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In 1964, a boy was born in Lanzhou, Gansu Province, his father was a reed player in the Lanzhou Military Region's Combat Song and Dance Troupe, his mother was a housewife who could not read a large character, and he also had 6 older brothers and sisters on it.
Although they did not know what the child would grow up in the future, his parents decided to raise him well.
The boy's name was Zhu Jun.
Zhu Jun had a hard time when he was a child, and his parents not only had to take care of their 7 children, but also their uncles and grandmothers who lived with their family.
Although the family's financial situation is not good, it is good that the family is neat, poor and happy.
Because he often listened to his father play clarinet, Zhu Jun fell in love with the clarinet, and under his father's teaching, he became a small expert in playing clarinet. And he also wants to be like his father, to become a clarinet player in the army.
For this goal, Zhu Jun joined the army.
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In 1981, Zhu Jun became an actor in the army's amateur propaganda team, when he was 17 years old.
Because of his excellent performance, in 1984, Zhu Jun participated in the 35th National Day Ceremony with the Chinese People's Liberation Army Joint Military Band and made a third-class meritorious service.
A year later, he was admitted to the Gansu Provincial Qu Art Troupe and became a professional actor.
After three years of hard work, he was specially recruited into the Lanzhou Military Region Combat Song and Dance Troupe where his father worked in 1988 and became a cross-talk actor.
This year, Zhu Jun was 24 years old.
While the Lanzhou Military Region Battle Song and Dance Troupe was seriously performing, Zhu Jun met love, and he met Tan Mei, who was 6 years younger than himself. Tan Mei is a dancer who entered the Lanzhou Military Region Battle Song and Dance Troupe a year before Zhu Jun.
Zhu Jun pursues Tan Mei, and when he performs outside, he is even more protective of her. Unlike the average boy who is eager to establish a relationship, Zhu Jun asks Tan Mei to tell her mother about her being with him, and if her mother agrees that they are together, they can be together.
To this end, Tan Mei specially sent a letter to her mother, which contained Zhu Jun's resume and photos, and it was not long before Tan Mei's mother came to Lanzhou to inspect Zhu Jun, and Tan Mei's mother was very satisfied with Zhu Jun.
Although Zhu Jun and Tan Mei did not have much money at that time, the two had the feelings to drink water. At that time, many young girls wore fashionable and beautiful clothes, but Tan Mei did not, and Zhu Jun, who was skillful in his mind, personally made clothes for Tan Mei, and even some of the clothes were mistaken by the sisters of the Tan Mei Song and Dance Troupe as good clothes bought from abroad.
As for Tan Mei's wardrobe, it is basically all clothes made by Zhu Jun, and even down jackets.
In addition to making clothes for Tan Mei, Zhu Jun is also very motivated, he entered the Gansu Television Station in 1991 and began to serve as the host of some literary and artistic performance activities in Gansu Province, his professional ability is excellent, and he is recognized by the leaders of the TV station.
Also during his work at Gansu Television Station, Zhu Jun proposed to Tan Mei, and Tan Mei agreed without hesitation.
In May 1993, Zhu Jun and Tan Meixi married each other.
Years later, the media interviewed Tan Mei and asked her why she was willing to marry Zhu Jun. Tan Mei replied: "Zhu Jun is an honest man who can give me a sense of security. When Zhu Jun talked about Tan Mei in an interview with the media, he said emotionally: "She is a very tough woman, no matter what kind of difficulties she encounters, I firmly believe that she will stand by my side, encourage me, and support me." ”
It was only in 1993 that Zhu Jun could not have imagined that his future life ups and downs in 1993 had laid the groundwork.
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A month after marrying Tan Mei, Yang Lan, the host who has become famous with CCTV's "Zhengda Variety", went to Lanzhou to host a party, and it was Zhu Jun who was partnered with her.
Yang Lan and Zhu Jun did a very good job of hosting the party, yang Lan also looked at this partner with admiration, she felt that If Zhu Jun had been buried in Lanzhou, she said to Zhu Jun: "Zhu Jun, you are hosting very well, you should go out and try, if you stay still, 5 years, that is, 5 years, you will not have much development." ”
Yang Lan's words, Zhu Jun listened to his heart. However, to give up the stable life of his wife and children in Lanzhou, he could not make up his mind for a while.
What Zhu Jun did not expect was that 3 months after Yang Lan left, someone said something similar to him. In this year, Gao Limin, director of the CCTV Literature and Art Department, went to Lanzhou to direct a program, and the host of this program was Zhu Jun.
After watching Zhu Jun's hosting, Gao Limin said to Zhu Jun: "You have good conditions, you have the opportunity to come to Beijing and CCTV to have a look." And left a CCTV phone for Zhu Jun.
Should I go to Beijing to find a breakthrough in my career? Zhu Jun and Tan Mei discussed, Tan Mei was very supportive of him, and finally after some careful consideration, Zhu Jun decided to go to Beijing.
