Zhang's mother's sons and daughters-in-law are working in the city, the two plan to fight for a few more years, and then have a certain economic foundation to have children, do not want the child or come in advance, the couple discussed, since the child came, then give birth to it. In October, when she was pregnant and gave birth, her daughter successfully arrived in this small family, and the daughter-in-law could not go to work and concentrated on raising her children at home. The pressure on the son is even greater, the wife has no income, the child's expenses are very large, the two argue constantly, and they are physically and mentally exhausted. After two years of this, Zhang Mama in the countryside was distressed about her son, and she packed up a small bag and came to her son's house, Zhang Mama was diligent and clean, and it didn't take long to clean up the house. Mama Zhang asked her daughter-in-law to go out to work and take the children at home by herself. The daughter-in-law is also an elite in the workplace, and she has a lot of hard work to work, and her income is slowly much higher than that of her son. Zhang Mama is at home with children, doing housework, and her son is working overtime on business trips.
Time passed so slowly, and the little friction in ordinary life was also calmed by the concessions of the daughter-in-law. But after all, there are still different habits and ideas between the two generations, Zhang Mother got up early, do breakfast will be called eating, could have slept more, bought some breakfast on the way to work, this must be up in advance, especially on weekends, lazy sleep absolutely can not sleep, more than seven o'clock do not get up, Zhang Mama will call every ten minutes. The son can still bear it, the daughter-in-law often works overtime and stays up late, all by weekends to make up for sleep, many times to communicate with the mother-in-law, the mother-in-law just say why not go to bed early and get up early? The daughter-in-law almost collapsed.
Slowly the child is going to school, the daughter-in-law has reported an interest class to the child, Zhang Mama listened to the tuition fee, resolutely unacceptable, buy expensive clothes for the child to nag, say that the old clothes that the children in the hometown wear and so on, always have to oppose, the daughter-in-law can not see the clothes to change, the little two buy clothes for her and do not wear, the son listens to the mother-in-law's nagging, there listens to the daughter-in-law complains, and the cotton plugs the ears and does not hear it again.
Slowly, the daughter-in-law's package was not sent to the home, and the cosmetics were shelved to the unit. Dissatisfaction is slowly accumulating. The mother-in-law is not accustomed to the daughter-in-law and male colleagues and male customers, because sometimes the daughter-in-law's colleagues will come to the house to eat together, and Zhang's mother is not accustomed to it, thinking that since the daughter-in-law has become a woman, she should abide by the way of the woman and should not associate with other men. The son explained this many times, saying that he could not look at the current women with old eyes, and that women who work outside the home also have their own social circles. Besides, those are the daughter-in-law's colleagues at work, and the sons also know each other. Finally, once, the colleagues and customers brought by the daughter-in-law were unceremoniously scolded by Zhang Ma. The daughter-in-law completely collapsed, this is a customer who has been following for a long time, just to close the feelings to sign an order before inviting colleagues to eat a home-cooked meal, which is all stirred.
The daughter-in-law began to discuss with her son that she wanted to send Zhang Mama back to her hometown, and the child would also go to school, so that it would not only affect the feelings of the husband and wife, but even the development of the child would probably be delayed. The daughter-in-law is also grateful for the hard work of the mother-in-law over the years, and offered to take 100,000 yuan to bring to the mother-in-law, not that she did not recognize her mother, for the sake of this small family, had to do this. The son also felt the crisis of marriage, and he could not go on for the sake of the child. After all, the concept of the elderly and the young is not the same.
When Mama Zhang returned to her hometown, she was angry and went around telling her relatives about her grievances. The public said that the public was reasonable, and the son and the two let the old man go home without malice, and also understood the mother's hardships and gave compensation. The old man as an elder should also understand, after all, the small days still have to be two small.
It is difficult for the Qing officials to break the housework, each has its own ideas, I hope that there will be more understanding between the two generations, the old man should give the younger generations their own space, do not interfere too much, affecting the lives of the younger generations. It is only right to manage your old age well.