Zhang Ailing said: The passage to the depths of a woman's soul is love.
When women reach a certain age, they are often more self-aware. When you are young, you may feel like a princess. So everyone had to spoil her and let her. In middle age, women will understand more deeply that even if she is beautiful and beautiful, she is just a princess of some people.
Tong Chenjie is a woman who is both emotional and rational.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="6" > the family of origin</h1>
Tong Chenjie was born in Shanghai in December 1981. Tong Chenjie grew up in a single-parent family, she does not have the inferiority of single parents, but is confident and generous, and has strong empathy and insight.
At the age of 20, Tong Chenjie won the third place in the Shanghai International Fashion Model Award and the Lycra Fashion Model Award. Because of the work of a supermodel, Tong Chenjie realized life prematurely.
Because supermodels often have to work abroad, every time they get on a plane, the luggage can only have a quota of 20 kilograms. At a young age, Tong Chenjie understood a truth: there are some things that need to be given up, and there is no need to keep them.
The original family and work have made Tong Chenjie develop a confident and transparent personality, and she can always explore everyone's strengths and weaknesses.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="12" > 38 years old in Shanghai without a house inferiority</h1>
Wei Wei was born in Harbin, Heilongjiang Province, and graduated from the Central Academy of Drama. In October 2005, at the age of 22, Wei Wei joined Hunan Jingshi as a host.
The following year, Wei Wei starred in his first film. In this year, Wei Wei, who was the host of Mango Tv, also starred in a self-made idol drama in The Station. Mango Tai is still quite important to Wei Wei, who is handsome in appearance and cheerful and lively.
In 2007, Wei Wei starred as the male lead of the first TV series in his life.
Wei Wei's acting path has always been smooth, but it is not tepid. The career is not satisfactory, but the love is very sweet.
On November 11, 2014, Wei Wei released his marriage certificate with Tong Chenjie. On November 8, 2015, Wei Wei and Tong Chenjie held a wedding in Changsha, and Wang Han also attended the wedding as a witness.
Tong Chenjie is a native of Shanghai, and her marriage to Wei Wei was her second marriage.
Since being with his wife Tong Chenjie, Wei Wei has also slowly shifted the focus of his career to Shanghai. In this marriage, on the surface, Tong Chenjie was very accommodating to Wei Wei, but in fact, he paid more.
Wei Wei, 38, is a foreigner who does not buy a house in Shanghai, he lives in his wife's home. Under such circumstances, Wei Wei is very inferior in his heart, don't underestimate the self-esteem of men.
Career does not meet the inner requirements of the self, it will form a pull. Typical abilities can't keep up with the horizon and can't change themselves.
This also made him develop the habit of drinking. Wei Wei usually likes to drink very much, and he can't help but organize a game to drink, and once he drinks, he will not drink until two or three o'clock in the morning.
The reason why he loves to drink is because in the real world, when many problems cannot be solved, he can only temporarily paralyze and escape in the world of alcohol.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="27" > he was 100 times better than my ex-husband</h1>
In the face of her husband's alcoholism, whether this marriage can still go on, Tong Chenjie's heart is also complex and collapsed.
Compared with Wei Wei's naivety and simplicity in life, Tong Chenjie is obviously like a combination of "mother, sister and wife". When Wei Wei drank until 3 a.m., she was actually not angry, and when she came home, she would cook a supper for him to eat.
When Wei Wei proposed to have a child to deeply bind the relationship between the two people, she directly denied it. On the one hand, Wei Wei was not mature enough to be a father. On the other hand, Wei Wei loves to drink, and is not suitable for pregnancy and childbirth.
In three ways, Tong Chenjie does not want to let her child be born in this way because of her husband's childishness.
Tong Chenjie has always been a mature, transparent and wise woman.
To love you is to love even your feet. This was Tong Chenjie's love for Wei Wei. Tong Chenjie used to hate people being barefoot, but she could tolerate Wei Wei doing this.
She saw Wei Wei's dedication to her, such as Wei Wei's coming to Shanghai for her, accommodating everything she had. This was also the reason why Tong Chenjie was not angry after Wei Wei drank.
Of course, Wei Wei also has a warm side on his body, and he can always find some small details that make Tong Chenjie moved.
In this world, understanding is more important than love.
In Tong Chenjie's eyes, even if Wei Wei is not mature and excellent, she still thinks that Wei Wei is 100 times better than her ex-husband.
Come and pick up Tong Chenjie's ex-husband, whose ex-husband is former international Xie Hui. On December 7, 2004, Tong Chenjie and Xie Hui got married in Shanghai, a huge wedding. The wedding banquet is also very innovative, and the table is lit with orange candles, which looks joyful. Hi Sugar is also very creative, and guests eat two sticks of sugar per person.
Unexpectedly, this marriage did not come to an end with an old age. On April 18, 2011, Xie Hui publicly admitted to the divorce for the first time.
The divorce was accompanied by a $3 million breakup fee dispute. It turned out that Xie Hui's two houses in Shanghai were purchased before marriage in 2004 and belonged to premarital property.
Later, he invested in business in Germany, but all this had nothing to do with Tong Chenjie. Entering the fitness club, only the name of Xie Hui was written, and Tong Chenjie was just a spokesperson.
But Tong Chenjie's modeling agency is really xie hui's shares. Therefore, Tong Chenjie asked for 3 million yuan in breakup fees, which seemed reasonable to many people, but was rejected by Xie Hui.
In this marriage, there is only one perception in Tong Chenjie's impression: marriage is made for outsiders to see. On the surface, it is very loving, but the inside is already full of lice.
Unlike her ex-husband Xie Hui, after Tong Chenjie's second marriage, she and Wei Wei are not only husband and wife, but also intimate lovers, and they will have intimate behavior. And the ex-husband is formalistic, there will be no intimate action, as if the marriage is for others to see.
It's like Guo Keyu will hug Zhang He again after the divorce. Tong Chenjie resolutely said that she would never have intimate actions with her ex-husband after marriage.
Wei Wei, in fact, he was not as bad as everyone seemed on the surface. One of his biggest strengths is that he likes to communicate. He believes that the most important thing for two people is to communicate, express their feelings, and let the other person know.
After 16 days of travel, he also realized his own problems and bravely faced himself. He promised to drink less in the future. As for the matter of having a child, he is no longer entangled, but wants to give his wife Tong Chenjie a greater sense of self-confidence and security.
As Hu Yanbin said: A person can have the courage to face his true self and no longer look for external excuses, which is a kind of growth.
Yes, Wei Wei really changed this time, and he did. He finally bravely faced his own problems and changed them.
Even if there are still variables in the future marriage, it is still willing to pay. This is Tong Chenjie's perception and acceptance of this marriage.
Met among thousands of people, TA understands your goodness, you understand his difficulties. Mutual understanding and common progress, this is the most beautiful appearance of marriage.