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As a famous general in the area, Lin Yurong's military career has many legendary stories, but is his married life as wonderful as his military career? This article will give you a slow interpretation.
Huanggang is a famous historical and cultural county, the people are brilliant, Chen Tanqiu, Li Siguang, Bao Huisheng and other celebrities were born here, the Song Dynasty great literary hero Su Shi once left "Chibi Fu", "Nian Nu Jiao Chibi Huaigu" and other famous passages through the ages.
On December 5, 1907, Lin Yurong was born in Dawan, Linjia, Huanggang, Hubei Province, he was talented since childhood, his parents attached great importance to education, under the influence of his brothers Lin Yuying and Lin Yunan, he was admitted to the Whampoa Military Academy and embarked on the road of revolution.
Later, Lin Yurong became one of the best generals of the Communist Party of China, and during the War of Resistance Against Japan, Lin Yurong was wounded in the Soviet Union for medical treatment.
There were many young students in the Soviet Union at that time. Mao Zedong's sons Mao Anying and Mao Anqing, Qu Qiubai's daughter Qu Duyi, Zhu De's daughter Zhu Min, Sun Bingwen's daughter Sun Weishi, and so on, these young people are positive and uplifting, and everyone gathers together to hold various activities on weekends.
Lin Yurong is a great hero and a legendary general in the hearts of these young people, and whenever the Ping-type Guan Dajie and the battle commanded by Lin Yurong are mentioned, everyone admires it. Lin Yurong was very modest at that time, and was often surrounded by a group of young people who wanted to hear him tell revolutionary stories, which was quite popular.
At that time, the interaction was very pure, that is, young people gathered to chat, and there was no other purpose. At this stage, the emotional rift between Lin Yurong and Zhang Mei was getting bigger and bigger, and when they were depressed, one person shifted Lin Yurong's attention, that is, Sun Weishi.
Sun Weishi was the daughter of the martyr Sun Bingwen, a good friend of Premier Zhou Enlai, who joined the Communist Party of China with Zhu De, and the introducer was Zhou Enlai.
Zhou Enlai was the director of the political department at the Whampoa Military Academy, and when Zhou Enlai left Guangzhou, Sun Bingwen succeeded Zhou Enlai as director of the political department and chief instructor.
The April 12 counter-revolutionary coup d'état took place, and Sun Bingwen was killed in Longhua, Shanghai. Zhou Enlai wrote to Sun Bingwen's wife, Ren Rui, taking Sun Bingwen's daughter Sun Weishi as his own and raising her as an adult.
Premier Deng Dajie did not have her own children in her lifetime, but they regarded many children of martyrs as their own children and raised them as adults, and the premier was particularly great.
Sun Weishi, not only has a beautiful appearance, but also has a good upbringing and cultivation, but also worked in the art group, extraordinary temperament, elegant conversation, when studying at the School of Drama of Sun Yat-sen University in Moscow, he is naturally otherworldly and outstanding.
Lin Yurong noticed Sun Weishi when he was performing a show, and later as long as there was an activity that Sun Weishi participated in, Lin Yurong must attend on time.
One day, Sun Weishi did not participate because of something, and Lin Yurong actually felt very lost, as if he had lost his soul.
Is it that he fell in love with this beautiful and temperamental girl, at that time he and Zhang Mei had not yet severed their marital relationship, some people said that Lin Yurong transferred his affection when Zhang Mei was pregnant with Liujia.
At that time, lin Yurong and Zhang Mei's marriage was indeed lit up with a red light, Lin Yurong was in a very depressed mood, he wanted to get rid of this woman he once loved, and at this time, Sun Weishi, who marked beauty, gentleness and kindness, entered his heart.
Every time there is a party, Lin Yurong always thinks of ways to get close to Sun Weishi. The naïve Sun Weishi was also not wary of Lin Yurong, nor was he disgusted, after all, Lin Yurong was a famous general.
