"If Snails Have Love" is a TV series jointly produced by Penguin Pictures and Dongyang Noonday Sunshine Film and Television Co., Ltd., adapted from Ding Mo's novel of the same name, directed by Zhang Kaizhou, starring Wang Kai, Wang Ziwen, Xu Yue, Yu Heng and others.
The drama tells the story of Ji Bai, the captain of the high-cold criminal police, who gradually developed a good feeling in cooperation with the police newcomer Xu Xu, but unfortunately, this talented girl was as slow as a "snail" in other aspects, and the two solved the case together.
Xu Xu, played by Wang Ziwen in the play, is called a "snail" because he speaks too slowly, does not like sports, fails physical fitness tests, always lives in his own world, is self-centered, and shows indifference and slow response to everything other than solving cases with the help of psychology, especially emotional aspects. This "snail" is a high-IQ psychology graduate intern sent by the province to the criminal police team, looking weak and windy, his eyes are confused, often a sleepless look, in addition to being interested in criminal case detection and analysis and has a high IQ, indifferent to the colleagues around him, absent-minded about the leaders who look down on her, indifferent to everything around her.
However, it is such a "snail" that has met love, so do you want to talk to her at this time? How to continue this love affair with a snail that seems to take a century?
In a sense, Xu Xu's role setting is like the autistic people around us, but they are high-functioning autism or Asperger's sign patients, they belong to the generalized developmental disorder, high-functioning autism belongs to the high-functioning population of autism, and the IQ is higher than that of other autistic patients or even far beyond normal people!
High-functioning autism accounts for ten percent of autism. The symptoms are very similar but different from those of Asperger's syndrome, for example: Asperger's syndrome is proactive about making friends while high-functioning autism is self-enclosed. In terms of language, There is no obvious disorder in Asperger's syndrome and there is a more obvious language barrier in high-functioning autism. In terms of exercise, Asperger's syndrome is significantly different from that of high-functioning autism.
In addition to being called "children from the stars", children with autism are also loved to be called "snails" by industry insiders.
Educating autistic children, whether highly functional or not, is like walking with a snail. You've slowed down, you've cooperated with them, you've walked very slowly, slowly, but the snails behind you are still crawling little by little. You are also anxious, angry, and even want to kick him, want him to go faster, but this snail can't do it! They had tried their best, and the little by little advance was already the fastest he could do.
When this snail is not yet an adult, "snail father" and "snail mother" always want to love them as elders, to protect them, to accompany them throughout their lives, but never thought, if the snail has love, can they let them talk about a century of love? Perhaps, parents do not dare to think at all, nor do they expect the "snail" to have love, let alone get married and have children.
So, in the face of autistic children who are growing up and will eventually grow up, in addition to the care of family and friendship, does the future of older autistic people really need love? Don't they need to be happy in their lives?
Parents always want to give all their love to their children, but they rarely think about letting adult autistic children try to fall in love.
The love of Chinese parents is always passed on from top to bottom, and the older generation gives all the love to the next generation, and the next generation continues the transmission of love. But love has never been passed on to peers.
In fact, even if it is a "snail", they need love. Love may heal the sadness in their hearts and open a window to a wider world.
With the passage of time, this snail gradually grew up, if the snail has love, would you like to talk to him?
Try to get autistic children to talk about a "century" of love, although they are like snails, the feeling of love is very slow and slow; try to love autistic children with a love for ordinary people, not just in the way of treating the disabled to look down on the care and love, love may be the best treatment to awaken the inner warmth and perception of the "snail".
It is said that love is the greatest in the world, so no matter what kind of identity you are, try to talk to the "snail" about a century of love on an equal footing.
Perhaps there are not too many formal rehabilitation institutions for autistic preschool children and school-age children in China, and for the vast majority of parents of children, it is even less about the lives of older autistic people and future marriages.
However, in terms of incomplete statistics, there are 2 million children with autism, while the elderly autistic people account for nearly 20%, and do not include adult autistic patients and more mentally disabled people who cannot be counted for various reasons. If you count them, the number of this group will be even larger, they are also adults, but because of various mental disabilities can not be accepted by society and normal people, there is no better shelter and assistance agency to spend the rest of their lives, when they can accompany their parents to grow old, these elderly autistic people and disabled people will become hidden dangers and crises in society.
Whether it is a rehabilitation institution or a snail father and mother, try to teach snails to love, to love themselves, to love relatives, to love friends, to love neighbors, to love animals, to love flowers and plants, and even to love strangers, to teach them the ability to love, not just simple life skills training. Although the training of skills is very important, if they can only mechanically count numbers, recognize Chinese characters, and call mom and dad, instead of passing on love with love and exchanging love with love, growth is also meaningless for them.
Without the pouring and nurturing of love, this snail can only stay where it is, still unable to go further. It's only age that grows with age.
Cultivating the capacity for love is also crucial!
The autism films Mozart and the Whale and Adam tell the love story of a couple of lovers with autism, respectively. The same party has a high IQ, they try to find a way to communicate, in the name of love to dilute people's direct estrangement and indifference.
The perspective of the two films is different from other similar autistic films, it will focus on the love of adult autistic people, with a silent fight against the different vision of the sound world, although after ups and downs, their talents are offset by each other's disapproval, but in that period of falling in love, the film has the courage to explore another possibility of treating adult autistic people, hoping to use love to melt each other, which is the most precious!
If snails have love, would you like to talk to them?
The love with the snail is a crush, you try your best to love him, but in the end only touched yourself; the love with the snail is a single love, the snail abuses me thousands of times, I treat the snail as the first love; the love with the snail is a bitter love, the group of people who bother to love will always leave you; the love with the snail is a desperate love, thousands of times of waiting, still can not catch up with your footsteps.
Nevertheless, but, dear snail, I know that I am with you, and in fact you are also with me. Let me hold your hand, like holding a snail, looking for the love that belongs to a snail in the sea of people, and then talk about a century of love. Not to be vigorous, but to be able to follow in your footsteps and spend this life together; not to wait for you to say "I love you", but only to understand "I am waiting for you".
If there is an afterlife, you must not be a snail in the next life.
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