Some people, once they become dazzling in life, will be full of emotions, see the beauty of flowers, see butterflies and butterflies, and be intoxicated for a while. Some people, on the other hand, have always been from the beginning, not lost, not intoxicated, and single-mindedly dedicated their sincere feelings to the people they love. Love only one person in a lifetime, is the most understanding of feelings, but also the most able to withstand the test of life of the people, in the face of complexity, maintain calm and calm, let themselves love what they love, think of themselves, no complaints, no regrets, such a temperament, but also the most frank temperament, will live, love life, and truly have a happy life.
Jiang Wu, born in 1969, a native of Tangshan, Hebei Province, was once called Jiang Xiaobing, when he was young, some timid, his grandfather renamed him Jiang Wu, hoping that he would be naughty, when he was a child, he wanted to be a train driver, when he was a high school student, he fell in love with Song Yan, in 1990, he was admitted to the Beijing Film Academy, filmed for the first time, he won the award, cooperated with Zhang Yimou, starred in "Alive", let him emerge in the film and television circle, so far, he has starred in dozens of film and television dramas, playing small town youth, police, garden architects, bandits, terrorists, drivers, directors , officials, etc., each role, are very pure masters charm, very manly, his voice is strong, superb acting, can fully and delicately interpret each role, with love, decades after marriage, has been in love with his wife.
After Song Yan graduated from high school, he went to work in a foreign-funded enterprise, he went to find Song Yan, Song Yan said to her, I am a part-time worker, you will be a big star in the future, I am not worthy of you, no matter what choice you make, I will not complain about you. He said, I have identified you in my life, I have saved 5,000 yuan, and we will get married now. Therefore, the two registered and obtained the license, and a friend did not understand, telling him that this early marriage would affect his career. He said that we have been in love since high school, I like her, no matter how well I develop in the future, I do not regret marrying her, I am now to give her a sense of security. When his fame was as big as a day, Song Yan's friend told her to watch tightly. Song Yan smiled and said, he is not that kind of person, I believe him. The mutual trust of husband and wife is the guarantee of family happiness and harmony. And Jiang Wu, some people joked about him, saying, change to a younger one. He said very seriously, you can joke about anything, you can't do this. At any time, be sure to maintain your love and strive to keep it intact.
Jiang Wu acted, with the famous actress Yu Feihong to play, the two have an intimate scene, is to shoot a kiss scene, he can not enter the state for a while, and said that he is afraid of kissing with Yu Feihong, one is to feel blasphemous to the goddess, the other is that his wife is present, afraid of his wife jealousy. Sometimes, love has to be in awe, to maintain respect, and to have pity for the wife. Song Yan gave birth to a child, he refused a lot of drama, accompanied by his wife, some people did not understand. He said that having a child is a big thing, and there are still opportunities after work, at this time, you have to take time to accompany the woman you cherish. Today, some people ask him, you have been 16 years old, for more than thirty years, only love one woman, you do not feel bored and regretful. He said that people who don't like it, staying together, even for a minute, will feel awkward, and people who like it, living for a lifetime, are not bored. Love is to look at each other and not tire of looking at each other, and to love is to love for a lifetime.
In life, the two will also find their own preferences, once, Jiang Wu finished filming, went home to see Song Yan wearing camouflage clothes, a ponytail, feet wearing sneakers, radiant, and asked her, which one are you. Song Yan said, I made an appointment with a few friends, and we went to pick with them. Jiang Wu immediately said, no, I have to go golf, and I have made an appointment with my friends. Without waiting for Song Yan to speak, he went out of the door with wind and fire. Song Yan took the child to the picking garden, her friend saw it, asked, why do you take the child alone, don't know, think you are a single mother. Song Yan wanted to earn some face, and told her friend that Jiang Wu had just finished filming and was tired, so I let him sleep at home. The daughter on the side immediately picked up the stubble and said, My dad just entered the door and looked for someone to play. Children who are unscrupulous in their children always dismantle their mother's platform, but between husband and wife, they must also consider each other's feelings, cannot force each other to do things they do not like to do, and try to give their lovers free space to move.
After losing face in front of her friends, Song Yan's heart is also very entangled, has been thinking about how to get along with Jiang Wu, is it to ask her husband for love for herself, or let him go all the way, consider for a long time, she decided to let her husband move freely, and then, once Jiang Wu went out to party with friends, she carefully packed up her husband, chose suitable clothes for her, prepared car keys, water cups, mobile phones, wallets, sunglasses and other utensils, and said to him, you can rest assured, don't worry about me and my daughter, You're not at home, and all these years, we've been like this, we're used to it. He was proud of his wife treating himself so carefully, but at the same time, he also boasted in front of his friends, saying that my wife was a 100% fairy wife, I played outside, she never checked the post. The speaker had no heart, but the words still reached Song Yan's ears, and although she was a little sad and worried, she still tried her best to endure it. Sometimes, love also needs to be able to withstand sex.
