When we are young, we all want to meet a good relationship, and then we have the idea of "willing to be single-minded and never give up"
After seeing too many fickle things and fickle people's hearts, I can finally understand that not every pair of people who love each other can grow old in vain. Now, saying they love you doesn't mean they can love you for the rest of their lives.
Love is hurried, if a woman is prone to affection for a man, then she will have to bear the possibility of being hurt in the future.
After a failed relationship, Yao Lan met Lu Xiaobei, who was 7 years younger than her. When the two were together, Lu Xiaobei's vitality and enthusiasm attracted Yao Lan. And Lu Xiaobei is deeply infatuated with the mature and stable Yao Lan.
Yao Lan thought it was a warm and passionate love. As we all know, after getting along, many problems in this relationship have been exposed, such as differences in values, the mismatch of the rhythm of life, and the opposition of family members. After various problems arose, Yao Lan was exhausted and finally chose to break up.
If you love once, you will be hurt once; at the same time, the expectation of love will drop once.
The rest of life is too short to be worth wasting time for some worthless people.
Some people show deep affection in front of you, doesn't mean it's true, and promises to make you happy for the rest of your life.
Some people just covet the happiness in front of you, don't think about the future, and say that those commitments just want you to let down your guard. Some people just pretend to love you, and when there's no freshness, they just leave you mercilessly.
Imagine if you met such a person, when you saw his heart, could you love at all costs?
We think that moths put out fire to the attitude of love, but we don't know that such sloppy emotions will only embarrass us in the end.
When you grow up, you accumulate a lot of experience in life. In the face of love, you must also think carefully, see each other clearly, and plan the rest of your life. Don't give others the opportunity to hurt and deceive you easily.
The rest of life is too short, women should think more about themselves and plan more. How can we make the rest of our lives easier, happier, and freer? If accepting a relationship can make your life more tiring and cumbersome, why torture yourself?
It is often said that happy marriages are similar, and unhappy marriages have their own misfortunes. The same goes for love. People who are happy together all look the same, but unhappy people go there for many reasons. When it's easy to start a relationship, you have to accept the possibility that a lot of factors will happen in the future. After the love disappears, two people cannot get along as before, love cannot be hidden, and it is naturally difficult to pretend for a long time.
To feel love, you have to see with your eyes, you have to feel with your heart, not just with your ears.
When encountering love, we must first know how to distinguish and avoid harm. Good love should be grasped well, and bad love should be stopped in time, so don't waste time and feelings.
The rest of your life is too short, don't be easily emotional, add another unfortunate experience to your life, and bear another emotional hurt and blow.