Recently watched the sequel "White Snake 2: Green Snake Robbery", marveled at the high level of national comic technology and art, as well as the imagination and fusion power of almost imagination, a "White Snake Legend" based on traditional folk stories actually saw the shadow of "Resident Evil", "Fury Road", "World of Warcraft", "Final Fantasy", "Alita: Battle Angel", "Tomb Raider" and other blockbusters, which is really a mess of magic.
Of course, watching national comics, especially national comics adapted from classic stories, of course, can not be obsessed with special effects pictures, the most important thing is to focus on the inner world of the characters. As a supporting role and tool man in the classic story of "The Legend of the White Snake", Xiaoqing has been excavated in modern popular culture to have more in-depth temperament in line with modern aesthetic tastes, which is worth reflecting on and using. Whether it is Xu Ke's "Green Snake" or this national comic, in fact, they are exploring a problem, women's obsession.
Yes, "Green Snake Robbery" tells a story of "my sister is by my side", Bai Suzhen's "transsexual reincarnation" does have a certain new meaning, and the sisterhood also replaces the traditional story of male and female love. "Obsession" is the main thread of the whole film, and its revelation is very heart-wrenching for contemporary women. Because "the pursuit of love but therefore the loss of love" is the tragedy caused by many modern women due to obsession.
Compared with men, women are more likely to be obsessed with intimate relationships, and it is difficult to let go. Because women are naturally emotional, emotional, emotional animals, so the desire for intimacy, emotions, and family is innate, it can be said that the "love brain" is the natural psychology of women, not a disease. And the most fatal thing is that women's understanding of "feelings" rejects "reason" in the slightest, does not ask whether it is right or wrong, and is completely based on "feeling", feeling, intuition, perception, all irrational comfort and discomfort, happiness and unhappiness have become the only criteria for measuring feelings. Although this can be said to be very reasonable, it is also really fatal, because it is easy to form "obsession".
We have seen many women, for love, heavy is illegal and disorderly, light is self-contempt, and then there is plastic surgery, in their view, as long as they meet each other's requirements for themselves, they will have love, just like Xiaoqing, the whole film has a "to become stronger" obsession. Since then, this obsession has been planted, and then at all costs and consequences, he will exile and torment himself to the extreme, until he is crushed to pieces and vanished. This obsession harms oneself.
There is also a kind of obsession with harming others and harming oneself, which is even more fatal, that is, Xiao Qing's desperate closed loop of "the sister I was looking for is still you". Many women always think that "love is outside the marriage" or "outside the family", is the "marriage is the graveyard of love" of the ashes of the die-hard fans, therefore, never realize that the people around them are the most cherished lovers, and paranoidly think that love is elsewhere, love is far away, love is always the kind of feeling that can not be obtained.
On the surface, this seems to be a kind of infidelity, a kind of restlessness, although the result is the same, but it is really different from "Aquaman", who does not pursue love at all, but pure vulgar desire. And this obsession of women is indeed not a watery yanghua, it is indeed not a wandering skeleton, but the pursuit of a love that seems incomparably pure and lofty to her, and seems to others to be vain and incomprehensible. From the perspective of onlookers, such a woman may be restless, perhaps not intelligent, or unreliable, and from the perspective of psychologists who want to be professional, it is indeed such an obsession that leads her to always pay attention to the ungrounded and non-cannibalistic parts of love.
Although Xiao Qing's crossing was successful, the cost was also huge, and she herself was a goblin with great powers, long life and ability to fight, and could bear the price of "the original sister is you" across the millennium. And how many years are ordinary people? Not to mention women, youth is more short-lived, a small obsession, not only ruined love, family, and a lifetime. What a pain. Life is short, and women should cherish youth, the feelings in their hands and a stable family.
How to let go of obsession?
Demons have the cultivation of demons, and people have the way of living. Women's emotional obsession is a psychological obstacle that needs to be faced, tolerated, and resolved wholeheartedly. One thought of heaven, one thought of hell, and one thought of letting go of one's thoughts is to reach life, that is, to grow old.
Xiao Qing is also right, "To become stronger." Therefore, for women, what becomes stronger is not the stinky temper and oppression that bring the success of the workplace back home, but the ability to control things with softness and affection, which is a kind of emotional intelligence. Yes, it can be said that a woman's "high emotional intelligence" will ensure "low emotional hurt". "Strong" is to make the intimate relationship more intimate, not to threaten, not to drink, not to make unreasonable reasons, the real "strong" is to respect, understand, and maintain the prophetic foresight. Xiao Qing's strength is not to defeat Fahai, but to truly realize the past and present lives of sisterhood and know where the heart is. For women, it is clear that the dominance in intimate relationships is not by strong control, but by genuine understanding.
Xiaoqing kept asking "who are you" and finally "are you still a sister". Then in intimate relationships, women must learn such a lesson, pay attention to appreciating the other half, and find the uncommon but real shining points in the other half. Intimate relationship is not in what mysterious "absolute destiny", but in the mutual discovery and mutual giving of two people, to believe that love is around, that is, three meals a day, is chai rice oil and salt, is to get along day and night, is plain. Behind all the vigorous and mysterious ambiguity is an unscrupulous trap, and it is all the sinister and vicious evil that the demons coexist in the "Shuluo City".
Let go of attachments, act from the heart, everything is the best arrangement. For women, the true destination of the heart is love, but it is indeed the love that makes her body and mind relaxed, light and breezy, and peaceful. All the love promises that induce obsession are scams that are immediately debunked.