One day, Lin Yurong asked Sun Weishi out, and the two of them ate together and walked around the street. Lin Yurong asked how old Sun Weishi was? Sun Weishi said that he was 20 years old. Lin Yurong asked again, do you miss home?
Sun Weishi said, "I don't have a home. Lin Yurong said, "No home is not OK, it is too lonely." ”
Sun Weishi said, "I have a home, I have an ideal home, and vice chairman Zhou Enlai's home is my home." Yan'an is also my home, the revolutionary contingent is also my home, and this is still my home. ”
Sun Weishi's answer made Lin Yurong very excited, because Sun Weishi said "here". Lin Yurong immediately said, My home is also your home. Sun Weishi immediately added that I am talking here at the Moscow Academy of Drama.
Lin Yurong was not particularly happy after listening, but he continued to test, although he was introverted, but in the love field, Lin Yurong did not want to lose to anyone, he wanted to express boldly.
Then I asked, do you have a boyfriend? Sun Weishi shook his head and said not yet. Lin Yurong then asked, then when will you start a family? Sun Weishi said: I am not in a hurry to start a family, and I will wait until the victory of the revolution in the future.
Lin Yurong listened to Sun Weishi's answer and felt that the little girl was so cute. Now I can't do it, when will I wait? How late it was for the Japanese devils to finish fighting and chiang kai-shek's Kuomintang reactionaries.
Sun Weishi said, anyway, I am not in a hurry, wait slowly, the revolution will definitely be victorious. Lin Yurong said: In this revolutionary revolution, should we form a family and form a family? Lin Yurong was very sincere, but after all, he was a general, he retained his reservedness and demeanor, and did not ask any more questions.
Night fell, the bright moon hung in the sky, the quiet and beautiful Moscow was quiet, the street played a soothing music "Swan Lake", Lin Yurong thought in his heart, today must be bold, to fight like a flat type, to conquer a woman's heart.
Sun Weishi under the night sky is more beautiful and moving, and Lin Yurong feels that walking with Sun Weishi is happiness.
He looked at the girl for a long time and plucked up enough courage to express to Sun Weishi: "Weishi, do you know? I like you, no, I love you and I want us to be together."
Sun Weishi was startled by Lin Yurong's expression, and did not expect that the general she admired would express it to herself, and she had always regarded him as her big brother, which made her very embarrassed by this unexpected expression.
But Sun Weishi was different from ordinary girls, everyone was beautiful and very cultivated, and calmed down and said to Lin Yurong, "Don't you have Sister Zhang Mei?" Aren't you already married? We can't. ”
Lin Yurong said, "Zhang Mei and I have decided to break up, the personality is not compatible, can you understand me?" I know I said pursue you, very suddenly, and you are not mentally prepared, and I am not in a hurry to wait for your reply. ”
Later, Lin Yurong went to find Sun Weishi several times, and Sun Weishi did not refuse to associate with Lin Yurong out of self-esteem, but it was limited to the friendship of ordinary friends.
For Lin Yurong, Sun Weishi is admired, a generation of warriors, meritorious name, indeed very good, but Lin's personality is not her favorite type, so she rejected Lin Yurong.
There is also a reason, that is, Sun Weishi is very enterprising, she loves art, and hopes to have some achievements in art, she does not want to be distracted, does not want to have children and daughters, so she did not consider her marriage, although Lin Yurong attacked very fiercely, but Sun Weishi has not given him a chance.
In January 1942, Lin Yurong was about to return to China, and before leaving, Lin Yurong invited Sun Weishi to dinner. After dinner, the two of them took a walk by the small river. The girl who had been chasing for a long time still did not catch up, and Lin Yurong's face was full of sadness.
He said to Sun Weishi, "I'm going to return to China, and I don't know what year and month you will see each other in the future, so don't you have anything to say to me?" ”
Lin Yurong still did not give up his love for Sun Weishi, and he still thought about the final struggle, just like fighting, and never gave up until the last moment.
