In life, we are often seduced by the vigorous love stories in movies, always thinking that love is a feeling, and action is just an act of following the feeling. But what is important in a good love is often action, and feeling is just a sense of experience in action, a by-product of action.
<h1 class="pgc-h-decimal" data-index="01" > the feeling of love comes from action</h1>
A good love doesn't start out of thin air, and it doesn't end out of thin air.
Liking a person may start from looks or talent, or it may come from admiration or just because of an action or a sentence, but this is just a liking or unrequited love.
Love should always be a matter of two people, and the feeling of loving each other must come from action. Two people who love each other, at the beginning, may like each other, may not be cold, may even hate each other, and the feeling of love must be constantly corrected or changed in the bit by bit action.
In "Pride and Prejudice", Darcy has a good feeling for the intelligent and straightforward Elizabeth, but because of her inability to speak at a ball, Elizabeth is prejudiced against him, and Elizabeth is getting more and more prejudiced against Darcy because of the misunderstanding, but Darcy constantly writes letters to defend herself, and expresses her sincerity with actions by helping Elizabeth's eloped sister, and Elizabeth slowly recognizes her misunderstanding in action, and the two fall in love in their heartfelt actions.
Love has always been a matter of two people, and a good love must be produced in the continuous interaction of two people's behavior, and it is stabilized little by little, because two people who really love each other will definitely take the most positive actions to pursue their love.
<h1 class="pgc-h-decimal" data-index="02" > love is long-lasting by action</h1>
Good love is not a impulsive mistake, but a long-lasting entanglement.
Good love must be inseparable from the rich and poor; good love must be from the green silk to the elderly person to the white head and finally unrepentant; good love must be the unswerving determination of life and death.
How to make love "forever youthful", only action can ensure the longevity of love.
The 73-year-old Li Jinjiang and his wife have been in the same boat for more than 40 years.
The old man said of his philosophy of love: "When problems are found, they must be repaired in time, two people have lived together for a long time, and differences cannot be avoided, but they must be forgiven, understood, and tolerated." ”
Life is only a few decades, and it is impossible to have a lifetime without a little bump. If two people have a conflict, they will be separated, and they will not find reasons from themselves, and actively correct themselves to protect love, and who they will be with will not be too long.
<h1 class="pgc-h-decimal" data-index="03" > marriage is inseparable from action</h1>
Good love should have a good result, and that is the perfect love story.
My wife and I are junior high school classmates because she is smart and beautiful, and I remember that many boys in junior high school had secret feelings for her, and I was also one of the crushes, but she never knew it.
Later, we were admitted to different high schools and went to college in different cities. Occasionally thinking of her, I felt that I was just a heartfelt liking of adolescence.
For many years, we also talked about each other, but we didn't meet anyone who could get married. By chance, we had contact information with each other, began to recall the past in the beginning, complained about the difficulty of life, got along, I traveled to help her bring small gifts, I had a birthday she helped me order a cake, through continuous interaction, we further knew each other, loved each other, got married and had children, and now live a married life that is not rich but very happy.
Some people say that marriage is the graveyard of love, but really good love, their marriage must be happy.
In fact, in the continuous progress of society, only negative people take love as an irresponsible feeling. When love encounters setbacks, use the absence of feelings as a pretext for your unwillingness to act to maintain love. Using the concept in the movie that you don't have to be responsible for love — "because love is just feeling, buy love without feeling it," finding reasons for not being willing to be responsible for love, and constantly brainwashing yourself — I don't feel it anymore.
Proactive people express love with practical actions. The thoughtfulness of the couple lies in the actual action in life, the people who really love each other are formed into a virtuous circle of love through action, the more they love each other, the more willing they are to act for each other, the more they act, the more they love each other, this is not the most complete love story in real life?