Continue to share today's mood diary:
In "Dream of the Red Chamber", there is a plot that is very impressive:
Jia Rui became obsessed with Wang Xifeng and had undeserved thoughts.
The shrewd Wang Xifeng keenly captured his evil intentions and decided to tease him.
Seeing Jia Rui, Wang Xifeng pretended to be courteous, and she asked Jia Rui to wait for her in the west at night. Unexpectedly, Jarry actually did this!
As a result, Wang Xifeng had the doors on both sides closed, and Jia Rui froze alone in the garden for a day. It was hard to get until dawn, go home and be beaten, and be punished by being hungry and kneeling to read articles.
Unexpectedly, he did not have a trace of repentance. Every time he recalled Wang Xifeng's response to his smile, his psychology produced a fluke.
However, all tragedies arise from greed and luck, and all disasters stem from action.
I believe that many people have seen Jia Rui's story, and most people are concerned about Jia Rui's evil intentions towards Wang Xifeng. A long time ago, when I read this storyline, I also felt that Jia Rui was a bad man and Wang Xifeng was too shrewd.
However, now that I see this plot, the more I look at it, the more chilling my heart becomes: Jarry's death stems from greed and extravagance. In life, there are many people with all kinds of extravagance, because of greed and extravagance, many people are caught in unnecessary trouble, and eventually cause countless disasters.
If you think about it, in real life, how many tragedies stem from greed and extravagance.
1. Tragedy stems from the extravagance of the heart
In life, many people who are victimized are often people with extravagant expectations.
Many people have exploited this weakness in human nature, leaving them in an endless state of passivity.
Once, online, often saw a lot of scams. Those who are deceived are also often greedy and lucky. It is precisely because they are eager to have that they have fallen into the trap of the villain step by step.
Whether in life, in the workplace, or in interpersonal games, this kind of trap situation abounds: if you have extravagant hopes and desire to get more, you lose. After all, your desires will become a weakness, and those who have a heart will take advantage of it. If you are also obsessed with certain things, you may wish to take this lightly, perhaps, life will be more free.
However, how many things in life cannot be seen?
It's like a "good song", singing all kinds of desires in people's hearts: fame, gold and silver, wives, children and grandchildren...
There are countless attachments in the hearts of the world that are difficult to let go, and among these obsessions, it is inevitable that all kinds of desires will arise.
In the desire, countless people cling to the pursuit, but it is easy to be used by people with hearts in obsession, and finally fall all over the body.
Jarry may be stupid, but his tragedy also arises from greed and extravagance.
If, he had no attachment to Wang Xifeng. Or, he knows how to take a step back and widen the sky, and the tragedy of life will not happen.
However, desire blinded his eyes, and he was still obsessed with the things of his heart, which was the root of the tragedy.
2, once you perceive that the situation is not right, you must retract your extravagant expectations and stop the loss in time
After Jarry's first lesson, he could obviously receive it when he saw it. However, he was still obsessed with it.
The second time, Wang Xifeng asked him to go to the ambiguous location again. It was hard to wait until the evening, and he did see a person on the kang, so he pounced on it like a hungry tiger.
It turned out to be a bureau carefully set up by Wang Xifeng, Jia Rong was alone on the kang, and Jia Rui was indeed trapped.
Caught by someone, Jia Rui has often been extorted wealth by Jia Rong ever since.
But who is to blame?
Don't blame Jarry himself?
Whenever this story is read, people laugh at Jarry's stupidity.
However, in the face of temptation, how many people can remain calm?
Just like the opportunity to invest in front of them, many people rush to send money over.
For another example, in the face of others' promises to draw cakes, in order to hope for luck, you agree to the other party's request with luck.
However, how many seemingly beautiful things are actually mirages, and in the end, they will only fall into a mirror flower and water moon. If, if you perceive that something is wrong, do not know how to retreat in stealth, and still cling to what you expect to gain, then you lose. In the action of luck, it is possible that it will cause disasters and lose miserably.
Why would anyone be hooked?
Isn't it voluntary?
If you have an desire for something in your heart, jump into it at all costs. Perhaps, in order to get something, you will use all means to get it too.
Just like Jia Rui, who was bent on getting Wang Xifeng, but did not expect that Wang Xifeng had drawn him a cake, in fact, he had already stayed somewhere, and he was almost waiting for him to be hooked.
Jarry, sure enough, was hooked in order to get this thing.
Jarry is like this, who dares to say that the world will not be like this?
After all, the desires in people's hearts are infinite, and there are always many things that are in the heart. In order to get something, people are also too easy to get hooked, but obviously many things are not available, why fall into the trap of not falling into again and again?
Seeing the good is the wisdom of life, the extravagance that should not be had should not be had, down-to-earth, maybe living will be more down-to-earth.
3, too much luxury, affecting the body and mood, indifferent mentality is very important
Jarry's death, in my opinion, is also allegorical.
Although Wang Xifeng repeatedly teased him, he eventually died in his own obsession.
For Wang Xifeng, he always had an obsession in his heart that was difficult to let go, and he missed each other for a long time, making him seriously ill and gradually bedridden.
Obsession is obsessive, but some things have to be let go.
There are many things that can be encountered but not sought, and if it is not yours, you keep thinking about it, and there will be no result. On the contrary, it will make your inner conflict worse and make you feel miserable. Over time, if there are too many extravagant hopes in your heart that are difficult to let go, they will gradually cause problems in your psychology and even invade your body.
A lot of things, you may wish to look down.
In life, there are always many things that are difficult to let go. However, when it is time to let go, it is still necessary to let go. If it doesn't belong to you, no matter how reluctant it is, why not take it lightly?
Perhaps, away from attachment and desire in life, life will be better.
Let go of what you should let go, and a calm mind can make you through countless difficulties in life.
Asking for too much extravagance, sometimes really tired. But is it really useful to ask for too much extravagance? Maybe, not necessarily! It should be yours, it will naturally come, not yours, and it is useless to think about it anymore, it is better not to think about it. Even if you can't do it, don't be depressed, if you are depressed, it is actually equivalent to hurting yourself again.
So why bother?
The world says that Jarry is stupid, but how many laymen are not a Jarry for the desires in their hearts?
It's just that his desires are not legitimate, but how many people, seemingly have legitimate desires, in fact, still have attachments in their hearts like him.
Suffering from desire, difficult to let go?
You might as well look down on some things and don't always be distracted by all kinds of undeserved thoughts. Look down on gains and losses, clouds are light and windy, perhaps, this is the wisdom of life.