One day, Liang Sicheng asked Lin Weiyin: Why me?
Lin Weiyin was stunned, smiled slightly and replied: The answer is very long, I need to use my whole life to answer, are you ready to listen to my answer?
Lin Weiyin is worthy of knowing men too well, she knows Liang Sicheng's past emotional experience, especially her entanglement with Xu Zhimo and Jin Yuelin, and she also knows that Liang Sicheng lacks self-confidence in front of his beauty and talent. This implicit and frank answer suddenly conquered Liang Sicheng.
The best state of life, don't dwell on the past, don't worry deeply about what didn't happen in the future, base yourself on the present, and do what should be done well in the present.
Sometimes I am worried about some things, but in fact, I know that I should let go, just hope that the feelings I give can be treated equally, if not, it is better to give up.
It's like "To Kill a Mockingbird" that there is a kind of person in the world who is only worried about the afterlife and does not learn how to behave in this life. You look down the street and you know what the consequences will be. ”
How many people think that they live a very clear life, but in fact, they have lived a lifetime. How many people are as sober as Miss Modi, but have to endure strange eyes. But so what? The water of the waves is clear and can be muddy; the water of the waves is muddy, and it can be muddy.
Zhuangzi said: "There are three major limitations in this life, which cannot be avoided and cannot be escaped.
Time limitations: Summer worms can not speak ice
The limitations of space: the well frog can not speak the sea
Physiological Limitations: Deaf People Can't Match the Sound of Bells and Drums"
Don't dwell on things that are different from what you know. In fact, each of our cognition of things is produced under certain objective conditions, and we must face the cognition of others to things with a more open-minded attitude.
We must take the initiative to reduce the limitations of time, space and physiology. The best way is to practice to gain direct experience, to learn to gain indirect experience.
Learn more, try new things, and improve your own understanding of things through the experience of others.
Be human, remember the goodness of others. Don't just see the badness of others, and don't be grumpy because of a small matter