Whether it is in the dusty ancient Egypt or the murmuring Qinhuai River, whether it is the quiet countryside of Europe in the 18th century or the current period of high civilization, love has always been an immutable, holy and innocent beautiful feeling in human life. Perhaps in different periods and regions it has been shown in different ways, but the strength that supports it has never changed. That is the spirit of love.
The author of the book was the great British female writer Jane at the end of the eighteenth century. Austin. Like Jane's usual literary style, the author' meticulous observation perspective, exquisite and subtle story conception, and his delicate and wise writing as a woman vividly show us the various people of the middle class in the eighteenth century English countryside and their emotional and daily life scenes. Quietly reading between the lines, the sentences in the book may not be so gorgeous, or even simple and a little trivial, but it is fresh and timeless, like a breeze blowing through the heart, the superficial trivial narrative is quite intriguing to read, more like the author himself will be the content of the text like the story before the bed before childhood to tell you, suddenly, the deep emotions in it have been understood.
The plot of the story revolves around the mate selection activities of the sisters Eleanor and Marianne. There are many representative figures with distinct personalities in the text: Marianne, a young girl with rich feelings and enthusiasm and simplicity; Willoughby, a selfish and ruthless young man who is morally depraved; Colonel Brandon, who is noble in character and sincere and stable; John Lennon, a young man of hypocritical forces. Dash Woodf women protagonists are kind and thoughtful, mature and rational Ello. Various characters took turns to stage for us the ugly fashion that took place in the eighteenth century, when emotions, human rights were traded with money and status, and the British at that time also struggled in the pursuit of love, but finally found the romantic story of true love under the guidance of the guidance of self-soul, moral reason, loyalty and emotional responsibility to lovers, relatives and friends.
Gently closing the book, whether it is the defiant cry of free love and human rights equality in the book, or the praise of truth, goodness and beauty in the wise writing of the work, and the lashing of falsehood, ugliness and evil, it all aroused my inner cheers. However, there is a kind of thought that deeply touches the softest place in my heart that prompts me to constantly think and explore, that is, the spirit of love - the balance between reason and emotion. In love, especially for both parties in love, "reason" and "emotion" seem to be contradictory, but they are necessary in the process of love. If you want to manage love well, you can't do without the investment of "emotion", and this "emotion" should also be constrained by "reason", not just by a heart in love blindly rampage. Like Marianne in the book, there is not enough reason and more than emotion. The passion in love blinded her eyes and made her no longer able to see everything rationally, so she was deceived by the emotional con artist Willoughby, laying the fuse for a series of misfortunes and pains that followed.
In the book, although the author praises those who cherish their feelings, he also satirizes their lack of reason from time to time. Its good intentions are to warn people not to close their eyes even in the face of seemingly the most enthusiastic emotions in the world, and to grasp the balance between reason and emotion with their hearts to taste the spirit of love. In the text, the favorite is Elello, who does not forget the reason in addition to the emotion, and there is no lack of emotion in the reason. When love comes, it is brave to accept, not to dodge, not to consider gains and losses, this is to love, is to be loyal to their own emotions. When love quietly passes away, you can also turn around resolutely, and when you meet again, you can still treat each other with courtesy and face it calmly, which is a choice that can be put down and follow reason. In the end, with this "spirit of love", Elyllo harvested the great happiness of love lost and regained. Love under the support of the "spirit of love" must be eternal, do not worry if one day, when the passion fades, only a cold empty shell full of weariness is left.
This kind of love is also like Shu Ting's "oak-like love" - "If I love you, I will never be like a climbing lingxiao flower, borrowing your tall branches to show off myself; if I love you, I will never learn the infatuated birds and repeat monotonous songs for the green shade." I must be a kapok near you. Root, clenched in the ground. Leaves, touching in the clouds. Every time a gust of wind passed, we greeted each other. We share the cold tide, the wind and thunder, the thunderbolt, we share the mist, the stream, the rainbow. It is as if they are separated forever, but they are dependent on each other for life. This is the great love" Such love is intimate, trusting and relying on each other, but also has an independent personality and soul, which is not only full of sincere emotions, but also shines with the brilliance of reason. The Worldly Ande Dual Perfection? Don't live up to the secretary. Maintaining mental clarity in the midst of intoxicating love is not only true to one's own value and life, but also to love itself. Throughout the ages, the balance of reason and emotion, as an important spirit of love, is integrated into love to emit a touching and touching brilliance.