Dream of the Red Chamber is a "daughter" book. The men, except for Baoyu, are all supporting characters. But there are no small roles in life, and you can still live out the style.
The men depicted in the Dream of the Red Chamber are difficult to say. Talking about the alternative wonderful, the girls who do not lose the main book and the second book of the twelve gold nobiles.
Today, Xiaobian will discuss with readers and friends that in the dream of the Red Chamber, those men who have not been covered up by their daughters have "style".
Due to the limitation of space, the author will select several representative figures from them to analyze. Of course, by the current auditing standards, these people are ZNs.
The world of ZN is all-encompassing. Only more slag, no most slag. The slag is different, but it is also divided into three, six, nine and so on.
The two brothers of Rong Guofu, Jia Amnesty, who clearly marked the absurdity and lustfulness, and Jia Zheng, who is more scummy? I think the most qualified judge is their wife.
Jia Zheng and Jia Yu are brothers, but whether they are half-siblings or half-siblings. Old Mr. Cao did not say it explicitly in the dream of the Red Chamber.
In this regard, we can only boldly guess and carefully verify. Judging from the position of Jia Yu and Jia Zheng in rongguo mansion and Jia Mu's attitude towards the two people, it seems that they are not the same mother.
Jia Yu inherited the title as the eldest son, and it is said that he should also take over the stewardship. However, Jia Yu did not take charge of the Rongguo Mansion, but instead his younger brother Jia Zheng was in charge.
Even Jia Lian, the son of Jia Shu, followed his wife Wang Xifeng to help Jia Zheng's housekeeper. It has become a high-level running hall of Rongguo Mansion, universal glue, where it needs to be moved.
From this strange style of the Jia family, the author boldly speculates that Jia Yu is not the son born to Jia's mother. Jia Mu is just a concubine.
Even in the feudal society where three wives and four concubines were rampant, it was not a glorious thing for a concubine to be greater than a concubine. I think when Jia Mu was young, her marriage to her husband Jia Daishan was also a big drama.
This is not the author's imagination, but there is real evidence: Wang Xifeng's birthday, Jia Lian stole Bao Er's family, and was caught by Sister Feng.
Sister Feng used the strength of the wine to overturn the vinegar jar, crying and beating jia lian and Bao Er's family, and the two of them kept making trouble with Jia Mu.
While Comforting Sister Feng, who was playing with the theme, Jia Mu suppressed Jia Lian, who was annoyed and ashamed, and made this matter a big deal, a small matter.
When dealing with this matter, Jia Mu said with feeling: The child's family is young and hungry like a cat. The world has beaten this walk.
Jia Mu's words are worth playing, what Jia Mu really wants to say is the world, or herself? The latter, of course. This shows that what happened to Wang Xifeng was also experienced by Jia Mu when she was young.
Jia Daishan is a seed of affection, and he is also the kind of person who dares to blatantly trample on the rules. Therefore, there will be a matter of concubines being greater than concubines in rongguo mansions.
In the dream of the Red Chamber, although there is not much ink to mention Jia Daishan, with the origin of the second generation of Jia Daishanwu, he is likely to be a brave and fierce reckless man who does things recklessly.
After the second generation, the Jia family began the work of family style transformation. Because the world was too peaceful, it entered the stage of swords and guns, and entered the stage of Kuma and putting the South Mountain.
The imperial court that has stabilized the country and mountains needs the talent to govern the world. The warriors who can recruit good warriors are no longer popular, and they are also easily suspected by the emperor.
As a courtier, he must always adjust himself and surrender to the emperor's favor, in order to achieve the prosperity of the yongbao family and the prosperity of the official. The transformation of the Jia family thus came into being.
The transformation of the Jia family is superficially successful. In the third generation of the Jia family, the Jia family opened the world with Wu, and the shadow of the ancestral force pulling up the mountain was no longer there.
Although the skin has changed, the hereditary thing is very magical: although Jia Yu can't carry a gun and cross a horse, his father Jia Daishan's lustful habit has been completely inherited.