Sun Weishi looked at Lin Yurong and said sincerely, "I hope that General Lin will win more battles and achieve greater glory in the future." Sun Weishi gave Lin Yurong a parting gift like a leader, which made Lin Yurong laugh.
Lin Yurong said, I will certainly live up to your expectations and win more battles. Later, Lin Yurong shined on the battlefield of liberation, and the three major battles commanded two major battles, showing superb military command talent and making great contributions.
I don't know if it was the vigilance of Sun Weishi's words. Sometimes, men can work hard for a lifetime for the words of the woman they like, and they don't know if Lin Yurong is such an idea, and they want to prove to Sun Weishi that Lin Yurong is indeed an outstanding one.
Lin Yurong still did not give up, and continued to express, "Wei Shi, please seriously consider it, I have divorced Zhang Mei, I love you very much, are you willing to marry me?" ”
Sun Weishi had already been mentally prepared, and said euphemistically, "I haven't graduated yet, I'm still in the directing department." In fact, Sun Weishi did not want to embarrass Lin Yurong too much, she was a good girl.
Lin Yurong said, "It is okay not to graduate, and I will return to China to be my assistant." Sun Weishi said, "I can't go back, I can't give up halfway through my studies, and if I do, how can I explain it to Chairman Mao and Vice Chairman Zhou?" ”
Lin Yurong said, "Then I will wait for you to return from your studies, and I will wait for you." Sun Weishi said, "Don't wait for me, don't wait for me, I will study here for four years." Lin Yurong left the Soviet Union with regret and reluctance.
Lin Yurong returned to China without keeping his promise, did not wait for Sun Weishi to return to China, and married Ye Qun. Four years later, Sun Weishi returned from his studies and passed through Harbin to visit Lin Yurong.
At that time, Lin Yurong was already the father of two children, and they had a meal together, Lin Yurong learned that Sun Weishi was still single, and his heart was inexplicably remorseful and helpless, and he sat at the dinner table and sulked.
At this time, Sun Weishi was just 25 years old, the best age for a woman, both temperament and knowledge and beauty, Lin Yurong secretly thought, how good it would be to wait a few more years, originally he did not particularly appreciate Ye Qun.
There is no harm without contrast, no contrast does not know the gap, at the dinner table, Lin Yurong inexplicably angry at the leaf group, the leaf group is very embarrassed. Sun Weishi was very clever and said goodbye with interest, Lin Yurong tea did not think about food, and was sullen all day.
At that time, Ye Qun clipped a piece of venison to Lin Yurong, because Lin Yurong liked to eat venison, Lin Yurong said unhappily, I am not without long hands, I don't need you to clip me, which makes Ye Qun very embarrassed.
Ye Qun is a narrow-minded person, she found out about Lin Yurong's once incomprehensible fate, and knew that Lin Yurong had once frantically pursued Sun Weishi, and her heart was naturally very resentful. However, she and Lin Yurong are already married, the wood has become a boat, and Lin Yurong's ideas cannot be changed.
Ye Qun, whose original name was Ye Jingyi, was the daughter of kuomintang major general Ye Qi and his third aunt. At the age of 14, he studied at the Affiliated High School of Beijing Normal University, and after graduation, he was admitted to the Radio Station controlled by the Kuomintang and joined the "c c" organization of the Kuomintang.
After the Lugou Bridge Incident, Ye Qun, like other patriotic youths, went to Yan'an to pursue revolutionary ideals and then joined the revolutionary camp of the Communist Party.
She is generous, elegant, young, beautiful, intelligent and lovely, often with a sweet smile, quite popular, and there is no shortage of suitors. Known as one of the "Eight Beauties" of Yan'an.
In Yan'an, where there are many girls and boys, Ye Qun is of course also a strange commodity. There were many young people pursuing her, but Ye Qun was arrogant and arrogant, regarded his own value as a high value, and positioned himself as a woman who must be a general, and ordinary boys could not catch up with him.
