Guardians of The Sister is a film starring Abigill Breslin, Cameron Diaz, and Sophia Wisignieva. The main story is that in a family of five, the eldest sister was found to have leukemia from an early age and needed bone marrow transplantation and kidney replacement to survive. In order to save their eldest daughter, the couple gave birth to a youngest daughter, hoping to use her organs to save her sister when she grew up. But when her sister was 11 years old, she suddenly found a lawyer and asked for a court decision to keep her body from being used by her parents.
The movie "Guardian of The Sister" was scored a high score of 8.2 by Douban and was named the "Teen Choice Award - Best Summer Movie" in 2009. The wonderful thing about this movie is that its two main lines are very cleverly arranged. On the surface, the family of five loves each other, especially their parents and younger siblings, who love their sick sister; on the other hand, the sister's refusal to give her sister an organ transplant has caused a huge conflict with her parents. In the movie, each of them guards the person they love in their own way, while telling us that the highest state of love is fulfillment.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > great maternal love makes her willing to give up everything to save her daughter. </h1>
In "Sister's Guardian", the mother was originally a talented lawyer, but she quit her job because of her eldest daughter to focus on taking care of her daughter.
Keeping her eldest daughter healthy and alive has become her lifelong pursuit.
Barbara Kinsoff, a famous contemporary American writer, once said: "The power of motherhood is stronger than the laws of nature." ”
What are the laws of nature? That's the law of the jungle. So what is the power of motherhood? It is you who will always be my most precious gift, and I am willing to dedicate my life to it.
In "The Guardian of The Sister", we see a mother who has spent her life guarding her daughter. She was strong but paranoid, manic but vulnerable. While exhausting herself to accompany her daughter to treatment, she will not allow anyone to say that the eldest daughter will "die"; she will roar when her husband takes her eldest daughter to the beach, even saying that she wants a divorce, and she will also tear up with excitement when she sees her daughter smiling. This mother, who pays for her daughter all the time, is paranoid and heart-wrenching.
Watching the whole movie, I also burst into tears, not only because Cameron Diaz's excellent acting skills showed the hardships of this mother to the fullest, but also made me think of my mother. Since I was a child, I was a frail and sick child, and I also had a serious chronic disease. When I was six years old, I heard the doctor say to my mother, "The child has only half a life left, you have to be mentally prepared." At that time, my mother did not eat or drink, holding me while giving me injections and pointing tears, and said to me in her mouth, "Everything will be fine." Later, after my mother did not give up on taking care of me, I finally recovered.
Stetson wrote in "Me and the Temple of Earth":
She had a son who had suddenly been paraplegic at the age of twenty-three, and this was her only son; she preferred to be paraplegic herself and not her son, but this could not be replaced; she thought that as long as the son could live, even if he died himself, she was sure that a man could not just live, and that his son had to have a way to his own happiness; and no one could guarantee that her son would finally be able to find this path. Such a mother is destined to be the mother who lives the hardest.
All women are not their own from the moment they give birth to their children. They must become the most reclusive, the strongest, the most independent women. De Beauvoir wrote in The Second Sex: "Women are not born of heaven, but are made." "From the moment they were born, their parents began to define their gender, then they married to take on the responsibilities of their wives, and finally they had children and were responsible for taking care of the whole family.
The mother in the movie is paranoid and tries so hard to save the life of her eldest daughter that she ignores her love for her younger daughter. When she finally knew that her eldest daughter could not bear the torment of illness and wanted to choose to end her life, she finally let go of her obsession and fulfilled her daughter's wish.
There is a kind of love, not because I don't love you, but because I love you too much, so I choose to let you go.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > silent and tolerant father who silently carries the whole family. </h1>
The father in the movie is a man who works hard to collect money. When all the burden of the family fell on his shoulders alone, he did not complain at all, but took care of his wife and children while collecting money.
In "Sister's Guardian", what moved me the most was when the eldest daughter said that she wanted to go to the beach. Although he took his daughter with the doctor's permission, he took a certain risk to fulfill this wish. Because he knows that for a person who is about to die, every day of life may be the rest of his life.
Compared with his wife's paranoia, husband Brian appears more rational and just. When the younger daughter said that she did not want to donate organs to her sister, he listened to her daughter's idea and expressed understanding; when the wife insisted on getting pregnant to save her daughter, he also listened to her wife's idea.
The father already knew that the eldest daughter was tormented and that her body and mind had long been overdrawn. But he couldn't bear to break his wife's "dream". While watching his daughter suffer and his wife in pain, all he could do was make as much money as possible and give it to his family.
The image of her husband Brian in the movie "Sister's Guardian" reminds me of Zhu Ziqing's work "Back Shadow". He described his father this way:
When I looked out again, he had picked up the scarlet orange and walked back. When crossing the railway, he first scattered the oranges on the ground, slowly climbed down, and then picked up the oranges and walked. When I got to this side, I hurried to pick him up. He and I walked to the car and put all the oranges on my fur coat. So I pounced on the dirt on my clothes, and my heart was very relaxed.
Whether it is the father in the movie or the father in the prose, it shows the silence and little words when a man becomes a father. Father's love is often a wordless love, infiltrated into the daily love for the child. They tend to be emotionally introverted, and they are more rational in their analysis and thinking.
Male thinking is often based on problem solving, which can not only weigh the pros and cons in the real society to make the best choice, but also maintain some sensibility in the face of human sophistication.
Brad Pitt plays a rejuvenated father in The Story of Benjamin Button, who leaves his daughter and wife in pain in order to ensure their future. But he would mail his daughter a postcard every year to write his blessings. That's how a father's love for his daughter is, so deep.
The deepest love is not just possession, but the choice to let go for your long-term happiness.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > sister's love, that is, exhausting the whole sister. </h1>
Anna in the movie is a strong and independent sunny girl. To be honest, at first I didn't understand why she loved her parents, sisters and brothers on the one hand, but refused to continue to provide organs to her sister on the other hand. It is not until the end of the movie that we find out that it was all done by my sister at the instigation of my sister.
I have to say that my sister was born when she knew herself from a young age in order to give her sister a longer life; she also understood that she wanted to have a normal life, work as a cheerleader at school, and get married and have children when she grew up. But all this was dragged down by the sister. She didn't resent her fate, nor did she care that her parents gave most of her attention to her sister. On the contrary, she loves her sister very much.
In the movie, Anna says to her sister, "I'm your sister, you know, whatever you decide, I'll support you." "The highest state of love is fulfillment, to let you know that you are not alone in the face of everything in the world, there will always be someone who will always be by your side and will not give up." 」
She needs organs to heal when she provides;
She was tired and wanted to leave this world when she accompanied her against her paranoid mother.
Lu Yao has such a passage in "Ordinary World": "People live, how important is this kind of relationship between relatives, even if people's lives are full of ups and downs and hardships, as long as such feelings exist, they will feel a warm comfort." Without this feeling, how sad we would be to live in this world. "Sometimes, brothers and sisters can understand and empathize with each other more than parents.
Like at the end of the movie, the sister says, "The important thing is that she's my sister and we'll always meet." ”
People who love each other will always meet. Whether it's this world, or another world of people. As it is said in Dream Quest: "When you really die, no one in the world remembers you." ”
Death is part of life, but sooner or later people who have loved each other will meet.