"The People You'll Meet" Series (1): Truncate The Head of the Conversation with the Head of the Bar

It's common for a colleague, friend, or family to have a discussion about a topic.

Among them, the most relaxed state of topic discussion is small talk: free, east and west, easy, comfortable, consuming boredom, exchanging what you see, complementary knowledge, this form of chat, not bad.

But when you participate in this kind of chat, you will also encounter a kind of person called talking and smashing the pit (sound shell.) His smashing, presumably because he was not familiar with the topic, or because he was unwilling to discuss it, or perhaps because he wanted to do it, he began to smash.

His smashing method is to intercept the head of the conversation, not to pick up the topic and leave it to another person to speak, otherwise, as soon as his words are exported, he is to lift the dead bar and put the topic to death. Haha, interesting, this kind of person.

This bar, in many states, has different effects. For example, if it is an elderly person or a leader colon, it will have a different effect.

For example, the small talk of the two people in a group, as long as one of them wants to bar, the topic cannot continue. Groups of three are better, because one person comes to fight and the topic will continue.

Seven mouths and eight tongues are the most lively, especially one to bar, one to the bar, the two people will fight up, do not give in to each other, straight fight red ears, breathless, still refuse to give up. Others have become lively, many of them add fuel to the fire, they are afraid of small things, fanning the wind, boosting the fighting momentum, haha, lively, very lively.

Those who love the bar, it is easy to get the glorious title of the head of the bar. As for cutting off the conversation hard and making the topic impossible to continue, it will feel very uninteresting.