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The famous singer Huo Feng, who is famous for his song "Big Flower Caravan", was once a brash prodigal son, a failed marriage that made him dare not walk into the besieged city again, when the hardcore fan Jiang Hua launched a love offensive to him, he chose to escape. How did Jiang Hua use wisdom and love to transform this prodigal son into a good husband who loves his family and wife?
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In 1999," On May Day, Huofeng was invited to perform in Dandong City, Liaoning Province, and he once again passionately sang the famous song "Big Flower Car", which made fans boil with enthusiasm. After the performance, local friends washed the dust for the fire wind, the bold and atmospheric fire wind did not have a little bit of celebrity reticence and arrogance, took the initiative to greet everyone, and from time to time humorously told some interesting stories of the showbiz, the atmosphere was relaxed and warm.
While the wine was hot, the fire wind improvised his new work "Big Red Sail", and a girl sitting across from him sang with him. This surprised and delighted Firewind, and shortly after the single was released, the girl was able to sing it in its entirety, which showed that this fan was hardcore enough. Touched, HuoFeng took up a glass of wine and said boldly: "Come, toast the hardcore fans!" The girl drank a large glass of beer, and a little red halo floated on her cheeks, looking very moving.
Fire Wind and Jiang Hua
The meal lasted for two hours, and when a friend called the waiter to prepare for the checkout, the waiter pointed to the girl who had just sung with the fire and said that the account had been settled by her. It can be seen that this is a bold girl, and the fire wind is looking at this hardcore fan more and more differently. During the conversation, he learned that the girl's name was Jiang Hua, a Dandong native, who stayed on to teach after graduating from the Beijing Film Academy' makeup major. Jiang Hua told Huofeng that over the years, she had been paying great attention to him, and she knew his height, weight, blood type and hobbies very well; she could sing every song that Huofeng sang.
Firewind is a man of temperament, treating every hardcore fan as a confidant. Shortly after returning to Beijing, Huofeng invited Jiang Hua to watch his performance in the Great Hall of the People and sincerely told her: "A fan sincerely supports the singer, do not blindly praise, but should point out his shortcomings." Jiang Hua was very touched by the frankness of the fire wind, and she said bluntly: "I think your image of wearing large sunglasses and long hair and shoulders is not quite in line with your song style, and your style should be more sunny and resolute." ”
Huofeng knew that Jiang Hua had successfully designed the shapes for many stars, and he sincerely asked her to design a new image for herself. Under the meticulous creation of Jiang Hua, a new fire wind with a small flat head, a short beard on the chin, and a casual dress was born, which made the fans brighter and more like the fire wind.
Jiang Hua gradually approached the fire wind in this way. A long time ago, the talented singing voice of fire wind had conquered Jiang Hua's heart, and now when she saw fire wind himself, brave and frank, bold and uninhibited, it fascinated her even more, this is a man! The passion of love that had been hidden in Jiang Hua's heart for a long time was ignited. But the fire wind was so close to her that it filled the girl's heart with sadness. When she was embarrassed, she hinted at the fire wind, but the fire wind was as indifferent as the elm wood head.
Fire wind as a child with father
Fast forward to August, the northeast girl's directness and generosity finally made Jiang Hua can't help it, she took the initiative to say to the fire wind: "I like you, I want to be with you for a lifetime." ”
After months of frequent contact, Firewind had long developed a love for this equally talented and sensible and considerate girl, but the previous failed marriage had exhausted him and made him have an inexplicable fear of marriage, and he made a vow not to enter the besieged city again. In order not to hurt Jiang Hua's heart, Huofeng frankly told her about his emotional past and seriously told her: "We can be friends, but I don't want to enter marriage..."
A man loves a woman, the best way is to give her marriage, if the fire wind can not give himself a home, it can only mean that he does not love himself enough, Jiang Hua decided to silently walk away from him...
