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Born in Guizhou to Shanghainese parents, Qinghong (Gao Yuanyuan) came to the northwest to build a border in the northwest in response to a call from the government in the 1960s. Fed up with poverty, her father (Yao Anlian) hopes that she will study well and return to Shanghai.
She is beautiful and is coveted by many boys in the class.
The most persistent and bold pursuit of her is Xiao Gen (Li Bin), a worker in the stamping workshop, who is also 19 years old and a local farmer in Guizhou.
He would sneak a pair of bright high heels in the blue desk, and in that place where the clothes were colorless, the charm of these red high heels was enough to make a 19-year-old girl blossom.
After school, she changed into these high heels and walked home excitedly, and halfway through, she met her father after work.
Dad did not have a seizure at that time, and gloomily followed Qinghong, and as soon as he got home, he began to teach Qinghong a lesson and threw away Qinghong's high heels.
Dad's expectations for Qinghong were too urgent. Since then, Qinghong has been going to school every day, and her father will follow her.
Xiao Gen did not give up, he entrusted Qinghong's brother to help him send love letters, and he would also play the flute near Qinghong's home, and Qinghong's heart was always confused.
Dad soon discovered Xiao Gen's cattiness, and coincidentally, the two of them were in the same factory.
On this day, only Xiao Gen was alone in the bathhouse, and his father went to express his meaning vaguely, and Qinghong would return to Shanghai later.
If you feel that Xiao Gen is afraid of the authority of his parents and gives up, it is too childish. One of the characteristics of scumbags is stalking.
Because he is selfish, he will not consider the future of Qinghong, and only care about the realization of his own desires.
Of course, it may be a bit heavy to say that Xiao Gen, at his age, he may not understand what love is, whether it is possession or giving.
After school this day, Qinghong went home alone, and Xiao Gen looked at the right time and followed her.
After following for a while, Qinghong had already noticed, she stopped, her chest rose and fell violently, did a thought struggle, turned and ran to Xiao Gen.
At this time, it was a panorama, and I didn't know what Xiao Gen said to QingHong, and after Xiao Gen finished speaking, he immediately ran away.
Judging from the plot behind, Xiao Gen agreed to meet with Qinghong tonight.
A tragedy is about to unfold.
In the evening, Qinghong's family went to some of her father's colleagues, and when her father did not pay attention, Qinghong sneaked out.
Xiao Gen was already waiting there.
That night, in order to strengthen his courage, he drank some wine and said that he would wait here every night, and Qinghong replied, but I did not promise you anything.
Qinghong talked to Xiao gen vaguely, her mentality was contradictory, and this attitude made Xiao Gen more and more bold. Xiao Gen took out the pair of high heels that Qinghong's father threw away from his bag, handed them to Qinghong, and then hugged her.
Qinghong is too simple, she underestimates human nature, she thinks that just hugging is okay, even if it is her farewell to Xiao Gen.
Xiao Gen found that she did not resist embracing Qinghong, plus she drank some wine that day, and raped Qinghong under the dual action of hormones and alcohol.
At this time, Qinghong struggled fiercely, but it was useless.
Here I have to mention the physiological differences between men and women.
Girls are generally emotional, and many girls who like the boy but know that they cannot be together will have a vague attitude, and rationality and sensibility will continue to tear up.
But feelings are two-way, and as soon as your attitude is ambiguous, you give the other party an indication - you hesitate, I still hope, if the other party is also an impulsive person, what will be the consequences?
We often read in many books that "love must be brave to chase and listen to one's own heart", which undoubtedly pushed him forward for people who were in a period of emotional confusion.
But is this a good choice?
The person who said the love soul chicken soup may be a graduate of Qingbei, and the girl he likes is a graduate of Shangjiao, they are all very good people, people with good character, and know each other well enough.
And you? You just graduated from college, you are not deeply involved in the world, you like a handsome street gangster, you don't even know what his background is, how his character is.
At this time, do you hear the love chicken soup is about to be served? Is this really good?
Many people's love is nothing more than indulging desires. If you don't even understand it, why talk about love? Isn't desire what it is?
So, don't be superstitious about the proverb of love, everyone's situation is very different, and no law can be applied to the whole world.
I hope that girls can be cautious in their feelings, because under the peaceful life is full of dark swells and reefs, who knows what will happen after a wrong step?
For example, Qinghong, after she was raped by Xiao gen, lost her soul and returned home, because of her own concepts, family pressure, the social environment at that time, in short, for various reasons, she has since gone crazy.
Crazy, what a terrible word.
A few days ago, the stage drama "The Distance Between Us and Evil", there is a man named Ying Sicong, who suffered from the double stimulation of his girlfriend's suicide and his own unemployment, coupled with the influence of genetic factors, he suffered from schizophrenia (formerly known as schizophrenia).
He has an older sister named Ying Siyue, and after taking his brother to see a doctor to confirm his condition, he once said such a sentence: "Why do you get this disease?" I sometimes wish he had cancer."
You can imagine how tormented it is to be a family member of a mentally ill person.
At the end of the film, Qinghong finally gets on the bus back to Shanghai with her parents and brother's family.
What Dad had hoped for had finally come true, but in such a sad way.
The road continues, after returning to Shanghai, whether Qinghong's illness will get better or not, and what will happen to the family, are unknown.
Qinghong, who was once so good, beautiful and well-born, as long as she studied well according to her father's words and returned to Shanghai, it would be a brighter future.
But the fault is that she idealized human nature because of her young age and shallow experience.
Qinghong finally fell ill, whose fault is this, and at what step is wrong? I think it is the result of a combination of factors.
The lesson we can teach is that before doing everything, be sure to think of the worst outcome and ask yourself, is this outcome within your control? Or is the initiative in the hands of the other side?
Are you okay with this result?
You must learn to take responsibility for yourself and your family, and all the irreversible consequences caused by indulgence and superficiality need to be borne by yourself, and you always have to pay it back.
Young people, don't be impulsive, don't be vague, don't indulge.
This sentence is not said three times, because for those who do not know how to bear it, it is useless to say it three hundred times.