In 1942, Lin Yurong returned to China and was warmly welcomed by Chairman Mao and other leaders of the Party Central Committee, although he was frustrated, but in his career, Lin Yurong was climbing the peak. She broke off her marriage relationship with Zhang Mei, and her heart still could not let go of Sun Weishi.
But a new love emerged. One day, Lin Yurong came to the women's university alone, and Ye Qun was reading a magazine. Lin Yurong came in, and Ye Qun raised his head and said busily, "Chief, is there anything wrong?" ”
Lin Yurong was dignified, the heroic spirit of the soldiers was radiant, and Ye Qun was very happy to see it. I think this young general has an extraordinary temperament.
Lin Yurong carefully looked at this young woman, her eyes were charming, her mouth was not large, her hair was very handsome. He said, "Hello little comrade, I am Lin Yurong, what is your name?" ”
Ye Qun replied, "My name is Ye Qun, you are General Lin, and I heard that when the chief was in his twenties, he commanded thousands of troops and horses, and he was famous all over the world."
Lin Yurong said modestly: "No matter how much ability I have, it is all passed on by others." Lin Yu was bored, how did this young woman know me so well.
Ye Qun said, "As soon as I arrived in Yan'an, I heard of your name, and I admired you from the bottom of my heart. Lin Yurong was indeed modest and low-key at that time, saying: "That is all in the past, it is not worth mentioning." Ye Qun said, "I want to learn from the chief," said Lin Yurong, secretly glancing at Lin Yurong.
"You graduated from high school, didn't you?" Lin Yurong asked. Ye Qun said, "Originally I wanted to continue to go to university, but when the country was in trouble and the nation was in danger, I gave up my personal desire to study and embarked on the road of revolution. After saying this, Lin Yurong nodded affirmatively.
Ye Qun continued: "I heard that the chief became a regimental commander at the age of 22, led the soldiers to fight, was born into death, and was very brave" Lin Yurong, who said this, was very happy, and did not expect that this little girl could chat.
Lin Yurong said: "The country has difficulties, and the puppeteer has the responsibility. It is also right to sacrifice one's life for the sake of the country and the nation, otherwise, how can one be called a revolutionary? ”
Lin Yurong's words were not much, but they were passionate. Ye Qun was very excited to hear this, and she said to Lin Yurong, "Chief, listening to your words is better than reading ten years of books."
Today is Mao Saitong, and in the future, we will definitely communicate with the chief more, so that progress will be faster. Lin Yurong said: "Good, common progress." "In this conversation, the two people left a good impression on each other.
It was such a fortuitous chance that Ye Qun met Lin Yurong. On the long face Ofe Ye Qun does not look up to Lin Yurong, but Lin Yurong is after all a generation of famous generals, senior military generals, and political giants, which has always been Ye Qun's pursuit.
At that time, most of the Yan'an Bamei were quickly boarded by others, and Lin Yurong returned to China and left Ye Qun. Ye Qun, ten years younger than Lin Yurong, from Lin Yurong's heart, he did not contradict Ye Qun, although he did not have a strong liking, unlike seeing Sun Weishi, he did not want to leave the other party.
Lin Yurong looked at the sky, not early, and decided to leave. Lin Yurong said, "Goodbye, little comrade." He looked at Ye Qun again, "When we have a chance to talk again, do you agree?" ”
Ye Qun was also pungent, stood up and replied, "Well, let's see the situation." Said an ambiguous word.
Lin Yurong stood up and shook Ye Qun's hand, and Ye Qun's face was rosy, and he looked at Lin Yurong in a daze. And so their first contact was over.
Judging from Lin Yurong's heart, he longs for love. And Ye Qun is also eager to meet a sweetheart. The appearance of Ye Qun filled Lin Yurong's heart in time.
