It is said that cohabitation is equivalent to trying to fall in love before marriage, and now the concept of marriage and love is more open than before, and cohabitation in love is not uncommon. However, it is difficult for people with emotional purity to accept this, and even more so, some people cannot accept their current state of cohabitation with others. If it were you, would you mind if your partner lived with his ex?
There are a lot of girls who have lived with their boyfriends for years and ended up breaking up. The years of youth they give are awkward, and their youth fades easily, so they are lost in time. The years can't wash away the memories of the past. Even if the people who were once intimate are no longer together, things still really happen.
Some people say they don't care about the ex, they don't care about cohabitation, just because they are possessive and hate being absent for too long, and letting the other half be with the wrong person.
I have seen a story before that a girl and her boyfriend have been in love for more than a year, even to the point of talking about marriage. As a result, the boyfriend found some things about the girl's ex at the girl's house and learned that the girl had lived with other men.
The two men had a big fight over the matter, and the girl felt that there was nothing she could not say. It is normal to fall in love and live together now, but boys are always unwilling to accept it, and even end up breaking up.
Although the two reconciled later, there was still a thorn in each other's heart.
A lot of people care that their partner has lived with an ex because they are insecure and possessive.
For lovers today, the difference between cohabitation and marriage is just a piece of paper. If the current and former cohabitations for more than three years, it is essentially marriage. They have a common circle of life and a common purpose in life. They may have met their parents. What's more, they have reached the point of talking about marriage.
Say you don't mind, how can it be, let yourself not mind, but the heart hurts so much that your heart and lungs are torn.
In a relationship, a sense of engagement is very important. People want to have the same starting point as their other half, with a full sense of engagement, rather than getting in the car halfway through.
But as we all know, time cannot be turned back, people cannot go back to the past, and the things that have passed are irreversible, and there is no power to push back the past.
But there are also different sounds. As long as it is true love, let alone cohabitation, the other party's divorce is not a problem. As long as you like others and others like you, their material conditions, spiritual communication, and physical fit are suitable, and this is enough. The so-called intention is that you don't like each other enough, but you are not confident enough.
Feelings vary from person to person, whether you care or not, communicate well and don't let this thorn stick in your heart all the time.