I heard that love has four stages, and after surviving it, they will be together forever

[cp] I heard that love has four stages, and after surviving, they will be together forever.

A psychologist once wrote,

A mature love affair must go through four stages,

That is: coexistence, anti-dependence, doubt, symbiosis

The time required to switch between is not necessarily the same, and it is easy for people.

The first stage: coexistence.

This is the time of love,

No matter when and where you always want to be together.

The second stage: anti-dependency.

One side wants to have a little more time to do what they want to do,

At this point, the other party will feel left out in the cold

Always because of a little thing to calculate and count.

The third stage: doubt.

This is a continuation of the second stage,

Demand more time for independence

I always feel bad about myself

I didn't love myself before.

The fourth stage: symbiosis.

At this time, a new way of getting along takes shape,

You have become the closest people.

Together, you support each other and create your own life together.

Together, you will not be tied to each other, but will grow up with each other.

He's like your loved one.

But

A lot of people can't get through the second or third stage,

Choose to break up.

In fact, many things as long as good communication will be fine,

But thinking too much and willfulness is unavoidable.

How difficult it is to meet the only you in the world,

Can you not give up lightly.

Did you find out?

You have nothing in common,

Doesn't look alike,

Personality is also the opposite.

But love each other and then be together,

Day after day

Years

You'll be amazed at how much your eyes look like his.

His smile is a bit like yours.

The pace at which you walk becomes similar.

The tone of your speech is becoming more and more similar.

You love to drink the same drink.

Your mantra becomes the same.

You can always guess what the other person's next sentence is.

It turns out that we will become our loved ones.

You're unknowingly getting him to break his bad habit of frowning.

This change may not even have been noticed by himself.

He unconsciously makes you no longer sloppy.

You almost don't recognize yourself.

Will unconsciously gradually become the other person's ideal,

This change is definitely not deliberate.

The longer two people get along, the more similar the temperament,

someday

You are surprised to find that

How tacit you are.

I may never encounter such feelings again.

When you love someone deeply,

You're really going to lose yourself little by little.

But why do you still feel happy?

Probably because you lost at the same time, but also earned,

You earned back his temperament and his smile.

Can you keep going.

Please don't say the next life,

I'm afraid I won't meet you again in my next life.

So in this lifetime,

Let's keep going together.