No questions asked: how to face a cold and violent marriage

The movie is very exciting, there are many stories, the intention is profound, and the inheritance is a very important main line. But what I remember most is the marriage of Wang Minjia and Chen Peng's middle school Chinese teacher Xu Bochang, which makes me look really desperate.

One clutches at the promise of the past and does not let go of "you said it will always be good for me", one uses indifference and alienation to relieve his past promises, does not sleep in a bed, does not use the things she has used, does not fight, and even looks so unreasonable to outsiders, even almost crazy. The most subversive confrontation between the two people is that the teacher tears and shouts in the collapse, "Can't people change!" ”

"No!!"

What is this? Mutual revenge between two people? Eating ugly, torturing each other, even the last bit of warmth is consumed.

When his wife finally jumped into the well, Xu Bo often shouted for help at the well, and someone jumped into the well. This woman, around this man who does not love or even dislike her, has spent her life, leaving the best things to him, but she herself pickles soaked in water to eat, wash and cook for him, but can only exchange his cold eyes. He felt that Wang Minjia was the third child who destroyed the marriage, which indirectly caused Wang Minjia's death, but because he could not bear this guilt, he jumped into the well and committed suicide, and his tragic life ended.

In the context of that era, perhaps Liu Shufen did not consider the divorce at all, she stubbornly lived in the promise given by the teacher before, but people will change, when the teacher comes back from reading and finds that the two people have no common language, but they are trapped by affection, they can only live in this marriage like a zombie, and use cold violence to treat this woman who is dedicated to him.

I hope that all girls will not love a person so humblely, perhaps because the environment of the times at that time forced women to bet their lives on a man. Her anger came from him, torturing herself into a thorough patient in day-to-day cold violence.

Too pitiful, there must be something hateful about the poor. I hope that all girls in the world will not love someone like this without dignity. It is better to live a life that is better than to let go.