Ye Qun wanted to indulge in the situation, just to hang Lin Yurong's appetite. Ever since Lin Yurong left Ye Qun, the shadow of Ye Qun would appear repeatedly in his mind, and sometimes, he walked alone and came to Ye Qun's cave. Pretending to pass by this place, he actually wanted to come and chat with Ye Qun.
And Ye Qun sometimes deliberately avoids Lin Yurong, just don't want him to be too easy to opponent, such a love man does not cherish, which is also the usual method of many girls.
And men are very emotional, once they are put into it, they can't extricate themselves. If a man's attitude towards love is like drinking a cup of old wine, then a woman's attitude is like drinking a slow cup of coffee, slowly tasting, and the aftertaste is endless.
Ye Qun saw that Lin Yurong already liked that he couldn't help himself, or kept his own reticence, and slowly let Lin Yurong understand himself to increase his mystery.
Lin Yurong decided to take the initiative to attack, he knew that there were several beautiful girls who could not fight, but it was quite a trick to trick the male comrades.
He lifted his pen and wrote a passionate letter to Ye Qun, giving it to Ye Qun, but there was no response. Is it that I didn't say it clearly enough, continued the second letter, didn't go around the bend, and directly expressed my admiration.
After Ye Qun received the letter, his heart was full of joy, and the great general he had admired for a long time was going to become his own Ruyi Langjun. Lin Yurong's attack succeeded, and Ye Qun accepted him.
At the foot of the pagoda hill, the two people finally snuggled together. Ye Qun hugged Lin Yurong and said, "What about your woman?" ”
Lin Yurong said: "I cut her in two, rest assured." Let's choose a good day, and I will definitely carry you to the caravan and marry you home. ”
Ye Qun said, "Then let's keep it a secret for the time being, otherwise it will make the city full of wind and rain." Lin Yurong thought, "Ye Qun is still quite scheming, and he must be a xiannei helper in the future." Ye Qun eventually walked into Lin Yurong's cave and became Lin Yurong's lover.
In 1943, Lin Yurong and Ye Qun got married, and their life after marriage was very happy, and the two had a son and a daughter.
In fact, Lin Yurong had two marriages before Ye Qun.
As early as when Lin Yurong was 8 years old, his parents married him a three-year-old child adoptive daughter-in-law, the second miss of the Wang family in Huilong Town, called Wang Yijing, who was a standard door-to-door pair and a talented woman.
We often say that a female junior year holds a gold brick, and parents want their children to hold a gold brick. Unfortunately, at that time, Lin Yurong was still very young, did not understand the love between men and women, and should go to school, and did not take this matter seriously.
Before the Spring Festival in 1927, Lin Yurong received a letter from his father, which roughly means that the father wants his son, and when he heard that his son joined the Northern Expedition, his father is also old and terminally ill, hoping that his son can take time to go home and see the poor old father.
After Lin Yurong received the letter, he rushed home quickly, but found that his father was fine and had nothing to do. It turned out to be a white lie. Calling Lin Yurong back had only one purpose, that is, to get him to come back and marry his fiancée Wang Shi.
Lin Yurong is more stubborn, and there is no emotional basis for the child bride, of course, he does not agree to it. And ask parents to push the marriage off. Lin Yurong's parents are willing to agree, and the words of the parents' fate can not be a child's play.
Miss Wang has been waiting for you for more than ten years, and the Lin family can't say anything without believing it. Finally, under the bitter pleading of Lin Yurong's parents, Lin Yurong and Wang Shi consummated their marriage. On the night of the candlelight in the cave, he watched his wife fall asleep and quietly said goodbye.
Before leaving, he left a letter for his parents. The main content: "I have joined the revolution, the future is really uncertain, please Wang Shi not delay his youth, find a good person to marry." And ask your parents to forgive their filial piety. ”
After reading the letter, the parents were really angry, but they scolded, this filial son, it is simply incomprehensible. And Wang Shi cried into a tearful person, no matter how others persuaded, they made up their minds not to marry for life, and stayed in the Lin family to wait for Lin Yurong to return. And that wait is a few decades.
