Hugh Jackman
He is the obsessive stallion among galloping horses
It is the love bone in front of the door of love Shuluo
He is the superhero of many dick men and women
He is also one of the few long-term lovers in Hollywood
He not only has a good-looking skin bag that makes idiot men and women salivate
There is also a soul that is loved and not precious
What kind of man can get out of the mud in this big dyeing vat in the entertainment industry without staining?
What kind of woman can make this perfect man obsessed with her for 25 years without abandoning her?
He was Hugh Jackman, affectionately known as Uncle Wolf
With the spirit of exploration and truth-seeking, I went behind him
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > Hugh Jackman's upbringing</h1>
<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" > the loss of his mother's childhood may have been one of the factors in finding a girlfriend who was 13 years older than himself</h1>
In 1967
Cambridge Accountant - Christopher Jackman
and
Grace McNeill
With 4 children, the family moved from the UK to Australia
They prayed reverently in Christ Church
Pray that the priest will keep his children in good health
October 12, 1968
Hugh Jackman was born in Sydney
Although there are already 4 elder brothers and sisters in the family, my mother always wants to add another five blessings to add some life to Australia, which has a population of only 12 million
In Hugh's original dream bridge
Acting is not his point of support
Singing is the future he envisions
He has loved music since he was a child and knows how to convey and express emotions
Since his mother was also a lover of music and dance, Hugh could always be one step ahead
Before the age of 8, Hugh felt the infinite warmth of family
The father "ploughed the fields" outside, and the mother knitted clothes inside
Although it seems to be happy and harmonious, it is actually turbulent
Due to the large number of heirs in the family, the mother was not able to receive quiet cultivation and treatment at first
So I have been suffering from postpartum depression
The longer it goes on, the more intense it gets
Until the age of 8
A quarrel between his parents caused Hugh Jackman to lose his childhood mother
It may be due to excessive pressure on the father
He could no longer tolerate his mother's unstable mood
The collapsed quarrel with his mother, even to the point of divorce
After the quarrel, her mother left abruptly and took her two sisters to England
He stayed with his father with his two older brothers
This made Hugh extremely miserable, and he felt the fate of abandonment from an early age
During that time, the Jackmans, who lacked their mother, were the most difficult times of their lives
"Father used to secretly cry and couldn't swallow, he was so tired, we all felt abandoned and really wanted her back"
Although four years later he was reunited with his mother
But at this time, the mother was already the wife of someone else
He understood that divorce was a foregone conclusion
In a media interview, the mother admitted what she had done, but she said she did not regret it
"I don't regret my original decision, my departure has matured the children"
After losing his mother's bondage, Hugh began to become grumpy and often fought
Even "self-harm"
Perhaps this is also one of the factors that he will find a mature girlfriend who is 13 years older than himself in the future
"Feel safe"
Although Hugh has now become a rebellious teenager
But at least his grades in school were superior and he didn't miss a single lesson
At the age of 18
Hugh was hired by the Abinham School in the United Kingdom as an English tutor and physical education teacher, began to teach and educate people, and his personality has begun to relent
Of course, he also went further and further away from his original dream
"An Australian gives an English lesson to a group of British children, and if I were that group of children, I wouldn't have paid the tuition fees," he said in an interview many years later
A former colleague of Hugh once said
"If he hadn't gone to act, he would have been the principal at the time."