In the dream of the Red Chamber, the most detailed description of Jia Yu's lustful face is that Jia Yu wants to take Mandarin ducks as aunts. Jia Yu was responsible for watching people, and his wife Lady Xing was responsible for operation.
Jia Yu and Lady Xing originally thought that marrying Mandarin Duck as a concubine was very easy to talk to. Who wants to be a, who doesn't want to be a master?
The result was a slap in the face. Mandarin ducks are not at all rare as the "great future" described to her by Jia Yu and Lady Xing. He resolutely disagreed with making Jia Yu a concubine.
Mandarin Duck not only scolded the sister-in-law who was found by Lady Xing as a lobbyist, but also made a solemn oath in front of Jia Mu: he would rather become a sister-in-law than give Jia Yu a little wife.
The fact that Jia Pardon married a Mandarin duck was rejected made a lot of noise in the government. It has confirmed the true nature of Jia Pardon's absurd and shameless scum.
But Jia Mukou is not good at officialdom, is the left a small wife, the right a small wife's Jia Amnesty, compared with The looking serious Jia Zheng, more scum? not necessarily.
In marriage, who has the most say in evaluating a person's scum? Who has the most right to define? Not someone else, but his own wife.
Whether the shoes fit or not, only the feet know. In a marriage, one party scum and not scum, the degree of scum is the same, the other party has the most say.
On the surface, Jia Yu is very scummy, and Jia Zheng is very good. Jia Zheng not only looks serious, but the facts also seem to be serious.
In Jia Zheng's house, in addition to his wife Lady Wang, there was only one concubine room for Aunt Zhao. This is definitely a clear stream in the extended family.
But how much worse was Madame Wang's mental state compared to Madame Xing's? If Madame Wang is a body of many disasters and diseases, then Madame Xing is the perpetual motion machine of the dragon horse spirit and never tires.
In Rongguo Mansion, Madame Wang is like a bodhisattva. Usually less silent, low and obscure. In addition to making rules in front of Jia Mu, fulfilling the duties of a daughter-in-law is to worship the Buddha with one heart;
Perhaps some readers and friends will say: The reason why Madame Wang is like this is that she is introverted and does not like to move. If Madame Wang is like this by nature, of course no problem.
However, when Grandma Liu first went to rongguo mansion to fight the autumn wind, she clearly said that before Madame Wang got married and when she was just married, she was a person with smooth speech.
For Madame Wang's spirited spirit at that time, readers and friends can learn from another one, also from the daughter of the Wang family, Wang Xifeng.
Madame Wang used to be full of spring breeze and loved to talk and laugh. But after marrying Jia Zheng for about twenty years, he became a low-key and introverted person who did not smile.
The reason why Madame Wang's personality has changed greatly, from bright and cheerful to taciturn, shows that in the marriage between Jia Zheng and Madame Wang, Madame Wang did not live happily.
In this marriage, Madame Wang was clearly the consumed party. All the changes after a woman's marriage are closely related to the person next to the pillow.
After Madame Wang and Jia Zheng got married, they had three children, the eldest daughter Yuan Chun was outstanding in literary talent and entered the Fengzao Palace, and the eldest son, Jia Zhu, was also obsessed with copywriting and devoted himself to scientific research when he was alive.
In addition to Baoyu being spoiled, he became a stupid boy who did not like the secular economy. Mrs. Wang's two children are very good.
Judging from the requirements of feudal society for women, Madame Wang has almost achieved perfection. But why is such a perfect wife unhappy and her health getting worse and worse?
There is only one reason, that is, Jia Zheng's behavior led to The change of Lady Wang. Jia Zheng's impression in the eyes of outsiders is very good, and his reputation is also very good.
But such a person does not necessarily become a good husband. There is only one criterion for a good husband: whether the wife is relaxed and happy in the marriage, not depressed.
And all of this, Madame Wang did not have at all. It can be seen that Jia Zheng, who is serious and has a good reputation, has carried out cold violence against his wife, Madame Wang.
Cold violence in marriage requires no words or actions. A cold look, a disregard that can't be exchanged for attention no matter how hard you try, is enough.
Mrs. Wang, who feels the snub from her husband and is not appreciated by her husband, will naturally think that she is not doing well enough.