In the spring of 2009, Jiang Wen suddenly called her, saying that Jiang Wu was admitted to the hospital, she rushed over, only to learn that it was she and her friends who were racing, injured, Jiang Wu's mother took the time to remind her, let her manage, she has been enduring in the hospital, and after Jiang Wu was injured and discharged, she asked Jiang Wu, how do you lie to me, when you were racing, you thought that I did not have my daughter. Jiang Wu is also very reasonable, saying that men like adventure-stimulating sports, drag racing can release the negative emotions accumulated in his heart, and said that he must be in harmony with his friends, otherwise, he will become a lonely person outside of his friends, but he assured Song Yan that he will pay extra attention in the future and promise not to go home with an injury. Seeing him die unrepentantly, Song Yan did not move, but she had her own idea in her heart and decided to let her husband stay with her and her children. Sometimes, husband and wife cannot fight with each other, they need to be outsmarted, and those who can solve it wisely must not make a big fuss.
Song Yan deliberately screwed the faucet, waiting for Jiang Wu to come back, let him repair, look at her like this, Jiang Wu said impatiently, this little thing, you let the property deal with it. She said, this is not the same, I have to let my grandfathers do this and that at home, so that there is a sense of happiness. When she said this, Jiang Wu was helpless, so he had to find the east and the west, repair the faucet at home, and give up dating with friends. Song Yan saw that her move had succeeded, and she was very happy in her heart, and then she met Jiang Wu who was invited by a friend, just like the law, and soon, she met Jiang Wu again, deliberately spilled soybeans into the rice, and said to Jiang Wu, You quickly pick out the soybeans, I will give you soy milk to drink. Although Jiang Wu, who did not know the reason, had complaints in his heart, he still reluctantly obeyed his wife's orders, picked up the soybeans from the rice, and said while picking them up, you were not like this before, how did you become so sloppy now. Song Yan just stole the pleasure and did not answer his question. Love sometimes needs to make a little obstacle, the more troublesome the more loving, the more loving the happier.
She not only wrestled with Jiang Wu, but also pulled her daughter to fight with her husband, she saw Jiang Wu reading the racing pictorial, deliberately disrupted her daughter's Rubik's Cube, and told her daughter, your father is smart, he can adjust the six-sided color of the Rubik's Cube to one color. The daughter obediently ran to Jiang Wu with the Rubik's Cube and said to Jiang Wu, Dad, you come and play rubik's cube with me. Jiang Wu saw that his daughter was so enthusiastic, and for a moment he was patient and played with his daughter. However, the number of times these little tricks were used, Jiang Wu found the clue, he said to his wife, you deliberately made excuses, dragged me at home, and did not let me party with friends and race cars. However, as a big man, I should have my own social circle, you say, I always hide at home with my wife and children, and how can I have a job. The more he talked, the more angry he became, so he became angry with his wife and said, In the future, you will take care of my affairs less and become more and more arrogant. In the face of her husband's anger, Song Yan said with soft kegang, she said with tears in her eyes, I just want you to accompany me and my daughter at home, is this wrong? Am I wrong just wanting my husband and daughter's dad to be safe? Love should be concerned, there is attention, even if the love is deep, no matter how much care, it is not wrong. Sometimes, fancy emotions can make each other's love more mellow.
Song Yan continued to play the family card, she said, I miss the days when we lived in the tube building, although poor, but can feel the love everywhere, now, the days are better, rich, but I am from the shell to the heart, are lonely and lonely. Jiang Wu, who listened, said that you women always have to look forward to Shu, never have a time of contentment, when living a hard life, I hope that life can be superior, once the life becomes better, and pursue romance, but how can fish and bear paws have both. Although he said so, after that, he would accompany his wife and children outside of work, and sometimes he would accompany his wife and daughter out to dinner. In order to let her husband not overdraft his health at work, and let him supplement balanced nutrition, Song Yan practiced cooking hard and studied with nutrition experts at Peking Union Medical College Hospital, under the guidance of experts, she practiced superb cooking skills. Sometimes, protecting the stomach of the husband also protects his happy family.
Jiang Wu also worked hard outside, in his mother's 70th birthday, he took a leave of absence to go home to wish his mother a happy birthday, after dinner, as soon as he returned to his home, Jiang Wu told Song Yan, tell you the good news, my salary has risen again, in the future, our days will be better and better. Song Yan calmly told him that my daughter and I, 6,000 yuan a month is enough, and sometimes more money does not bring happiness to life. She wrote to her husband about her feelings, and she said that happiness is when the couple finishes a dish together in the kitchen; it is a hand that soaks your feet together with a foot wash basin before going to bed; and a hand that your spouse goes out of his way to test your body temperature on your head when you have a fever. However, Jiang Wu was anxious to go to work, and his daughter made a clever move, cutting off her own hand, leaving him at home for a few more days. After that, Song Yan continued to write letters to Jiang Wu, and continued to write dozens of letters, and her confession finally impressed her husband, and Jiang Wu promised her that in the future, she would not go racing again. Sometimes, people who love each other, love each other in tender love.
All family troubles are mostly the same, not the same, just how much they have, and to what extent they love each other, a man who has loved his wife for more than thirty years is an excellent man, not half-hearted, only focusing all his love on his wife, such love, is happiness and love. Sometimes, love is an attitude and an attachment, and only by wholeheartedly putting your love above your own family will such love be pure and warm. Love is no matter how far you go, how long you leave, your heart has always been loaded with lovers, love is true, love is sincere, love is a kind of sudden realization after walking through thousands of mountains and rivers, after experiencing ups and downs; it is also a game workplace, after interpreting life, all the wonderful essence of refinement.
Text/House Slave