The difference between cowardice and loss

Question: Teacher Du, I feel cowardly, can you talk about the difference between cowardice and loss?

What is cowardice? Cowardice is to give you a chance that you dare not use.

What is a loss? Loss is a lot of times you and others unevenly divided the booty, the least share is always you, this is called loss; others always take advantage of you, this is also called loss.

But neither of these points can be quantified, and sometimes we suffer losses only as a state of mind. And the psychological state is sometimes incorrect, in fact, there is no loss. Why?

It is equal in terms of the number of people, but it is unequal in terms of the quality of people. You are a person, he is also a person, should he share a little more? No, you feel like you're a person and I'm a person, in numerical terms, it should be 50% to 50%. However, the asymmetry of resources involving ability, technology, intelligence, and emotional intelligence is formed, and it cannot be divided equally according to the number when allocating.

For example, the person who asked the question, you want to divide it equally with me, I think you are not qualified, why?

My intellect is better than yours, my abilities are better than yours. Although I have invested less in what I have done than you, I have achieved more results than you. My time efficiency is better than yours, and my input is stronger than yours. As a result, you found that you suffered a loss, and I still think I suffered a loss! You only take those who are equal as the only consideration, and you don't consider those who are not equal?

I don't know what kind of loss in this society is really a loss.

90% of the losses in this society are pseudo-losses, he just feels that he has not been treated equally in terms of numbers, but he has not considered intelligence, relationships, abilities, skills, and insights.

First consider the quantity, secondly consider the quality, think clearly about the quality, you know that there is no loss or loss.