The infatuated woman waited foolishly, but Lin Yurong never came back. The years had carved the marks of the Tao on her face, and the wounds had been written on her aging face. In the autumn of 1959, Lin Yurong went to Wuhan to attend a conference and took time to return to his hometown.
Looking at the leaves falling under the tree, Lin Yurong had a lot of thoughts. We often say that Ye Luo returned to the roots, and he suddenly remembered a person, remembered his former wife Wang Shi.
Helpless flowers fell, and déjà vu returned. Lin Yurong asked the local commune secretary about the Wang family, how is life?
The secretary of the commune knew about lin Yurong's resignation and truthfully reported the situation of the Wang family. 56 years old, the body is still very tough, there is no one in the family, he sells shoes for a living, and his life is poor.
Lin Yurong heard that she was still alone, and her psychology was very complicated, and she couldn't imagine that this woman had waited for herself for such a long time. The secretary of the commune asked, "Does the chief want to see him?" Lin Yurong said no.
He said that he took out 3,000 yuan and handed it to the secretary of the commune, asking for it to be conveyed. He also instructed: "If people ask who gave it, they will say that it was given by the party." ”
The money was quickly transferred to the Wang family, who had never seen so much money, which was equivalent to his own income from buying shoes for ten years. He broke the casserole and asked the end, repeatedly asking who gave it.
The secretary of the commune was in trouble. Tell it, Lin Yurong deliberately explained that he would not let him know. Don't tell it, and feel sorry for Wang's. In the end, he informed Wang Shi, asking him to keep it a secret and swearing.
When Wang Shi learned that it was given by Lin Yurong, the old man burst into tears, and he could not say a word for half a day, saying: "He has not forgotten me." ”
The feudal arranged marriages hurt many people, and Lu Xun's parents once arranged marriages for him, and he did not live with his wife for a day.
And his wife has lived in Lu Xun's family for a lifetime, never married, no complaints, and even Lu Xun's old mother is his original wife in charge.
Wang is still selling shoes for a living, but her shoes can not be sold out, the supply and marketing cooperatives directly to buy, the value is twice as high as the market, the local government also issued a "glorious revolutionary old man card" to Wang, a certain monthly living allowance, this may be Lin Yurong's emotional return.
The woman who had waited for Lin Yurong for decades was still living alone. In 1967, Wang died of illness. An old subordinate of Lin Yurong helped buy a good coffin and handled the old man's funeral.
Wang Shi left, and when cleaning up her belongings, he found a very tight bag, with three layers inside and three layers outside, and after opening it, it was lin Yurong's 3,000 yuan, without moving.
This is Wang Shi, an ordinary and ordinary woman, she is very kind, very persistent, foolishly thinking, silly waiting, she never waited for his wishful langjun.
This is Lin Yurong's first marriage, he and Wang Shi have not lived a day, but in Lin Yurong's heart there is guilt and uneasiness.
Of course, this is the objective reason for feudal etiquette, but Wang Shi is indeed Ai Lin Yu Rong, although this love has no meaning, she still buried love deeply for a lifetime.
Lin Yurong's second marriage was during his tenure as president of the Anti-Japanese Military and Political University, when Lin Yurong was an excellent general and young talent of the Red Army. Many people admired his military command ability, and many intellectual youth ran to Yan'an to pursue the truth, and Yan'an gathered a large number of talents.
Lin Yurong's personality is relatively withdrawn, and he does not like to communicate, when a dance party was held in the jujube garden on the weekend in Yan'an, many central leaders went to dance in their spare time, but Lin Yurong was introverted, taciturn, and never played. I don't know if I can't jump, or I'm afraid I can't let go, so I always hide to the side and watch quietly.
At this time, there was a young girl who entered Lin Yurong's heart, his name was Zhang Mei (real name was Liu Xinmin), a shaanxi rice fat person. Since ancient times, mizhi has had the proverb "The Han of Suide' mother-in-law of Mizhi".
