Author: Han Xueli
Jia Mu and the eldest son couple have a general relationship, mainly Jia Shu hur, a large number of elderly granddaughters have, but also think of wanting the mother's Yahuan as a little wife, naturally too absurd, Jia Mu is angry, and the matchmaker is Lady Xing, Jia Mu of course has to count down, in this matter, Jia Mu actually still has a feeling and hair, criticizing Lady Xing, there is no one around to open her mouth, or leave enough face for Lady Xing. It is a normal mother-in-law relationship. For Lady Xing, as long as she did not commit trouble on Jia Mu's head, the old lady could give face.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="3" > (1) Jia Mu does not like the eldest son, and naturally has no good feelings for the eldest daughter-in-law</h1>
In fact, Mrs. Xing is tired of her husband, no way, sugar cane does not have two sweets, since she wants to mix with her husband, she must rush to the front, and receive a few words of criticism, which is what subordinates should do.
Jia Mu has never publicly criticized this eldest daughter-in-law, for this daughter-in-law who continues the string, in fact, she is polite for three points, knowing that Lady Xing is good at getting left sex, of course, can not be too strong, otherwise, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can not be maintained, the son is not reliable, and we must pay more attention to the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
If the two daughters-in-law, in comparison, are naturally of high quality to Lady Wang, at least Lady Wang is generous in money, will not be so stingy, and will not do things that are not in tune, but Jia Mu is actually more dissatisfied with Lady Wang, because Jia Mu and Lady Xing have no major contradictions, and there are no people and things to conflict with. Jia Mu simply felt that Lady Xing's quality was lower.
Mrs. Wang is different, Mrs. Wang is born high and has high quality, but Madame Wang and Jia Mu have different hearts, have their own small abacus, and Jia Mu's position is different.
And the trouble is that this daughter-in-law, impeccable, so it is difficult to pick faults, can only knock, such as Xue Baochao flattered Jia Muqiao, much stronger than Sister Feng, this topic, originally and Lady Wang, but Jia Mu wants to pull On Lady Wang, have to come to a sentence, much stronger than your aunt, meaning that Sister Feng is stronger than Lady Wang, which is equivalent to letting Lady Wang lie down on the gun, the topic of Baochao, it is embarrassing. If it is said that Lady Wang is stronger than Sister Feng, the only thing that is inferior to Sister Feng is that the instructions of Jia Mu are not enough to be implemented, and there are other plans for Bao Dai's marriage.
He also borrowed Mandarin Duck to refuse Jia Yu's marriage, and once again let Lady Wang lie down with a gun, saying that Lady Wang was filial piety and secretly calculating that filial piety was false, which made Lady Wang embarrassed in public, even more embarrassing than Lady Xing. Jammu is deliberate, this is her true mentality.
Jia Mu was deliberate, this time, she pretended to be confused, but in fact she was not confused.
She could not blame Lady Wang, Lady Wang was impeccable on the surface, that is, she did not like Daiyu, nor did she feel sorry for Daiyu in terms of treatment, Jia Mu could only take such an opportunity to express her anger and beat Lady Wang, hoping that this daughter-in-law would be more interesting and know her identity.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="12" > (2) from Qingwen's ridicule of Jia Mu's compromise with Lady Wang</h1>
In the relationship between Jia Mu and Lady Wang, it has always been Jia Mu's strong, this strong is decades, in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, in that era, naturally the mother-in-law has the upper hand, and Jia Mu's mother's family, a double wait, is also more confident than the Wang family. The Shi Hou family was more elegant than the Wang family at that time.
Madame Wang has always been relatively low-key, the style of doing things is more stable, just met Baoyu's matter, on the temperament changed greatly, which shows that Baoyu is Madame Wang's bottom line, can not give in to the bottom line, when encountering Baoyu's matter, it is easy to be emotionally impulsive, reckless, when a slap away from Jin Ju, forcing Jin Ju to jump the well is an example, which shows that In Madame Wang's bones, she is not a calm and brained person, and there are many ways to take away Jin Ju, at that time, impulsively picked people up, triggered countless rumors, and also had an impact on Bao Yu's reputation, which is the most stupid way.
Lady Wang on the issue of Qingwen, is also a big change in love, she has been respectful to her mother-in-law for many years, in a word, the old lady loves how to do it, but also tolerated for many years, allowing Baoyu Daiyu to get along, according to Mrs. Wang's character, fire prevention and theft prevention Daiyu.
This time, Qingwen was sent, but she did not consult with Jia Mu in advance, obviously overstepping her level, which was a sign of disrespect for the elders.
Such a thing, and Jia Yu calculated to marry a Mandarin duck, which more punched Jia Mu, I'm afraid, the weight of this matter is not low, but Jia Mu did not get angry, did not say, I like the person, you sent off, or simply send a doctor to see Qingwen to go, if Jia Mu has such an action, Qing wen may have a backer, have the opportunity to live.
It's just that Jia Mu is not, she is old in the end, it is impossible to send a boat of people with a shot, and the eldest son has a contradiction, has been centrifuged, and then for a ya ring, and a dispute with the daughter-in-law, naturally is not conducive to the stability of the family, she can't, tantrums also have to divide the situation, anyway, the current Jia Mu, can't help but share with a junior.
It's not that Jia Mu doesn't pay attention to Qingwen, the people she looks up to, sent to Baoyu, can she not value it, but things are heavy, people have nobility, in Jia Mu's eyes, Qingwen's weight is not as good as the face of the little daughter-in-law.
Jia Mu compromised, for the sake of the stability of the family, of course, there is also an element for Daiyu, but the biggest compromise is because she is old and does not have the strength to fight with the younger generations.
Jia Mu just smiled and chatted with Lady Wang dong and talked to the west, even the matter of attacking people, gave way, Qingwen gave up, just complete the attack, anyway, let Lady Wang be happy.
Jammu is compromised and mastered.
【About the Author】Han Xueli, a native of Shijiazhuang, loves poetry and has published works in publications such as "Writing Hu" and "Writers Club".
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