yes
Hugh soon ended his educational career
Chase the dream again
He didn't want to walk this path at a young age
This was the answer he had thought of before he came to Abbingham College
After finishing his career at the Academy, Hugh returned to Australia from the UK and applied for the Department of Journalism at the University of Technology Sydney at the age of 19
During the 4 years of attending sydney university, Hugh was idle and idle, as if he had forgotten that he was now in the glory days of youth
He didn't have time to think about feelings
Nor did he have time to think about why
After graduating from the University of Technology Sydney, Hugh worked for a quarter in the ethnic tribes of the Midwest of Australia
However, he found that the job did not make him happy
So the 23-year-old Hugh applied for the Western Australian Academy of Performing Arts and became a comedian
The three-year training period allowed him to become a 26-year-old trainee after graduation
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > the first opening of the emotional sinus</h1>
In 1994
Hugh Jackman graduated from the Western Australian Academy for Performing Arts
Hugh was 26 years old at the time, and after stopping he finally felt the swelling of hormones
Begin to crave the nourishment of love
In fact, in the three years of training at the Academy of Performing Arts, Hugh met a sister who was 5 years younger than himself, although the two did not have too much eye contact during the training, but the tacit understanding of mutual cooperation made them tacit
This made Hugh, who had never carefully observed a girl, feel the sensation of heartbeat for the first time
But the three-year relationship did not bear fruit, and the girl left Australia after the end of the training
Before leaving, she advised Hugh to stick to his ideals and not to leave here, and to leave now is equivalent to giving up everything
The relationship between the two ends here, and Hugh does nothing to her because of his cultural beliefs in Christianity
Religious culture: Christians are not allowed to have premarital sex
<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" > worked with 13-year-old Deborah for 25 years, Hugh did not want his wife to bear the risk of giving birth at an advanced age, and decided to adopt</h1>
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > Deborah's 67-year-old state must appear, but Hugh still loves her as a secret</h1>
The year after he separated from his first love, Hugh got the role of a doctor in the TV series Correlli
And it was such a soy sauce role that gave Hugh the opportunity to recognize his current wife
Deborah-Lee Funes
In 1994, Deborah was already a gold medal actress in Australia
And Hugh is just an old newcomer who has just debuted
The first encounter between the two was on their way to the set of Correlli, when Deborah was full of energy, wearing sunglasses, wearing a long shirt, and her blonde hair and ponytails looked very beautiful
She warmly invited Hugh to get in the car and go with her
Hugh vaguely remembered The wonderful feeling of Deborah taking off her sunglasses in the car and smiling back at him
"Hello, my name is Deborah Lee, it's a pleasure to meet you"
He seemed to hear his own heartbeat, and a wave of love surged into his heart, as if he were under a spell
Yes, he fell in love with Deborah at first sight
Although Hugh and Deborah did not play a role in the play, in just one month, Hugh developed a strong love for her and secretly resolved to let her marry him
"I vowed to marry her home"
But at that time, Deborah was 39 years old, and she was also the mother of two children, although she had long been divorced, but after all, she was 13 years apart from Hugh, and Deborah would certainly not agree to him so easily
But in fact, in the month that Deborah played with Hugh, she had already developed "evil intentions" towards the simple man in front of her.
Just take into account the age difference between the two
Because of her identity, she didn't want to delay this young man
So she explicitly told Jackman the identity of her mother, and had reached the age of difficulty in having children, so after an embarrassed laugh, she advised him not to waste any more time on herself
But Hugh didn't back down, and he said in a firm tone that he didn't care
If I really love you, I won't force you, and I won't be stupid enough to fall in love with you before I didn't do my homework, and the child can't be the support for me, if I really don't love you, I will roll up my sleeves and go
Although Deborah is a veteran of the love scene, she is still moved in the face of Hugh's vows and confessions, because she always feels that the man in front of her seems to have experienced something
Less than a year into deborah's relationship, Hugh proposed to her and soon entered the marriage hall
And the reason why the two can develop so quickly is not because of impulsive hormones
It is the same love and loyalty of the two people that have created their long-term future
Jackman once told the media
The maintenance of marriage is considered by many people to be inseparable from the "secret" in the bedroom.
Of course, this is indeed a part, but it seems to be only the tip of the iceberg, and the real focus of maintaining a marriage is everything that the two share, good, bad, successful, fearful, which is important, to know that the source of freshness is to discover new things with the old people, not to cycle the old things with the new people.
We were very open to each other and had no secrets
In 2000, Hugh managed to win the role of Wolverine in a Hollywood audition
Thousands of fireworks under the stage began to converge into a sparkling galaxy for him, and the great instrument was late
At this time, Deborah was more than half a hundred years old and had become a veritable "yellow-faced woman"
But Hugh was not changed by the fame and glitz of fame and fortune, and treated her like her first love
Every year, whether it is Valentine's Day or wedding anniversary, it is clearly remembered. On the show, walking the red carpet, do not forget to pull out your wife and children to show love together
Going to our country house, lighting a campfire, bringing our children, and baking my family's favorite marshmallows is my favorite thing to do
Although Hugh says she can have no children, Deborah really wants to have a common child with her lover
Deborah's physical age was no longer suitable for childbearing, and despite many IVF attempts, she was unsuccessful and miscarried many times
We were all frustrated at first, but quickly picked up the spirits and it wasn't a big deal
Hugh doesn't want to see Deborah risk herself anymore and comes up with plans for adoption
This made Deborah, who was almost depressed, feel infinite warmth
"He can still take into account my feelings in the face of the lack of children under his knees"
So the two adopted a pair of children in 2005, and they regarded themselves as if they were their own, and they were not biased
In order to give these children more love, Deborah and Hugh also specially selected mixed-race children that people did not want to adopt
From the moment we decided to adopt, all doubts were gone, they were our own children
For Hugh
Kids and Deborah are all he has, no matter how bumpy his acting career is, how popularity and fame change, Jackman said he will put family first
And the 67-year-old Deborah has long since lost her face, but she can still make Hugh around her, and last year she and her wife played on the beach, like a pair of crazy teenagers in love
Getting such a love that is stronger than Gold is really not worth it