Jiang Hua returned to his previous state, only being a fan of fire wind, paying attention to him from a distance. But she found that such days were smeared with sorrow every day. Struggling with pain for a while, she clearly realized that she could not forget the fire wind. She thought that the current firewind had not lost the ability to love, but the emotional setback made him prohibitive of marriage, and she said to herself: "He is like a child who has lost his way on the emotional journey, and needs to lead him out of the confused swamp by himself." ”
Jiang Hua and Firewind's parents
Jiang Hua decided to use the tenderness and kindness of women to impress the fire wind, melt the ice in his heart, and rekindle his yearning for marriage. When he was with the fire wind again, Jiang Hua often instilled in him consciously or unconsciously: "You know what? Sociologists in the United States have found that the average life expectancy of single men is seven to eight years shorter than that of married people, and they are prone to autism and Alzheimer's disease. "There are too many benefits of marriage, happiness is shared with you, troubles are shared by others for you..." She also often drags the fire wind to the homes of some married friends who live happily, letting the children wrap their knees, and the warmth of the husband and wife is infected and touched.
In April 2000, Huofeng's mother suffered from cerebral thrombosis, and Huofeng took the old man from his hometown in Shenyang to Beijing for treatment. During the days when the old man was hospitalized, Jiang Hua took care of her like a daughter-in-law, in addition to going to work, the rest of the time she stayed in the ward, carefully and thoughtfully serving water for the old man, wiping his body, and accompanying the old man to pull home. After the old man's condition stabilized, he held Jiang Hua's hand tightly: "It's really a good girl, how good it would be if our family fire wind married you!" His mother's words made waves in the heart of Xiaozi Huofeng, but he still couldn't make up his mind.
Fire Wind with Lotson
In July of that year, Huofeng's adopted son and martyr Orphan Luo Song at the Lijiang Orphanage in Yunnan Province came to Beijing for summer vacation, and it happened that Huofeng was going to perform in other places for half a month, and Jiang Hua volunteered to take care of Luo Song. She took 8-year-old Luo Song to her home, washed and cooked for him, and took him to visit Beijing's scenic spots. Half a month of getting along day and night, let Luo Song and Jiang Hua form a deep relationship. After Huofeng returned to Beijing, Luo Song folded Huofeng's left hand and Jiang Hua's right hand together and said to Huofeng, "You are my father, let Aunt Jiang be my mother, okay?" Jiang Hua's face turned red. But Firewind smiled and didn't speak.
To tell the truth, how Much Jiang Hua hopes to be recognized by The Fire Wind, the performance of the Fire Wind makes her anxious and aggrieved in her heart, that night, the uneasy Jiang Hua sent a text message to the Fire Wind: "You are a good man, I have identified you in this life!" Believe I will bring you happiness! She wanted to test the firewind again.
Jiang Hua did not know that when Luo Song asked her to be a mother, although The fire wind did not express it, he set off a terrifying wave in his heart: after more than a year of contact, Jiang Hua's kindness, virtuousness and self-confidence had begun to disintegrate his "no marriage" vow little by little. Where to find such a good person? If you dodge and dodge again, you will only miss this excellent girl. The sleeping love in Huofeng's heart was ignited into a raging flame by Jiang Hua's fiery text message, and he no longer wandered, no longer hesitated, and dialed Jiang Hua's phone with trembling hands: "I love you too!" ”
In the autumn of this year, Huofeng and Jiang Hua walked into the palace of marriage hand in hand.
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Newlywed life can be said to be colorful. The two little ones basically do not cook, and Huofeng drives Jiang Hua to eat snacks in Beijing; when the weekend arrives, the couple either goes to the show or gathers with friends, and Jiang Hua describes that period of life: "We are like princes and princesses who do not eat fireworks in the world." ”
But less than half a year later, the "princess" found herself out of favor. Years of single life and a brash and uninhibited personality, doomed to fire wind is not a stay-at-home man who stays at home with his wife without a problem. Heaven and earth are so vast, how can a man like him who is accustomed to being comfortable stay at home for a long time? Home, in his heart, is just a haven of rest.