And Zhang Mei is an outstanding beauty. He has a cheerful personality, loves to talk and laugh, and soon Lin Yurong discovers her good temperament and handsome appearance. Lin Yurong began his fiery pursuit.
Zhang Mei is not resistant to Lin Yurong, as a senior general of the Communist Party, Lin Yurong has long been famous in the world, beautiful women love heroes, although Lin Yurong does not say much, but the unique temperament and demeanor of the general still impressed Zhang Mei.
The two young men fell in love, and in 1937, the two married. It should be said that the marriage is particularly happy, the appearance of the lang talent and the woman, the heavens and the earth.
A silence, a living wave, a passion, a calm, revolutionary partner, a partner of life, and soon the two ushered in the crystallization of love.
Unfortunately, the first child took a car to Lanzhou because of Zhang Mei, and then transferred to the Soviet Union, the result was bumpy on the road, the child was born prematurely, and died less than two months later. But the relationship between the two was fine, and later in 1941 they had another child, that is, Lin Xiaolin.
On March 2, 1938, Lin Yurong, wearing a captured Japanese army coat, rode a road across the defense zone of Yan Xishan, only to be treated as Japanese and shot and wounded by the other side.
Lin Yurong was injured, and the medical conditions in Yan'an were average, and the central government arranged for Lin Yurong to go to the Soviet Union to recuperate and see a doctor. In the winter of 1938, Lin Yurong left Yan'an and went to the Soviet Union. This is three years.
In the Soviet Union, they lived a peaceful and comfortable life, with no war, only tranquility. Two people together, if the work life is very busy, but each other want to take care of each other, cherish each other. If two people are tired of being together every day, for a long time, it is easy to make conflicts.
Lin Yurong and Zhang Mei were married at a red light during this period. Exotic, quiet and comfortable, the two of them found each other's shortcomings, the huge contrast in personality also began to produce problems, three days a quarrel, five days a fuss, became a common thing.
Lin Yurong is introverted and likes to be quiet, Zhang Mei is outgoing and has a strong personality, and sometimes Soviet friends invite the couple to banquets and dances.
Lin Yurong did not like to participate, he did not let Zhang Mei participate in this kind of activity, and Zhang Mei was willing to make friends to participate in the activity, over time, contradictions will pile up, and the gap between each other will become bigger and bigger.
The passionate life is replaced by the tediousness of the family, and the two are no longer heart-to-heart, sharing weal and woe, but fighting each other and not giving in to each other.
Sometimes it is the Cold War, Lin Yurong does not say a word a day, Zhang Mei was originally a very active personality, but also became taciturn, she feels like a prison at home.
Lin Yurong does not like to go out to run, nor does she let Zhang Mei go out to run, contact the outside world, over time, the rift is getting bigger and bigger, and finally the marriage comes to an end. After that, Lin Yurong returned to Yan'an alone from Moscow.
It should be said that Lin Yurong and Zhang Mei once really loved, but the huge personality contrast between the two people eventually made the marriage between the two come to an end. No one is wrong, it's just inappropriate. Since you can't hold hands until you are old, it is better to gather and disperse. In a foreign country, the two broke up and said goodbye.
In 1942, Lin Yurong asked Luo Ronghuan and his wife to carry a letter to Zhang Mei, in which they said that they had become a family and advised Zhang Mei to choose a partner again, Zhang Mei knew that this was an inevitable trend, and the personal relationship between the two was completely over.
Marx said: "The so-called love is a strong, pure, and single-minded feeling that a man and a woman produce in their hearts based on a certain social foundation and common ideals of life, and they desire each other to become their lifelong partners." ”
In 1954, Zhang Mei and General Xu Jiefan reorganized their families and lived a happy life. In 2005, the 85-year-old Zhang Mei was awarded two medals of merit from the Chinese government and the Russian government to commemorate the 60th anniversary of victory in World War II.