In this year, Zhu Jun took the 2,000 yuan he had saved and stepped on the train to Beijing, and began to live separately with his wife Tan Mei.
It's just that Zhu Jun would never have thought that in this year, a girl named String Zi was born, and 21 years later, she would "destroy" him.
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After arriving in Beijing, Gao Limin recommended Zhu Jun to the column "East, West, South, And North Central". However, he did not go to be a host, but played for half a year.
During these six months, he was mainly responsible for packing lunches, sweeping the floor, and wiping the table. And because there was no water dispenser at that time, Zhu Jun needed to run from the 21st floor of the office to the 17th floor to open the water for everyone and brew tea for everyone while they were eating.
Although the chores were boring, Zhu Jun did not give up waiting for the opportunity.
Finally, he waited for his own opportunity.
Once, the "East, West, South, and North Central" column held many planning meetings for one program, and Zhu Jun participated in these planning meetings. What Zhu Jun did not expect was that one day Zou Youkai, then director of the CCTV Literature and Art Department, wanted to listen to the report, and Meng Xin, the producer of "East, West, South, South and Middle", suddenly asked Zhu Jun to report.
Fortunately, Zhu Jun had a good memory, and he said cross-talk, reported this program in a sound and colorful manner, and the leaders listened to it very clearly, so they completely fixed this program.
Just as everyone walked out of the office, Meng Xin suddenly said to Zhu Jun: "Zhu Jun, you should prepare for it, and you will host this program together with Xu Gehui." ”
After being able to host the program on CCTV, Zhu Jun was particularly happy to call his wife Tan Mei, and he said to Tan Mei: "Wife, I have become." ”
Since then, Zhu Jun has begun to become a "CCTV brother".
After "East, West, South, North, and Central", Zhu Jun hosted "China Music Television" and hosted the CCTV Spring Festival Gala from 1997. His wife, Tan Mei, was also admitted to the People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts, transformed into film and television performance, and the couple was reunited in Beijing.
Zhu Jun and Tan Mei's son Zhu Sitan was born in 2002.
2 years before Zhu Sitan was born, another "son" of Zhu Jun was also born, and this "son" was the product of the collision between him and Wang Zheng at the dinner table.
This "son" is "Art Life", Wang Zheng served as the producer of "Art Life", and Zhu Jun served as the host of the show.
On December 22, 2000, "Art Life" was officially launched, and achieved very dazzling results, which was greatly loved by the audience.
In the following years, Zhu Jun's various honors were added. He was elected as the first of the top ten hosts of CCTV, won the Best Program Host Award of the China Television Golden Eagle Award, and also won the Golden Microphone Gold Award and the Starlight Award for Outstanding Host, with unlimited scenery.
Faced with such achievements, Zhu Jun drifted.
He went out and started wearing sunglasses because he thought celebrities were like that. When talking to his family, he was smug. He even wanted to go filming, but Zhao Benshan woke him up. Zhao Benshan said to him: "The performance is good, no one says hello." If there is a little bit of bad that can scold you to death, aren't you looking for someone to scold? How good is it to do a good job as your host, how many can be like you? Be well, cherish the present, and get your own profession right. ”
Zhu Jun only then let go of his mind about acting.
Fortunately, Zhu Jun did not float for long, and he quickly realized the problem. In order to completely eliminate the consciousness of Piao, he drove to the place where he lived when he first arrived in Beijing. It was a small 6-story white building in the southwest corner of Caihuying Bridge, and he was living in a small house of 8 square meters on the corner of the second floor for several years.
Looking at the small house where he once lived, Zhu Jun said to himself, "What else are you doing?" When you live in the vegetable camp, you have to go to CCTV, you have to pour the car several times, today you can sit in your own car and look at this place, what else? What are you doing? ”
Since then, Zhu Jun's mentality toward fame and fortune has become normal.
However, because of "Art Life", Zhu Jun began to have controversy.
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With the more episodes of "Art Life" played, many viewers found that "Art Life" has a characteristic, that is, sensationalism. Feng Gong once ridiculed "Art Life": "Set almost, reminisce about childhood, take photos, stir up emotions, music together, let your tears flow endlessly." ”
Even in one episode, Zhou Runfa pulled Zhu Jun to "kneel", making Zhu Jun hotly discussed by the outside world.
However, in the face of various doubts and misunderstandings from the outside world, Zhu Jun never explained, nor did he respond to and crisis public relations.
It wasn't until 2010 that Zhu Jun was interviewed by a magazine that the outside world knew Zhu Jun's attitude toward these things.
It turned out that after the "kneeling door" incident, director Hu Mei sent an email to Zhu Jun, because at that time, Zhou Runfa starred in the movie "Confucius" directed by Hu Mei, and after Hu Mei and Zhou Runfa communicated, they wanted to send a statement in the name of the crew, and the main content of the statement was: "We are very good at the scene of the program recording... Just finished talking to Fa Ge on the phone, Fa Ge said that if this matter has caused Trouble to Zhu Jun, apologize, I am very good friends with Zhu Jun..."