Fire wind has a large amount of alcohol unique to the northeast Hanzi, coupled with good popularity, friends all over the world, there are friends who invite him to go out to drink, Geng Zhi he never refuses. Jiang Hua is not the kind of little woman who loves to be calculating, and does not require the fire wind to only revolve around her all day long, but as long as the fire wind is in Beijing, 6 days a week, often 6 days a week, he often drinks with friends outside, leaving herself alone at home, does she have a place in his mind as a wife? Moreover, how can the body bear it when the fire wind drinks and drinks like this? Therefore, when the fire wind returned with a mouth full of wine, the good-tempered Jiang Hua complained: "I know to drink outside all day!" Do you know that you are now a family member? FireWind glared at her, "What's wrong with a man drinking some wine outside?" Northeast men are like this! "For the sake of the firewind, the couple did not talk less.
Youth Fire Wind
Firewind loves photography and adventure. Many years ago, he rode a motorcycle alone through Yunnan and Tibet, encountered a horrific car accident, the liver was broken by more than ten centimeters, almost lost his life, but the fire wind did not stop the pace of adventure. For the safety of the fire wind, Jiang Hua resolutely did not allow him to drive alone to distant places to collect wind and photography, and even more opposed him to adventure.
Jiang Hua was kind, but Huo Feng felt that he was constrained everywhere, and he complained: "How did this marriage become a painting hell prison?" ”
In September 2002, Jiang Hua became pregnant, and the careless fire wind did not know that his wife needed the most care at this time, and was still ready to go to Xinjiang to collect wind. Since the song "Big Flower Palanquin" made him famous all over the world, over the years, although he has created and sung influential songs such as "I Love You China", "Brother", "Open Door", etc., it has not exceeded the height of "Big Flower Palanquin". Fire Wind is eager to break through, hoping to find inspiration in the embrace of nature.
Because he was afraid that Jiang Hua would stop him, one morning in late September, the fire wind took advantage of the fact that Jiang Hua had not yet woken up, left a note and quietly drove away. Jiang Hua woke up and saw the note, was shocked, and immediately dialed Huofeng's mobile phone, but the mobile phone was turned off. It wasn't until the next morning that Jiang Hua contacted Huofeng, and she begged him: "How dangerous it is for you to go so far alone!" Hurry back! Fire Wind didn't think so: "It doesn't matter, I'm not going out for the first time, you don't have to worry about me, just take care of yourself." Jiang Hua still wanted to continue to persuade him, and Fire Wind had already hung up the phone.
This time, the fire wind went away for half a month. During this half a month, the pregnancy reaction tortured Jiang Hua to the point of misery, and she had to take care of herself and worry about the fire wind in Xinjiang. While praying that Fire Wind would return safely, she scolded him in her heart for being ruthless and an asshole. It was the saddest period of time after Jiang Hua got married.
Early years of fire wind
Half a month later, the fire and wind came back, and the whole person lost a circle. Looking at her husband, whose hair was messy and his clothes were dirty, Jiang Huaqi did not bat an eyelid: "What do you see what you have become?" Do you know what kind of days I had at home during this time? Which husband is like you? FireWind grinned widely, "Didn't I come back nicely?" What are you worried about me? Jiang Hua was angry and hateful: This careless man, why do you not understand your wife's heart so much?
Re-examining the man who had let herself worship infinitely, fading the aura on his head, Jiang Hua found that the free, uninhibited, and wide-ranging friends that Huofeng once admired her had now become a shortcoming in her eyes that had no sense of family responsibility and did not know how to care for her wife. Fire wind this kind of personality to be a friend that has nothing to say, but as a husband, he is absolutely incompetent.
In May 2003, Jiang Hua gave birth to a lively and lovely daughter Miao Miao, she thought, with a child, the loose heart of the fire wind should always be tightened and returned to the family. But the fact made Jiang Hua very disappointed, two months after the child, Fire Wind was drinking outside as always, driving out on an adventure alone. As long as Jiang Hua fell, the fire wind did not lose his temper with her in a good mood, and the couple inevitably had a "war".
Contradictions cannot be resolved, "war" is more and more, the beautiful vision before marriage and the huge contrast between married life, so that Jiang Hua is more and more depressed, there is no warmth at home, the kind of warmth between husband and wife, why can't it be found between her and the fire wind? Marriage brings you loss and trouble, what is the need for such a marriage to survive? Jiang Hua thought of giving up...
