The best love is nothing more than what is desired and needed

Something is really a necessity in some people's circles;

But changing a circle has only become a luxury;

If you change the circle, it will become completely unknown;

***1

When I went to work, I took advantage of my free time to brush the circle of friends, and saw that my girlfriend showed love at midnight today, Chanel's lipstick, Dior's perfume, 520 red envelopes and a large diamond ring that flashed blind people, coupled with intimate photos of her and her boyfriend, it was really fed a large pot of dog food.

Looking at the appearance of the girlfriend who is quiet and the good person on the side, I can't help but sigh: "Love is really a magical thing." ”

This girlfriend is twenty-three, and the boyfriend has been in a long-distance relationship for 5 years and finally cultivated the right results. In the past 5 years, they have made a total of 35876.5 contributions to China's railway transportation, contributed 200+ monthly tolls for China Mobile, and handed over more than 100 tickets for the tourism industry in each other's cities.

All this contribution comes from an ironclad agreement between them: "We must meet once a month." In the eyes of the girlfriend, the body is in a different place, but the heart is together, and now they do not all emphasize the "unity of body and mind", so they must see each other once a month.

I think it's more important to resolve internal conflicts every time they meet, because I've never seen a couple in a relationship who can like to argue as much as they do. Obviously, it is a soft girl who quarrels with her boyfriend and has the momentum of a shrew scolding the street, and her boyfriend is not in a hurry, fully exerting the advantages of a science and engineering man, and the reasonable technology is first-class. Every time the girlfriend is half dead, she will roar, "Old lady, this month will be in front of you!" Word by word, sonorous and powerful, the determination was quite great.

"Are you really going to break up with him?"

"Points, definite points!" You remember to help me prepare for the single lie in advance. ”

"So are you still seeing each other this month?"

"Of course I want to see him, I'm going to leave him in person"

At first, looking at my girlfriend's determined little eyes, I still foolishly believed it. It turns out that I was so naïve, because they just met, quarreled, broke up or something, single and what they did. Girlfriends will hang directly on the boyfriend like a koala, open the petite mode, before the internet super hot "to hug, people want to take a small fist to hammer your chest Oh" I see are real mode.

I remember asking my girlfriend, "You guys are making trouble like this, aren't you tired?" ”

"That's how we get along. We all know that we are angry because we care, quarrels are because of discord between the three views, and saying that breaking up is to tell each other that I care about this problem. ”

"But you say that the frequency of breaking up is too high, aren't you afraid of really separating when you talk about it?"

"Don't be afraid, because we say that breaking up is "saying", we never thought about doing it, we never thought about being separated, and we never thought about how to live without each other. We have taken root in each other's lives, our lives require each other's constant supply of nutrients, and each other's existence is as important and indispensable as air and food. ”

"Sentient drinking water" probably means you, and love is simply a necessity for life for you. Just like a fish can't leave the water, I can't leave you, a month is the limit of your life away from each other, so no matter how "see you once a month" is an iron rule, no one can violate it.

***2

Xiaomi grain is the hardest working girl I have ever seen, she is a little bit of a student sister, because we are senior foodies often make appointments, so we naturally become the most iron friends. She was either on duty, in surgery, or writing reports, and sometimes she had to pinch the time for eating and sleeping, so I had to make an appointment with her a few days in advance every time I saw her.

Two days ago, she finally seized on her half-day free time and dragged her to eat near her alma mater. When I saw her, I was frightened, my face was pale, I could clearly see a few red and swollen acne on my forehead, and the scope of the black circles was beyond my imagination. I thought she was sick or something had happened, and worriedly asked about the latest situation.

It turned out that as a newcomer to the department, she began to be on duty independently this month, so busy that she had no time to drink water, sometimes as soon as she entered the operating room, she was isolated from the world, and her life was only the department and home, two points and a line, and occasionally a night repair was also used by her to sleep. As a foodie, she can not eat, but she can not sleep; as a girl who once mentioned that buying and buying is like taking a stimulant, she can not go shopping, but she cannot not sleep, I can't help but marvel at the magic of sleep, but also more marvel at the hard work of her work.

But how to say that sentence, there is no most bitter only more bitter, recently millet is really hard to force his mother to open the door - bitter forced to go home. As an elderly leftover woman, she studied medicine for 8 years and selflessly contributed the best youth to the medical cause of the motherland. In the past, you can also use reading as an excuse to avoid the doom of being urged to marry, and now this death-free gold medal has lapsed, and the seven aunts and eight aunts have come to battle, and every day they kill serial calls to introduce blind dates:

"This young man I grew up watching, people are now stable, good looking and the family is very good, I think you must like it"

"I tell you, this boy is really the door to you, you don't have to be picky, you are so old that you should get married, you see your classmates have two babies"

"Hey, you said why didn't you find one before, now don't you want to fall in love slowly like those little girls, you have to find a marriage"

"Sister Xue, what do you say about believing in love at my age?" I just don't want to go on a blind date, don't I deserve love in their eyes? ”

Who says it's not, what about older leftover women, why is love a luxury for us in the eyes of others? We are just old, our hearts are not old, and we have never given up waiting for love.

Perhaps in the eyes of many people, after the age of 25, we can't afford to spend a lot of time, but we know that the heart of the girl who is waiting for love is still fluttering and jumping. Maybe in the eyes of many people love this thing is too abstract, not as real as some objective conditions, but for us now material is not the primary condition, because bread I have, you need to give me a feeling of heartbeat; or maybe many people can not meet the soulmate (soul mate) in their whole lives, but for us trivial life is boring, if even the people around us can not be interesting, life will be a pool of stagnant water, prefer to be temporarily single and wait for the right person, Nor is it willing to give one's life to a boring person.

***3

Love is indeed a necessity in some people's circles; but to change a circle is only a luxury; if you change another circle, it becomes completely unknown; if you change another circle, it becomes a complete unknown;

In the eyes of 1,000 people, love has 1,000 appearances, just like from a center can draw a lot of circles with many radii, there are many ways of love: it may be that the sun is just right that day, and your appearance makes me feel excited; it may also be that Li Bai wrote in "Long Gan Xing" that "Lang rides a bamboo horse and goes around the bed to get green plums." Living together for a long time, the two little ones are like a long-term love precipitated by the years; or we work and study together, and grow up together.

And the best love is nothing more than what is asked for and needed. We both met the right person at the right time, not one step earlier nor one step later, everything was just right. Your view of love is "let nature take its course", and so do I; your values are "the most important thing that suits you", and so do you; your view of life is "life should be interesting", and so do I.

In fact, the lovers who can go to the end are all three views fit, and what the other half you are pursuing should be is actually already in your heart, and the love of love is just a dream.

As long as you come, as long as I still believe in love, I will certainly live up to the lonely years of waiting alone in the past to firmly grasp this heartwarming feeling, and walk hand in hand with you through every road in life.

May all people meet love.