Yesterday, I was out of anger! My son, who is in the third grade, was slapped 3 times by Teacher H because he did not do his homework well! After the child came home and talked to me about the past, when I saw the child's red and swollen face, my first reaction was to pick up the baseball bat and go to school, hit it first! But my son's words calmed me down, and my son said that Teacher H was usually very good, maybe he was too angry yesterday, because I didn't complete my homework on time twice in a row. Calm down, I called the homeroom teacher first, and I told the teacher that now the child's face is still red and swollen, and I will immediately go to the education committee to complain, and reserve the right to sue! The teacher said to understand the situation immediately! A few minutes later, the teacher called and said that the matter was clear, and that it was indeed teacher H who was wrong, and informed the principal. Then the principal called, apologized first, and then agreed to go to the school the next day to negotiate a settlement.
At this time, I was not so angry, I remembered my elementary school teacher, in the 80s, students did wrong, teachers kicked two feet, hit the palm of the hand is normal, students will not remember hate, teachers are not easy. But slapping the whole class in the face is excessive! I asked my son what do you want to do with it, and he said: I want the teacher to apologize to me in front of the whole class, and my father must be present, otherwise I will not have the face to go to school again! I told my son that Dad complained to the Education Commission, that the teacher who beat you could be fired, and you don't have to worry. The son said: Teacher H is usually very good, apologize on it, don't let the teacher lose his job, please Father. At night, in his sleep, his son kept saying not to let the teacher lose his job. My son's kindness and understanding made me completely calm down, and I decided to go to school the next day to see the situation.
When I came to the school, in the principal's office, I met Teacher H, a boy of about 25 years old, polite and polite, who saw me both restrained and nervous, and kept apologizing. Seeing his appearance, I suddenly understood that such a big boy must still be spoiled by his parents at home, and he must have had a similar experience when he was studying. The principal did not shirk his responsibility, apologizing first, then saying that he would strictly deal with the teacher, and finally went to the class with the teacher to apologize to my son! I asked my son for his opinion and he said yes. I complained to the education committee at that time the idea of completely dispelling, a 20-year-old teacher, because of a momentary impulse to lose his job, and even can no longer be a teacher, indeed this punishment is too serious, if not even a chance to change, will make more teachers chill! Teacher, is a profession worthy of respect! But students are equally dignified! So I came to the class with the principal teacher.
The principal said that the teacher had made a mistake and should not slap the classmate in front of the students, and apologized to me and my son, and then Teacher H bowed and apologized, and the principal bowed and apologized. The whole class watched quietly, the principal asked the students, the teacher knows that it is not worth learning when he knows that he is wrong, respect, the students all say it is worth it, and my son also said that he forgives the teacher! The principal said: Classmates have the same dignity, slapping in front of classmates is a violation of dignity, and then this kind of thing happens later, let the classmates directly find him, will be dealt with seriously! The teacher also promised to be more strict with my son in the future, would help him get rid of his bad habits, and would treat him the same as other classmates!
The matter was over, the dignity of the son was found, and the teacher was given the respect he deserved! Teachers are not easy, parents should understand more; students also have dignity, but also have a healthy psychology, teachers must also understand! More understanding, less impulsiveness and hostility, is more win-win! I just came out of school and posted this article, do you think I handled it this way?