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Firewind couple with daughter
During that time, Jiang Hua even wrote the divorce agreement and prepared for a complete "showdown" with the fire wind when there was another "war". That day from Guangzhou, I put a large pocket of fresh lychees in front of Jiang Hua: "Wife, this is the lychee that has just been listed in the south, and I have airlifted it from Guangzhou." ”
It was this warm detail that shook Jiang Hua's determination to divorce. She suddenly understood that Firewind loved her, and there was affection between them, but the grinning Firewind did not know how to manage marriage, which caused the current situation. Yes, how can the true love that you are struggling to pursue easily let go? After all, Jiang Hua is a wise intellectual woman, looking at her marriage, she feels that the foundation of her marriage tree with the fire wind is solid, but now that she has grown a few "worm eyes", repair these "worm eyes", their marriage tree will still be leafy and lush!
Jiang Hua decided to transform the Fire Wind! Of course, to make others change, you must first change yourself.
Before giving birth, Jiang Hua rarely even entered the kitchen, and now, she bought recipes, learned one dish after another, and soon she could make more than ten kinds of authentic Northeastern dishes. His wife's good cooking skills made Huofeng eat at home obviously more often than before, and he often took his friends to eat at home, proudly saying to his friends: "Let you taste my wife's superb cooking skills today!" Hearing this, Jiang Hua smiled secretly in his heart: her husband was falling into the "trap" she designed step by step.
Huo Zun and his grandparents
It was easy to change himself, but it was a difficult problem to change the fire wind without a trace and not arouse his disgust. Through the introduction of friends, Jiang Hua met Ms. Chen, a well-known marriage expert in Beijing, and after Ms. Chen learned more about the marriage situation between Huofeng and Jiang Hua, she told her: "To deal with such a man, we must 'free-range' instead of 'captive'. Because the tighter you control him, the easier it is to arouse his rebellious psychology, and he will become more and more opposed to you. ”
The marriage expert's nod made Jiang Hua's heart suddenly bright. From then on, she stopped complaining, no longer nagging, no longer chattering with him when she was in conflict with the firewind. Before Huofeng went out every morning, Jiang Hua would creatively put a note in his bag and write different words on it every day: "Go home early if you have nothing to do, my daughter and I are looking forward to your return." "I hope to have dinner with you in the evening, so I'll have a good appetite." ......
Sometimes the fire wind is out socializing, very late has not returned home, Jiang Hua is no longer like the previous phone call "cha gang", but sent him a "virtuous wife" text message: "Men need to socialize is deserved, don't worry about the family, I will take care of my daughter." Seeing that some friends were chased by their wives' phone calls, or were angrily tugged at their ears by the "humpty wife", Fire Wind felt that he was too happy and found such a magnanimous and understanding wife.
Huofeng likes his daughter Miaomiao very much, and as soon as he returns home, he sticks with his daughter, accompanies her to build blocks, plays games, and lies on the ground to let her daughter ride as a horse. This warm scene allowed Jiang Hua to find the opportunity to transform her husband. She began to tell stories to her daughter, and after her daughter became addicted, Jiang Hua said to her: "Let your father tell you a story every day, there are many more stories in his stomach than his mother." So Miao Miao wrapped herself in the fire wind, and every night before going to bed, the fire wind told her a story, otherwise she would not sleep. The baby daughter's "brutality" makes The Fire Wind feel very useful, so he can push and push those unimportant socializing, trying to get home as soon as possible.
Jiang Huarun silently "transformed", let the fire wind step by step to the model man who loves the family, and occasionally could not withstand the warm invitation of friends, he would also go to drink a meal. Once, Huofeng had a party with a few friends in the circle, got drunk, and after Jiang Hua knew, he drove him home at 11 o'clock at night. As soon as the fire wind arrived home, he vomited all over the ground, Jiang Hua scrubbed him clean, cleaned the floor, and then brewed him a pot of decanting tea, it was already early in the morning, afraid that he was asleep, and he did not take good care of the fire wind, Jiang Hua did not sleep all night.
