Emma, a rural girl who is the jewel in her father's hand, sends her daughter to an aristocratic school. There, the girl became obsessed with romance novels. Later, she married a local township doctor.
The doctor loved her very much, and one day, after taking her to a noble ball and a dance with the Viscount, when she returned home, she could no longer forget the personable man.
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How dashing the aristocratic man is, how rustic his own man is.
Since leaving the castle of the nobleman's family, she did not like how to look at her husband. Why did he look like a countryman?
Although the husband leaves early and returns late every day, the money earned by hard work does not hesitate to provide his beloved wife and let her enjoy the best material life.
However, the wife was always sullen. Later, I actually fell ill with mental illness.
The doctor could not heal her, and someone suggested that he change his wife's living environment.
So, for the sake of his wife's health, he gave up the patients in the village who trusted him. You must know that these patients are the main source of his income, and they are the resources he has built up so hard.
However, the doctor resolutely gave up. He took his wife to another town.
However, the sky does not follow people's wishes. Since then, the wife's condition has not only not been fundamentally improved, but also took her life. Soon, the doctor also died, leaving his young daughter to do a poor child labor.
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The above story comes from the novel "Madame Bovary" by the French writer Flaubert.
After the vain doctor's wife moved to that town, she met 2 bad men and opened 2 hot extramarital affairs.
This false love, which gave her a short and false happiness, took away her lifelong happiness and even her precious life.
The tragedy of mrs. doctor, in the final analysis, is that her father sent her to the so-called aristocratic school, so that she only learned the exaggerated form of aristocratic life, but did not master the real wisdom of life.
She can't face herself, she's just a peasant's daughter, how difficult is it to cross classes?
But she was not reconciled, and with the participation in an aristocratic ball, her heart began to flutter, and she could no longer fall into mortal dust.
Since then, painful reality and romantic imagination have been constantly colliding, and she is in pain to the point of extricating herself. She had to find temporary sustenance in her extramarital affair, and the moth seemed to ignore the fire, and in the end, it led to tragedy, and it was accompanied by a husband and innocent daughter who loved her so much.
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If the education of the aristocratic school was the source of her tragedy, then attending the noble ball was the fuse of her tragedy.
In Zhao Benshan, Song Dandan and Cui Yongyuan's Spring Festival Gala sketch "Talking About Things", Uncle Black Earth said:
"We are the little old man and the little old lady in the countryside, what books do we write, and we haven't graduated from primary school yet?"
While the sketch makes people laugh, it also tells people a simple and unpretentious truth:
Man, confess your fate, don't be too ambitious.
In "Dream of the Red Chamber", Liu Grandma er entered the Rongguo Mansion, which time was not dazzled by the aristocratic life of the paper drunk and gold fans, but back to her rural tunzi, she quickly became a diligent and earnest peasant.
Grandma Liu is a rural old lady who can't read big characters, but she has her own wisdom in life and has never lost herself.
Suppose, the doctor's wife, took a trip to a noble ball as just an entertainment, an eye-opener. When he returned home, he immediately returned to the role of his own country doctor's wife. Her life will be a different story.
She was the daughter of a farmer, the wife of a village doctor. If you run their clinic with your husband after marriage, throw away the aura of a fake aristocratic woman, and work hard like the lady owner of the Golden Lion Inn. Their career development is definitely not worse than that of the neighbor pharmacist's family.
However, her life has gone astray! After all, the aristocratic school did not teach her precious wisdom in life.