"If it were really a daughter, she might not want to have children..."
"In seven or eight weeks, you can first determine the gender and confirm that it is the rebirth of the son."
Recently, He Junxiang's confused speech in an interview made many netizens feel uncomfortable. This is all 2021, but it is still so patriarchal?
However, what He Junxiang provoked everyone was not only "son preference".
He Junxiang apologized for his inappropriate remarks
In the interview, He Junxiang said that when talking about having three children, he said that if he wanted children again, he would confirm that his son would regenerate, and if it was a daughter, he might not want to have children, because he felt that it was enough to have two daughters.
He Junxiang even bluntly said that he would ask for some secret recipes, and did not shy away from saying: "Seven or eight weeks can confirm the gender." ”
Confirmed that the son is reborn? If it is a daughter, she does not want to give birth? Seven or eight weeks to confirm the gender? He Junxiang's words really stomped on the anger of the public.
After He Junxiang has two daughters, it is not incomprehensible to want to have another son, but the daughter does not want to have children, what does it mean?
Just because it is not a son, should a small life be strangled?
After the matter fermented, He Junxiang publicly apologized for his "inappropriate remarks", saying:
That wasn't what he really meant, saying that having three children was just a hypothesis, that he loved his family very much, that he loved his two daughters. But if there is a possibility of having three children, he and his wife do wish they had children.
The suffering of women's childbearing should not be ignored
Although the apology is very sincere, netizens do not buy it, because He Junxiang's concept of fertility is very speechless.
Before that, he had revealed in a show that the second daughter was born by caesarean section, because according to the expected date, the child was born in Virgo, and the couple was more afraid of the personality of Virgo, so they chose to cesarean section two weeks in advance.
Just because of the superstitious constellation personality, it is simply ruined to give birth to a child in advance.
Therefore, this time He Junxiang was scolded on the hot search again, and he was not wronged at all.
First of all, as a public figure, he has set a bad example for the public that no matter when or where he should not promote patriarchal and superstitious ideas.
The sex of the baby is random, and the birth of boys and girls is already doomed as early as the moment the fertilized egg is formed, and non-human beings can change it. Both boys and girls have the same right to life and should be treated equally.
In addition, the child's personality mainly depends on the influence of growth education and family environment, and the birth time of the child should not be hastily determined with constellations, and the birth of the child should be based on the premise of health.
Secondly, He Junxiang did not respect women and ignored the suffering of women's fertility.
In He Junxiang's view, pregnancy seems to be a particularly simple and easy thing, otherwise he would not have let his wife give birth to a child in advance for the sake of constellations, let alone say infuriating words such as "if you are a daughter, you may not want to have children".
Although He Junxiang can provide a good fertility environment for his wife and let her receive preferential treatment, whether it is a star or a big person, the risks and pains faced in the matter of having children are the same.
Li Xiang collapsed to the point of not being able to do it because of severe morning sickness, Xie Yilin's pubic pain during pregnancy to eat painkillers to survive, Big S, Mei Ting almost failed to get off the operating table when giving birth, Fan Weiqi, Xie Na, Xiao S, Qin Hailu, Zhong Liti, Ma Yili, etc. have been plagued by postpartum depression...
For women, pregnancy and childbirth are not only the birth of a child, but also a huge destruction of the body and mind.
But anyone who understands the pain and suffering that a woman needs to go through to give birth cannot do such a cruel thing as "confirming that it is the rebirth of a son."
Due to the different physiological structures, men do not have to bear the pain of childbirth, so "He Junxiang" can stand and talk without waist pain.
When every man decides to have children, he should experience what it takes to have a child, and first revise his own concept of fertility.