribute the book to Crown purely because of the "agreement of peace and love".
In 2018, 88-year-old Lin Wanzhen, on the eve of the first publication of her memoir "Past Floating Light", "silence for 50 years, finally speaking out", she revealed how Qiong Yao gradually intervened in her marriage with Ping Xintao, and for the first time brought the emotional entanglement of Ping Xintao, Lin Wanzhen and Qiong Yao to the table from the perspective of the original match.
In the first half of the book "Past Floating Light", Lin Wanzhen tells the story of her acquaintance and love with Ping Xintao and the joint creation of the Crown Publishing House, and the second half is the calm life of a family of five being involved by Qiong Yao.
Lin Wanzhen recalled that she and Ping Xintao met when they worked at the Taiwan Fertilizer Company, and Ping Xintao read the plot of the entire novel of "The Count of Monte Cristo" to her, but Lin Wanzhen said that "you are not my ideal object", Ping Xintao was not convinced, and wrote a note "Once the sea was shipwrecked as water, except for Wushan is not a cloud", the two finally came together. Soon, Ping Xintao founded Crown Magazine, "When others take their girlfriends around to play, my girlfriend, dating is to help him pack books, help him deal with subscribers, from before marriage to after marriage."
And all this changed after Qiong Yao appeared.
Regarding this past, Lin Wanzhen once said with indignation: "My name is Lin Wanzhen, the students call me Teacher Lin, and the media calls me Ping Xintao's ex-wife." Forty years ago, we signed a small, fifteen-centimeter divorce certificate, and soon the title of 'Mrs. Ping' was changed to another person..."
In this regard, Qiong Yao has other views, she once responded: "It doesn't matter whether it is a third party or a small fourth, the third party in the marriage is blamed on the man." ”
In this love triangle for more than 10 years, in fact, Ping Xintao has always "enjoyed" the immoral life of "two women and one husband", but let Qiong Yao and Lin Wanzhen argue and tear each other apart.
Objectively speaking, Lin Wanzhen and Qiong Yao are both victims of this emotional whirlpool.
As the original match, Lin Wanzhen is not inferior to Qiong Yao, whether from appearance or talent, and gave birth to 3 children with her husband, fully supporting him to start a business, but when she reaches middle age, she is still not exempt from the fate of being abandoned by the middle way.
Lin Wanzhen, Ping Xintao and three children
And Qiong Yao herself, while becoming Ping Xintao's money-making machine, was also hanged by several of Ping Xintao's children and husband on the eve of her 80th birthday, writing a big character newspaper saying that she was "little three".
In the process of her long-term struggle for Ping Xintao, Qiong Yao also laughed at herself as "thin life pity Qing Gan as a concubine", which can also be called a deep and deep.
Qiong Yao and Ping Xintao
Qiong Yao herself struggled for half a century for this shocking love, and was also scolded by the outside world for a lifetime, how did she herself view this relationship?
Shortly after Ping Xintao's death, Taiwan media exposed a group of interviews recorded in advance by Qiong Yao.
In the program, Qiong Yao said the news of her husband's death, she talked about her husband inserting a nasopharyngeal tube in the program, revealing that she had been unable to get out of the pain at that time, and even wanted to cut herself off, for the "deformed love" with Ping Xintao, Qiong Yao said bluntly:
"In my life, this word of love has hurt me, I will be loved and loved, he initially pursued me, I think he should not pursue me, especially my parents are very conservative, it is impossible to accept themselves." 」
Entangled for more than fifty years, this hard-won marriage ended in the way of Qiong Yao#self-denial, she said:
"Such love is too tragic! Even if there is an afterlife, I don't want to do it again! ”
In the world, after all, you can't escape the worldly world.
Whether it was the original Lin Wanzhen who laughed and cried, or the later Ren Qiongyao who cried and laughed, only Ping Xintao, who enjoyed the blessings of the Qi people, was always laughing.
He shrewdly borrowed the strength of two women to lay a huge Ping's industry for distribution, under the benefits, the children were still his children, and the original match finally forgave him, and Qiong Yao, who bore the insult of half a life, also accompanied him in the second half of his life.
Only this man, unscathed, became the biggest winner.
Author: Li Xunhuan, pay attention to [Li Xunhuan's jianghu], from the perspective of emotion, for you to deeply analyze the human nature of vientiane.