1, make life better, is a state of mind
Adult life, will always be filled with a lot of not easy, many people busy life, complaining about the difficulty of life, but do not know that life is their own life, your mentality, affecting the happiness of your life, some time ago, when I went to the hospital hospital, I met a little girl in the bed next door to make a deep impression on me.
The little girl is in her twenties, laughing on both sides of the cheeks have pear swirls very sweet, at first I thought, such a sweet-looking little girl who loves to laugh must have a happy family and the love of her parents, idle and chatted with her genius learned that this little girl in the fourth grade of primary school when her parents divorced, the father set up a new family to abandon the mother and daughter, since childhood and mother dependent on each other, the mother worked hard to pull her to grow up for her to go to college, after graduating from college the girl found a very good job in the big city, Seeing that the happy days were coming, my mother was diagnosed with stomach cancer.
Large medical expenses crushed this already poor family, the girl lent her mother to pay medical expenses for surgery, after the mother recovered, the mother was not in good health and no one at home took care of it, the girl decided to quit her job in the big city, returned to her hometown while working while taking care of her mother, because the previous medical expenses borrowed a lot of money from relatives and friends, the girl used all the time to work to make money to pay off debts, this hospitalization is because the part-time delivery of takeaways is too anxious, touched by the vehicle on the road, the leg is crushed by the vehicle, this came to the hospital.
Knowing the experience of the little girl, only to know that her thin shoulders carried so much, I asked her: life is so difficult, how can you still maintain such a state of laughter and optimism? The girl said a sentence that sounded ordinary: happy is also over, unhappy is also living, I choose to live happily, life is my own, I believe that the difficulties in front of me are only temporary, and it is also a skill to live a hard life happily!
It's a very simple truth, but not many people can do it. Many people classify the misfortune of life as the injustice of fate, and even self-abandonment, constantly complaining, living a life into a pool of stagnant water, people's lives will always have a lot of unhappiness, want to live a life depends on their own choices, some people choose to reconcile with life, in the misfortune to find a little bit of beauty, change the mentality and strive to manage their own life, I believe that such a person, luck will not be too bad, the future will have beautiful things waiting for her!
2, let others believe, is a kind of ability
When resting, I suddenly received a phone call from the leader, saying that the previous planning plan needed to be adjusted because of some changes, and the relevant process needed to be adjusted and informed to the person in charge of the relevant process, when I learned of this news, I thought that this matter was arranged for colleague Xiao Feng to be the most appropriate, because on weekdays, although his ability was not the most outstanding, he was absolutely the most responsible, and the work arranged was always handled in an orderly and proper manner.
The key moment can make people the first to think of the emergency rescue team and so trust, which is very rare in the workplace, trust is not cultivated in a day, lies in the daily accumulation, things have a beginning and an end, serious and responsible, everyone knows that you are a reliable person, let others believe, is a manifestation of ability, is really a valuable quality!
3) Keeping yourself thinking is a kind of wisdom
In this information age, there are countless fragmented information and various short video APPS every day to conquer our lives, "How long have you not calmly read a book?" "How long have you not lost your phone to exercise?" How many people after work the first thing is to open the mobile phone software to watch videos, watch lace news, many times, always feel that they have read a lot of articles on the Internet, read countless, but a question to see what? What a gain, it is all a look of ignorance!
Because fast-food reading and brushing short videos did not develop their own thinking and judgment, when watching feel very satisfied, with the passage of time, after feeling a bout of emptiness, I secretly made up my mind, tomorrow absolutely can not be so wasted time, but the next day again and again, can not control! Our own perseverance and control have been eroded step by step, and the era of rapid information development has given us the convenience of broadening our horizons, but at the same time, it has also conquered the high ground of our thinking brains about things. We should reduce fragmented reading, reduce the encroachment of various electronic products on our lives, calm down, and add some different colors to our lives.
Life is very short, time is very fast, it is difficult to buy inches of time, happy and beautiful life, not to have how high achievements, let life become better, let others believe, let yourself keep thinking, ordinary days can also live a different sense of happiness and satisfaction!