However, in the face of the boiling public opinion from the outside world, Zhu Jun did not publish the email at that time.
As for being said to be sensational, Zhu Jun frankly said: "If you don't have true feelings in your heart, why are you sensationalizing?" Where does love come from? You may think I'm looking for myself to get down the stairs, but that's what I really think. So when others say that I am sensational, that I am sensational, that I am incitement, that I criticize me, and that I even scold me, I have not made any response, because I have not sensationalized, but I am deeply affectionate and embarrassed. When we are touched by moments in life, I can't say: don't you cry. He said that when he made this show, he wanted to "light up life with art and warm people's hearts with emotion." ”
As for some other misunderstandings and doubts, Zhu Jun chose to deal with them calmly, he frankly said: "I have always felt that the so-called fame, awards, etc., are given by others, and you can't control them yourself." What I can do is to be myself, I know what I am doing, I know what kind of person I am, I don't hurt people, I don't hurt people, these are the things I can grasp. ”
But for "Art Life", Zhu Jun always wants to do it well, he wants to make "Art Life" still loved by the audience at the age of 20 and 30, and he is willing to continue to struggle for such an ideal.
However, too many things in life are unpredictable, just 4 years after doing this interview, he was discredited, and the girl born in 1993 appeared in the "Art Life" column and appeared next to him.
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On June 9, 2014, Zhu Jun recorded "Art Life" as usual, because there were two episodes to be recorded on the same day, and he had an hour of rest in between, and he stayed in the public powder room labeled K127.
Just when he was in the dressing room, String Zi, who was an intern in the "Art Life" column, walked in, which was also the first time Zhu Jun and String Zi met.
But this meeting completely changed the lives of the two.
A day later, Xianzi called the police to say that Zhu Jun had sexually harassed her in the dressing room, but the case was finally closed.
Until July 26, 2018, Xianzi's friend "Mai Yan Classmate" broke the news on the Internet that Zhu Jun sexually harassed Xianzi in the dressing room of CCTV's "Art Life" column, and public opinion was in an uproar.
In the face of the allegations, Zhu Jun issued a statement denouncing the incident as a rumor and saying that he would take legal measures to deal with it. Subsequently, Zhu Jun went to the court to accuse Xianzi of damaging his right to reputation.
In January 2019, Xianzi published the results of the reputation case online, saying that the court rejected Zhu Jun's request to terminate the trial, and she submitted to the court to turn the case into a sexual harassment liability damage dispute case.
On December 2, 2020, the sexual harassment case of Xianzi v. Zhu Jun was heard.
Before the trial of this case, Zhu Jun and String Zi's life had changed dramatically.
Because of the accusations by The String, Zhu Jun was discredited, his decades of efforts were in vain, he faded out of CCTV, "Art Life" was also suspended, and Zhu Jun died directly socially for 2 years.
But no matter what happened, Tan Mei still chose to believe Zhu Jun, and she posted on the social platform "The clean person is self-purifying, the turbid one is self-turbid, I believe you", and supported Zhu Jun.
Strings spoke out for various feminist events and became celebrities.
What makes many people wonder is that in the face of String Zi's accusations, why has Zhu Jun not responded? Did he still deal with the problem the way he used to?
Finally, on December 21, 2020, Zhu Jun responded, posting on the social platform: "In the past two years, I have suffered a huge humiliation, and I have not spoken out because I believe that the clean people are self-purifying and believe in the law. I was responsible for telling everyone in the audience that I had never touched the lady a single bit. I hope that lynchings without evidence will not become a social practice until I am. He also said in an interview with the media: "After the fermentation of online public opinion, I was trapped in the whirlpool and could not move, I wanted to respond, but there are disciplinary requirements, I must unconditionally abide by." ”
For Zhu Jun's response, Xian Zi made a corresponding post, she recalled the details of the day, and proved that Zhu Jun lied.
Was Zhu Jun lying or did The String Zi lie? No one knows at the moment.
People who pay attention to this matter do not have to rush to take sides, after all, this case has already been tried, and there will be a day when the truth will come out.
But no matter what the truth is, Zhu Jun has been "destroyed" by The String.
If Zhu Jun is eventually confirmed that the sexual harassment is true, then he deserves to be discredited, and he is also nailed to the pillar of shame.
If it is finally confirmed that Zhu Jun was wronged, Zhu Jun will still be "destroyed". His reputation, his career, could never return to what it had been before. After all, there are many such tragic things, as far as Michael Jackson was wronged by pedophilia, and there are recent incidents of Tsinghua's stomach sister wronging his brother.
In today's society, it is very simple to "destroy" a person and let a person die socially, but I still hope that everyone will do good deeds and be good people. I hope that everyone will face the evil and be brave, but do not reduce yourself to the perpetrator of the crime.