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Have you ever found that most of life's troubles are anxiety about your own incompetence, confusion in your heart, and confusion in your brain.
And many problems, in fact, are because of financial situations, emotional interpersonal relationships.
This year, I practiced a month of minimalist life, the whole person is particularly relaxed, and life begins to become better.
So, sometimes, it's not that you don't choose, it's that you choose too much.
Wanting everything but not getting anything, time is wasted on choice anxiety.
As time passes and nothing is done, it becomes more anxious. This creates a vicious circle.
Do you want a good life? You must be just like me, eager to change yourself and get a good life.
So let's take a look at what changes my life has made this month of minimalism.
First of all, I collected some books on minimalist life. Clarified my purpose and process.
Minimalist living includes the environment, finances, interpersonal, and inner life.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" >, environment</h1>
People will be particularly comfortable in a clean and simple environment.
Especially when the heart is confused, when you enter the door and see that the room is chaotic, you will be more irritable.
Seeing simplicity and clarity, the heart will be healed.
So, reduce all kinds of desires. Throw away the things that are not commonly used in the home, idle products, and things that are cheap and difficult to use.
Don't keep it because you're upset about money. Or you can put the second-hand platform to sell.
I sold some of it, and the ones I couldn't sell were thrown away. Buy some new exciting must-haves.
To make the room, everywhere you go, is thrilling.
And, really when you strongly want something, God will come to you.
I was thinking, buy fine, do not buy more, but the price should also be grasped well.
There are friends who are doing live broadcasting, and I am very happy with her to take the wholesale price much better than the market price.
So when I stepped into the house, it was clean everywhere. Looking around, they are all items that I like very much.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > two, finance</h1>
Many people say that money is not saved, it is earned. That's true, but it doesn't apply to everyone.
If you are in the accumulation stage now and do not have the ability to make a lot of money, you can only save.
Don't listen to what to earn, it is right to earn, but you need to cross the stage of accumulation and then talk about earning.
Therefore, daily bookkeeping, recording financial status, where can be saved, save. If you can improve yourself, you can't save.
For example, before buying something, I will ask myself if I can buy this thing or not? If you don't buy it has no impact on life, if you have the idea that you can not buy it, it means that this thing is not unexpected.
I wouldn't buy it to burden my family. So this month, I'm spending half as much as before.
Minimalist living is not forcing yourself to buy nothing.
Instead, before buying something, think about whether you really need it, whether you are excited.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > three, interpersonal</h1>
People are social animals, and some people are irritable and want to find friends to party. Some people just want to be quiet, but they have to face a lot of socializing.
It's not that having more friends is good, but it's better to have more friends.
To clean up the interpersonal circle, I built a table, categorized as: girlfriends, often have connections, I want to know, dislike, nod friends.
Then analyze which people's gatherings can not go to, and those people need to chat with them more to learn.
Because people's time is limited, we can choose to be with happy people or people who can make ourselves grow.
And those who are unhappy and waste money and time, refuse, do not refuse because you are embarrassed.
I turned down 3 parties this month to save myself more time.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > four, inner</h1>
Sometimes a lot of problems are just internal problems.
Static can be fixed, and it must be able to produce wisdom. The heart can be quiet, and many things can be solved by yourself.
Therefore, we must also clean up our hearts. And I cleaned my heart and chose to read books. For example, "Meet the Unknown Self" and "Zero Limit".
When you can always cultivate your inner being, not being influenced by others, and not caring about what others say. If you can follow your own inner needs, then you are naturally not easily irritable.
There is also a way to clean the heart, that is, to clean the home thoroughly, and the process of cleaning is also cleaning the heart.
My minimalist life this month has brought me a lot of beauty.
I used to think that success is success, but now I find that the original, good life, is in life.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > summarize itself:</h1>
Books used this month: "Breaking Away", "Meeting the Unknown Self", "Zero Limit", "Surrender Experiment".
Daily 1 read:
1, you don't need so much burden, you have the right to let go of the things that make you unhappy, you can choose to be happy.
2, I began to turn my focus to myself, enough, really enough, I am no longer bound by the outside world, I want to clean up and clean up.
3, the more I clean up, the more sober I am, the more determined I am, the simpler I am, the happier I am, I believe I can change myself, I believe in myself unconditionally.
4, from this moment on, when I have the consciousness to make changes, I am already making progress. It's good, I've been improving, a lot of people are not willing to change, and I've been choosing to change and improve, which is great!!
5, not afraid of ten thousand people to block, afraid of their own surrender!!
6, remember, there will be echoes!
A good life, run on your own. Clear away the burdens and you'll be much easier to play. Let yourself be surrounded by things that are stirring your heart.
If your heart is simple, the world will be simple, let's cultivate our hearts together.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > previous dry goods article sharing:</h1>
I am a small and big energy, in this life, I must force myself, live a rich life, and get what I want. "Pay attention" to me, and rush forward together~ ~ ~ ~