Madame Wang, who has lost her self-confidence, will be very mad. She can only try to get closer to her husband and improve in directions that he may like.
The final result is that Madame Wang has become two completely different people than before marriage. From a fast-talking girl to a middle-aged woman who is silent and has a withered heart.
Compared with Lady Wang, who has a strong family background and has two sons and a daughter, Lady Xing of Jia Shu has a family background and her own conditions are all in the ascendant.
Although Lady Xing was also born as an official eunuch, her mother died early and her father did not become a tool, and Lady Xing before she married was the top pillar of the family.
After marrying Jia Yu for many years, Lady Xing did not show anything. According to the rules of the ancients, Lady Xing, who had no heirs, violated the Seven Out of Seven Rules.
But Lady Xing, who did not open up branches and leaves for the Jia family, had no mother-in-law to rely on, did not want to see her mother-in-law, and had a poor reputation among the people, has always been a dragon horse spirit.
In the dream of the Red Chamber, Mrs. Xing, from the first appearance, is that her IQ is often offline, her eyes are basically gone, she has no heart and no lungs, and she can talk but has the appearance of her brain.
But at the same time, Mrs. Xing's body is great and energetic, like a perpetual motion machine that never tires. Living in the Rongguo Mansion is very free, very comfortable, and lives out of his own appearance.
Lady Xing was very greedy for money, so she plucked the hair and shaved everywhere. He also used his husband Jia Shu to be used as a cushion: he wasted uncontrollably, what if I don't save?
Lady Wang, who came from a high-gate family, looked down on herself, and Wang Xifeng, the daughter-in-law who was also from the Wang family, did not like herself, it didn't matter. Mrs. Xing has her own network of connections.
Lady Xing and Jia Zheng's concubine Aunt Zhao had a good relationship, and once helped Aunt Zhao out of her own identity, and Wang Xifeng was tough, and even Lady Wang's face was said to step on it.
Lady Wang was imprisoned in Jia Province, living a trembling life, while Lady Xing lived freely and wantonly.
Who gave Lady Xing such confidence? Of course, it is the husband Jia Amnesty. Yes, it is the big color wolf in the crowd, the absurd and shameless scum of the best.
When Lin Daiyu first entered the Rongguo Mansion and went to see her uncle Jia Yu, she was at Lady Xing's place and saw many beautifully dressed concubines.
It is a fact that Jia Yu was not single-minded and single-minded toward Lady Xing. As Lady Xing said: In a big family, there are many wives and four concubines.
In the time, the relationship between husband and wife could not be influenced by the warbler swallow who was a slave. Although Jia Yu would not love Lady Xing much.
However, Jia Yu did not suppress Lady Xing psychologically, nor did he harshly rebuke Lady Xing in behavior. This is the key to Madame Xing's happiness.
As a husband, Jia Yu did not blame Lady Xing for being out of nowhere, nor did he talk about Lady Xing's less shrewd personality and try to change.
Even Lady Xing, who clearly knew that she was a "money stringer", but pushed her husband out to block the arrow, did not investigate the innocence of the first-class general Jia Pardon.
As a husband, Jia Yu tolerated his wife's inadequacies and was willing to carry the pot for his wife. Don't try or ask your wife to change, let Lady Xing live as she wants.
Such a husband, even if he is lustful and the bunting flag is fluttering, as a wife, he will not feel snubbed and hurt, because this is the social system at that time.
Whether you can get the recognition and tolerance of the other half of the marriage and let the spouse be themselves in the marriage is more important than the so-called love, the so-called promotion of the other party, and the better self.
The marriage between Jia Yu and Lady Xing, Jia Zheng and Lady Wang, in that era, there was no possibility of understanding and falling in love before marriage, and even after marriage, there was no possibility of falling in love with each other.
But whether you can tolerate each other's shortcomings and deficiencies in the process of "partnering" to live a life, give each other full respect, and let the other party get free and happy in marriage is character.
At this point, the conclusion comes: Dear reader friend, you say that Jia Zheng, who looks like a serious book, and Jia Amnesty, a lustful person, who is more scummy?