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Xiao Binbin was a high-profile child star in Taiwan in the 1980s, and also won the "Golden Bell" award for the best child star in Taiwan television, becoming the youngest winner. Xiao Binbin's real name is Wen Zhaoyu, and he quickly became popular because he participated in the son of the heroine in the TV series "Goodbye Ah Lang". Subsequently, he participated in a number of TV series, and even set the highest ratings, so he also had the title of "super child star".
However, when he grew up, he lacked the advantages of appearance, acting skills, etc., so he slowly faded out of the entertainment circle and chose to start his own business, but his career was not smooth. In terms of married life, Xiao Binbin is not complete. Xiao Binbin married his wife Huang Meiling in 2003, and after the marriage, the two had two sons, Xiao Bin Wen Xuan Ye and Mini Wen Xuan Yu. However, Xiao Binbin only cares about playing games and does not know how to take on family responsibilities, so the marriage ends in failure.
After the divorce, the two children were raised by Xiao Binbin, and in 2006, Xiao Bin, who looked highly similar to Xiao Binbin when he was young, debuted by participating in "The Stars Know My Heart", and then entered the entertainment circle through multiple films and televisions, and in 2011, Mini Bin also began filming.
The two children began to become child stars, which also made their family's economy slowly improve, and even the family's mortgage was repaid by two children. However, the work arrangement of the two children is very full, and Xiao Xiaobin has been sick and hospitalized because of this. In addition, Xiao Xiaobin did not attend kindergarten and middle class, and he could not memorize 26 letters until he went to elementary school.
Xiao Binbin married his second wife at the age of 32, and after the two married, they gave birth to a child "Meng Meng Bin". In 2016, the marriage of the two hung a red light, and the wife accused Xiao Binbin of not knowing how to work hard, only knowing how to "nibble on the small" and using the child as a cash cow. Now 40 years old, Xiao Binbin married a Vietnamese girlfriend who was 14 years younger than himself and said that he would not reject the regeneration of children. Netizens have commented: Do you want to have another son to support yourself?
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<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > the phenomenon of "nibbling on small families" has quietly emerged</h1>
In fact, it is not uncommon for "nibbling" parents like Xiao Binbin to use their children's outstanding looks or talents to win attention and make money, and such parents often do not work themselves, but instead try to arrange their children to participate in various activities to obtain benefits.
Although children can bring great financial income to the family, their physical and mental health is facing great harm. As a parent, we must know how to consider the child's growth law and look far ahead, rather than limiting ourselves to immediate interests and hindering the normal growth of our children.
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<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > "nibbling" can hinder a child's development</h1>
A child's childhood should be innocent and flawless, if the parents blindly "nibble small", then it is difficult for the child to fly high and fly far.
The harm of "nibbling on small" to children:
1. Childhood life is destroyed
A child's childhood should be a period of learning and playing, and the child's thoughts, words and deeds are also slowly established in the childhood environment. And parents "nibbling on small" will lead to children entering society too early and exposing themselves to the adult environment too early. This can lead to the loss of an innocent childhood and the incompatibility of children of the same age.
2. Affect healthy development
The child is in a stage of development, and the "nibbling small" parents will arrange the child's itinerary for the sake of profit, resulting in excessive pressure on the child. And in this process, the child's lack of rest time, coupled with overwork, the physical development will be hindered.
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<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > to give children a happy childhood</h1>
1. Listen to your child's thoughts
Some children, even if they have outstanding talents, may not want to use them to attract attention. Therefore, parents should know how to communicate with their children more in their daily lives and listen to their children's inner thoughts. Don't impose your own ideas on your children, and don't force them to do behaviors they don't like, so that children have the right to choose themselves.
2. Take the initiative to assume family responsibilities
When the child is young, parents should take the initiative to assume family responsibilities, do a good job of reasonable economic planning, and let the child's life have a certain guarantee. In this way, children can grow up in a good family environment, and their bodies and minds will be healthier and happier.
After the child reaches a certain age, he will naturally enter the society and assume family responsibilities. What parents have to do is not to pull out seedlings from an early age, but to follow the child's growth law and exercise the child's ability. After entering the society, children can rely on their own skills to create a better life.
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