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When Dong Jie and Wang Dazhi were together, it caused many netizens to be puzzled, after all, he had no looks, no wealth, and did not know what advantages he had, which made the goddess Dong Jie betray his marriage for him and betray the handsome Pan Yueming.
However, in the relationship, looks are not the only factor to consider, she was taken off the altar, perhaps at the beginning it was not because she really had love for Wang Dazhi, and it was also possible that the other party's routine was too deep.
If she has gone through all the vicissitudes, take her to ride on a carousel, and if she is not deeply involved in the world, take her to see the prosperity of the world. Men want to flirt, there is always a routine, women in such a routine, often difficult to overwhelm, surrender.
In Flaubert's novel Madame Bovary, the heroine Emma, who thinks that she has ill intentions, is the same kind of person as herself, so she throws herself into this disdainful relationship.
In addition to Emma's empty pursuit of the soul and the identity of Rodolph's upper class, the smooth start of this relationship has a lot to do with the tricks used by Rodolph.
The second time Rodolfo met Emma, Emma took his arm quite intimately.
In Rodolfo's three words and two words, but not like a plucking, Emma felt that she had found a confidant, and immediately gave birth to a sense of regret that she had met and hated the night, and felt that the distance between her and the other party was much closer.
So women please remember that if a man says these things to you in front of you, then he doesn't love you at all, he may just want to seduce you, and if you believe it, you will lose completely.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="13" > the first sentence: pretend to be lonely, no one can understand: "Where do I have any friends?" ”</h1>
Rodolfo told Emma about the boredom of country life and his loss of confidence in life, and Emma asked him, "What about your friends?" Don't think about them? ”
Rodolph pretended to be afraid and said, "My friends? Who are they? Do I have friends? ”
The true intention of this sentence is nothing more than one: to sell misery.
Women are naturally overwhelmed with compassion, and it is difficult to control the sympathy of the other party when they hear men expose their vulnerability to themselves.
The same is true of Emma, Rodolfo's words, let her not only sympathize with him, but also make her feel that she resonates with this man, why don't she feel that the country life is boring, but there are no friends to tell her heart?
The other party's words made Emma have a feeling of pity for the other party and herself, she did not expect that in fact, she fell into the trap designed for her by the wind and moon master Rodolph.
Selling miserably, this is the first trick of a man to seduce his sister.
Psychology shows that men will only expose their vulnerability in front of people they trust, and in the eyes of women, men saying this in front of her is a manifestation of trusting her.
Men know this well, and it is only a matter of time before a simple woman falls into the pit.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="23" > the second sentence: continue to sell miserably, breaking through the woman's psychological defense line: "Who really cares about me?" ”</h1>
The second trick of the man to seduce the sister: or sell miserably. However, this time, the selling rank is higher, saying to the woman, "Who cares about me?" ", meaning that I am lonely, no one cares about me, I need people to care.
The subtext is: I need your attention more.
This kind of routine is used by married men to seduce their sisters.
In film and television dramas, the exaggerated bridges we see are usually like this: married men confide in women, wives are boring and arrogant, and never care about themselves, how lonely and miserable he is in marriage, and marriage is in the depths of the water...
Reducing his wife to nothingness, never caring about himself, and describing married life as a hell that trapped him would bring out his pity and loneliness more and more.
This kind of trick is used in the little girl who is not deeply involved in the world, it can be said that it is not happy, repeatedly recruited, and the kind woman will most likely have a virgin heart for him because of his words, and want to save this unfortunate man.
If the man succeeds and the two are really together, the woman will naively think that love is between them, and she is the savior sent by heaven to appease each other's loneliness and relieve each other's loneliness.
She will feel great and that she is the soul mate of a man.
The heart of Emma, the heroine of "Madame Bovary", was also captured by tricks such as the Wind Moon Master.
The other party just said lightly: Who cares about me? Emma instinctively comforted the other person through physical contact, expressing in her own actions that she would care for him and that he would no longer be lonely and lonely.
I have to say that some women eat this set very much, and if men talk loudly in front of women and talk about their own beautiful side, they may cause women to resent it. And to show their loneliness and vulnerability in front of women, but they can gain women's sympathy and salvation.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="35" > the third sentence: Follow the good temptation, weave dreams, lure the other party to the hook: "If I meet someone who treats you sincerely..."</h1>
In nature, the peacock's courtship style is impressive. Whenever the male peacock sees a favorite female peacock, he will make a stunning eye-opening action to attract the attention and admiration of the female peacock.
The courtship of fireflies is also very special, when the male fireflies fly in the night sky, they will emit a specific flash signal, calling out to the female fireflies: Look at it...
When the female fireflies receive the signal, they can't wait to flash their wings and respond: I'm here, come to me.
And when a man says to a woman: I am always alone, what will happen if I meet someone who is sincere with me? Don't doubt it, this is also a courtship signal that men send to you.
After the wind and moon master Rodolph said this to Emma, Emma obviously began to think about it. She is seen by the other party as an empty woman who pursues excitement and romance, and this sentence is also a hint to Emma by Rodolph.
It's just that this hint is a bit cryptic, the mind is not delicate enough, it may pass as soon as you hear it, but if both sides have interesting in their hearts, then this sentence is equivalent to a courtship signal: I am very lacking in love, you come to love me...
The simple-minded Virgin-type woman may be planted in one end, vainly trying to give love and warmth to each other with her kindness.
And men who plot against each other are also using women to create opportunities for themselves.
Women may be wary of sweet words, but it is difficult to resist this kind of superb psychological tactics.
Ask yourself, if you are not open to God's perspective, but the parties in the event, then these quiet, seemingly meaningless words, it is generally difficult to make women vigilant.
Men always have a routine to seduce women, those sweet words with obvious minds, the skill is not high, sweet words can make women sober and clear men's intentions.
And those words that inadvertently show weakness and sell misery may be the first step for men to break through the castle of women.
Don't underestimate your own charm, and don't look up to the conscience of some men, these words he says are to seduce you, but also simply want to pick you up without any responsibility, you are serious, you lose.
I have to say that Flaubert's famous work "Madame Bovary" is really clever, and every aspect is worth savoring. Emma's choices in love and the detours she has taken are a wake-up call for each of us.
Such a classic palace-level world masterpiece, it is a pity to miss it.
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