Looking at the Li Yang domestic violence incident, I also want to talk about it

Seeing that Li Yang came out again and said that he was going to sue his ex-wife, I couldn't help but want to talk about my opinion.

Some time ago, when I saw the rumors of Li Yang's domestic violence, I had doubts, I didn't believe it! I watched the edited video and wondered if it was a patchwork of more than a decade ago, and now it's back. I just learned about what happened recently, but I don't fully believe that Li Yang will abuse his daughter.

Because probably last spring saw their father and daughter four people appear in front of the screen, although the boss came out less, but the two daughters also often appeared, especially the younger daughter, especially cute, whenever the time to live broadcast, the daughters were called out by the father, sometimes after sleeping down to wake up, more than nine o'clock at night. But the atmosphere was also real, and the relationship between the daughter and her father was also very casual. Seeing those scenes, I also envied their family.

As a result, it was reported that the daughter was abused, and I couldn't believe it. But what the hell is going on, we don't dare to jump to conclusions. I just want to talk about Li Yang about my own views.

Judging from the video program of Li Yang's dialogue with Venus earlier, it can be seen that Li Yang is completely a traditional man in a Chinese family, such a man is not uncommon, if not on the show, such a thing is a common thing in the Chinese family. But he had become famous, he had become an "educator", and so he was rumored to be crazy. If a person wants to become crazy, he must endure a blow that ordinary people cannot bear, not to mention that he dares to call himself a "crazy person" - "Crazy English". How can we not let people "crazy" accuse him of all his words and deeds?

Li Yang committed domestic violence many years ago, and in that era, when the Domestic Violence Law was not yet on the agenda. Li Yang's domestic violence was only made clear in 2011 in 2011 that domestic violence was illegal. I hadn't seen how this mana had grown so far. (Perhaps this Li Yang incident will accelerate people's attention to domestic violence incidents.) Isn't there still domestic violence that often appears in public?

There was a female teacher who lived well in the city, but ran to the countryside to live with farmers for more than twenty years, and her children grew up to go to college, and she also wanted to run out and get free, because she had only been abused by the family for more than twenty years since she was out of the country. In fact, there are many similar incidents, can it be said that they will take the road of law to protect themselves?

Chinese afraid of losing the ugly, but also behind closed doors to solve their own problems. What you do in your own home is "legal", and you are the king's law. How can it be said in front of the public, which shows that everyone knows that it is not a good thing, not something worthy of boasting, so they dare not say it indiscriminately. Moreover, Chinese are also introverted, even if they have done great things, they are often willing to hide, thinking that they are not worth publicizing.

This is Chinese, solve their own household affairs, carry their own affairs, even if they do good things, they are not ostentatious.

I used to fight with my husband, and I was very unconvinced that he beat me. I was dragged from home to the yard by him, and the more I thought about it, the angrier I became, and I really wanted to get a divorce. And the neighbors persuaded me that there was no fight in the family, they all fought when they were young, but now that they are old, they don't take those things seriously. It's natural to say that you are old.

I still didn't accept the neighbors saying this, thinking that they were all protecting him and talking to him. Because I came to this community alone, they were all locals. So I think they're looking at him, looking at his parents' faces. In fact, the neighbors are usually very good to me.

I wrote about the fight and went to a lawyer. Hope to get help from the law. But I didn't dare to go to the court to find a lawyer anywhere, so I saw a law firm on the side of the road and went in.

It was an ordinary household, but there was a law firm sign hanging outside the community. I went into their house and saw two older people, sixty or seventy years old. The man is a lawyer. After they listened to me talk about the fight with a handful of snot and tears, they said to me very plainly, go back, it is much more serious than you were beaten, you are nothing at all!

They gave two examples of how they were subjected to domestic violence, both of which were beaten to the head and bleeding, how their bodies became disabled, and finally they all lived together. Ask me if you broke me somewhere? I said no. So what about divorce? They were very understated and made me very landless. Discouraged, he returned home and continued to live a conjugal life.

I've also seen our neighbor beat his wife, and it was very cold in the winter, and the man beat the woman naked and ran out. Running out, you have to chase and beat women with things, and chase women around. I was a girl at the time, and seeing such a man was also worthless for that good woman. Because we are neighbors, she also talks to us a lot and is a very kind and enthusiastic person. Fortunately, they later divorced, also a few years after having children. At that time, hearing about divorce was an isolated case.

China is conservative, while the United States is open. America's openness attracted Chinese. The Li Yang family is the representative of the combination of these two conflict cultures. Because of the rapid changes of the times, the cultural impact is getting stronger and stronger, which makes domestic violence put into law.

Li Yang's wife has educated her three daughters openly in the United States, how can they tolerate such a traditional and conservative educational concept in China, so the conflicts they have caused can be imagined, there must be many. Li Yang beat his wife hard enough, and the injury was quite serious. He doesn't admit it, and what man is willing to easily admit that he is wrong? He also said that don't mention the past again, just let him go, don't always repeat the old things. That is to say, he still did not want to make the same mistake again, and he could not destroy his reputation without moving.

If you were still young at that time, you would be middle-aged and old now, and you can't do stupid things anymore. I hope that after his prosecution this time, they will not have similar explosions again! There is still a long way to go in this life, if both husband and wife are willing to consider their children for a long time, it is better to leave a good idea for each other.