Which girl is not pregnant with spring, this sentence is also applicable to women who are not confused.
No matter how old a woman is, she has a longing for love and hopes to get the warmth of her lover and family.
However, if a woman is over 40 years old and is still being "pursued", then don't be in a hurry to be happy, maybe this is not necessarily true love.
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Yang Liu, a 40-year-old single woman, met her 33-year-old boyfriend Huang Yong under the introduction of a friend.
Yang Liu is 7 years older than Huang Yong, although it is a sister-brother love, but Yang Liu does not look like an "aunt", when she dresses up, she is slim, exquisite makeup, and there is still a "girlish" feeling between conversations.
It is said that age is not a problem, as long as two people love each other, all difficulties can be overcome.
Although Huang Yong is not a handsome boy, his appearance is quite manly, and he is good at sweet words, and soon won the heart of Yang Liu. The two fell in love not long after they met.
Originally thought it was a good marriage, Yang Liu is not young, she has always wanted to find a suitable man to marry and have a home of her own. But fate is such a thing, not that there is, but until she met Huang Yong, Yang Liu moved the truth.
Yang Liu said that Huang Yong claimed to be divorced and had two children; and Yang Liu himself was married, that was many years ago, and both parties did not get a license, so they are still single.
For people in their thirties and forties, these are not problems, as long as two people really love each other and find someone to spend the rest of their lives together.
However, Yang Liu found that things were not simple, and Huang Yong was not what she imagined.
One day, when Yang Liu called Huang Yong, the other party turned out to be a woman's voice. The woman claimed to be Huang Yong's wife, he was not divorced, and their family had always been fine, asking Yang Liu not to look for Huang Yong again.
The news was like a thunderbolt on a sunny day, and Willow felt that she had been deceived.
Looking back on the past six months, Willow found herself being used. Although she and Huang Yong are boyfriend and girlfriend, they have actually only met a few times, and the rest of the time they are chatting on the Internet. In the process, they call each other intimate nicknames, and their words are ambiguous, like the relationship between male and female friends, but other than that, there is no other action.
Moreover, Huang Yong also borrowed money from Yang Liu many times, when Yang Liu felt that they were close and borrowed without much thought. Huang Yong borrowed a total of about 20,000 yuan before and after, and Yang Liu recalled that he suspected that Huang Yong was with her for money.
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What's going on here?
Yang Liu took the reporter to Huang Yong's house and wanted to find Huang Yong in person to make it clear. However, Yang Liu's arrival was met with strong resistance from Huang Yong's mother.
Huang Yong's mother was very excited, seeing Yang Liu as if she were facing a great enemy, saying that she was a "bad woman" who destroyed other people's families, and taking a stick to drive her away. Huang Mu told reporters that Yang Liuming knew that the other party had a family, and he was also a foot in the intervening, because he wanted to marry into their family to figure out their house and money, and he would not let this woman succeed no matter what.
Moreover, Huang Mu also accused Yang Liu of being old, and did not want to think about her age, even the child was almost unable to give birth, a few years younger than herself, and also delusionally wanted to marry her son, which was a fool's dream.
The two sides have their own opinions, which is right or wrong?
At this time, the appearance of Huang Yong made the truth of the matter clear.
In fact, at best, they have an ambiguous relationship, plus there has been a relationship with money, and Huang Yong said that he has already paid back the money, so there is no relationship between them.
If you want to talk about boyfriend and girlfriend, it's just Willow's wishful thinking. Originally, a 40-year-old woman should understand that this relationship is only a short-lived ambiguity, and should not be so true. Huang Yong never planned to marry her, and those sweet words were just a man's words to please women.
However, Yang Liu took it seriously, and she had also fantasized about marrying him and having children and starting a family, but her dream was finally shattered.
Huang Yong also revealed that his two children have congenital diseases.
In order to heal the sick child, he poured all his financial resources into the salary of 7,000 yuan per month. Therefore, he thought of borrowing money from Willow and having an emotional ambiguity with her, perhaps out of flattery.
However, Huang Yong never wanted to give up his family. His wife had been away for a while, feeling guilty and feeling that she had not given birth to a healthy child, but the Huang Yong family did not blame her and worked together to take care of the two children.
So, all this is Willow's one-man show, a "love" that she herself fantasizes about.
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Yang Liu finally soberly realized that this relationship has always been her own indulgence in the desire and longing for love, and reality has dealt her a heavy blow and made her wake up from her dream.
In Willow's room, there are many dolls, and she says that although she is 40 years old, she is still a "girl" at heart. I am alone on weekdays, I am very lonely and eager for love, and it seems that I am not so sad to have these dolls to accompany me.
Perhaps, the appearance of Huang Yong has made her dry wood in spring and has a long-lost heartbeat.
However, a wrong love across ages, a self-written and self-directed love, is destined to be a fruitless wind and snow moon.
For love, women should have independent of a sober mind, and do not be blinded by temporary feelings.
There is no fate to meet their own true destiny, but also to live a wonderful life.
As you get older, you should bring the wisdom of life, not the girl who loves fantasies and dreams unrealistically.
Even in the face of harm, you must be able to carry it down, do not repeatedly tangle in mistakes, but step forward to look.
As a boy, Huang Yong also has to bear certain emotional responsibilities.
Since you are married and do not want to accept a woman like Yang Liu, why should you give others hopes and fantasies, which is tantamount to playing with other people's feelings.
Treat feelings with a sense of boundaries. A friend is a friend, a lover is a lover, and the most taboo ambiguous relationship is the most taboo. Feelings are not games, they find someone to accompany when they are lonely, but they need to have a sincere heart and a responsible attitude.
If after paying the truth, you have to blame others for their infatuation, then what do you get?
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