In the eyes of parents, their children are the best in the world, parents, this is their nature, when children are ridiculed and bullied, parents immediately stand up to defend, stimulate the desire to protect their children.
Zhang Ting is an actor that many people are familiar with, the same, she is also a mother, Zhang Ting and her husband Lin Ruiyang have always wanted to have a child after marriage, but Zhang Ting at that time belonged to an elderly mother, in order to conceive a baby, suffered a lot, fortunately finally successfully conceived a baby, in 2009 when the caesarean section gave birth to a daughter, in 2012 gave birth to a son, it can be said that the children are both complete.
Now she lives a very happy life, but her daughter is always complained by netizens that her appearance is low, her skin is dark, her eyes are small, and she does not even inherit a little beauty from her mother.
The malicious comments and smears of netizens have never stopped, and Zhang Ting compared his childhood photos with his daughter's childhood photos on the Internet, and stressed that how to see my daughter is much better than me.
In addition to this, she has also posted a video in which she said: "Please don't dislike my daughter, my daughter likes wheat color, she is international fan, she is phoenix-eyed, Chinese style..."
In this way, between the lines, it shows that she defends her child in front of the media, and really sees the deep love of a mother for her daughter.
When netizens see the photos of Zhang Ting when she was a child, many netizens feel that they may be wrong, because from the photos of Zhang Ting's childhood, she is not a beautiful woman, and after the baptism of the years, Zhang Ting's appearance is outstanding, I believe that her daughter's appearance will also change greatly when she grows up, after all, "the female eldest eighteen changes, the longer the better" The sentence is also based on evidence, so netizens have said: Sit and wait for Zhang Ting's daughter to counterattack!
In today's face-looking society, there is a cute-looking cute treasure is indeed very popular, but also can not only look at the present, with the growth of age, the child's appearance will change little by little, but when the child's appearance is attacked by others, as a parent to guide the child correctly, only in this way, the child can grow up healthily, in the future of their own era, live out of themselves.
What can parents do when others criticize their children's looks?
1. Give your child self-confidence
Being said by others that they don't look good, the children's hearts are still somewhat lost and aggrieved, at this time the comfort of parents for the child is particularly important, as a parent, to tell the child, everyone's appearance is unique, do not because of other people's words to sway themselves, tell them in the heart of their parents, they are always beautiful, give the child some confidence, so that the child will not feel inferior and embarrassed after being said by others, and have an impact on psychology.
2. Give your child the right guidance
Parents should tell their children not to deny everything about themselves because of their appearance, after all, their appearance is affected by many factors, a person's temperament, speech and behavior have added points to her appearance, form a correct concept for the child, and do not get entangled in the matter of their own appearance. Now many internet celebrities snake essence face, some of them are not satisfied with their looks and go to plastic surgery, in the end, not more and more beautiful, but more and more ugly.
3. Start by dressing up
Everyone wants to be beautiful, but some parents think that children do not need to wear such beautiful clothes when they are young, and it is not too late to wear them when they grow up, in fact, some children only need to dress up a little, and they will immediately look different from before. Therefore, parents can't overstate the pursuit of trends in dressing their children, at least they must look clean and generous.
For the child's appearance, it is originally given by the parents, the appearance after birth is something we cannot change, parents tell the child that everyone has shortcomings and advantages, do not feel inferior because they feel bad looking, as long as you do what you think you are right, confident people are the most beautiful!