The next day, Huofeng woke up and saw Jiang Hua sitting next to him dozing off, and suddenly understood everything. The strong man shed tears of guilt: "I will never drink again." Jiang Hua buried his face in Huo Feng's hand and said, "I am not against you drinking alcohol, drinking in moderation to nourish yourself, drinking too much but hurting your body." You know, your life is not just your own, it's yours and my daughter. Your good health is the happiness of my daughter and me..." These reasonable words are really heart-warming, and the fire wind no longer dares to let himself get drunk.
Stills of the FireWind
The great change in the fire wind made Jiang Hua feel relieved and excited. In June 2005, Huofeng was planning to go on an expedition to Sichuan again, and this time Jiang Hua did not stop him from going, but said to him: "You go so far alone, I am not at ease, I will take my daughter with you." "Fire Wind knows that the place he wants to go is not only a long way away, but also a harsh environment, how can his wife and daughter bear it? He had to give up the trip.
In August 2005, Jiang Hua took his daughter on a tour group to Europe and left Huofeng alone at home. The wife and daughter were not around, and the fire wind could be regarded as a taste of loneliness. And the worry and concern for his wife and daughter made him sleepless at night. Thinking of the past, he did not quit and did not go far away without moving, and the fire wind felt guilty.
After 10 days, Jiang Hua and his daughter returned from abroad, and Huofeng sincerely reviewed his wife: "Before, I went out on an expedition at every turn, and now I realize what kind of suffering you have to endure at home alone. He promised that he would never ignore her feelings again. Fire Wind's heartfelt words made Jiang Hua burst into tears, and she said emotionally to Fire Wind, "You know what? Our family of three is like three pillars of the house, which one is missing, the house will collapse. We are a whole, and no one can do without anyone! Fire Wind held his wife's hand tightly.
At this point, FireWind finally understood that Jiang Hua, his intelligent wife, had been transforming him with the unique wisdom of women, saving their marriage and saving the family. If you haven't changed, how can you be worthy of your wife? How to be worthy of her good intentions? After this, the former prodigal son of Firewind underwent a change, he no longer stayed home all day, he no longer drank outside with friends, and his wife and daughter occupied an important position in his life than singing.
Parents of Firewind
Since giving birth to Miao Miao, Jiang Hua has fallen into a stomachache, and he can't eat or sleep well when he gets up. The grinning fire wind did not take his wife's illness to heart. Now, Jiang Hua's stomach disease has become a pain in his heart. Every time Jiang Hua went to the hospital, he had to accompany her and remind her to take medicine on time every day; in order to keep his wife's stomach from irritation, Huofeng insisted on not eating spicy and greasy things at home, and ate light liquid food with Jiang Hua. Sometimes, Jiang Hua woke up in pain in the middle of the night, and the fire wind tried to massage her with her sleepy eyes open, until Jiang Hua went to sleep, and he closed his eyes. With the treatment of drugs and the careful care of the fire wind, Jiang Hua's serious stomach disease was finally alleviated.
After returning to the family, Firewind always wanted to write a song to express his gratitude to his wife. One late night in the autumn of 2006, when The FireWind was tired of writing songs, Jiang Hua made him a supper, looking at his wife's busy figure, the inspiration of the Firewind burst out, and he wrote the popular "Wife Wife I Love You" in one go.
Firewind father and son and Song Xiaobao
This song has a beautiful melody, a clear and refreshing mouth, singing the feelings of all good men in the world for their wives, and as soon as it is launched, it will be sung. The cause of Firewind finally broke through the bottleneck and rose to a new height. At the CCTV Spring Festival Gala in February 2007, Huofeng passionately sang "Wife Wife I Love You": "Wife wife I love you / Amitabha Buddha bless you / May you have a good body / Healthy and beautiful / May everything be as expected, we are not separated ..." Jiang Hua, who sat in front of the TV set, was moved to tears like thousands of wives in the world...
Now the fire wind has become a "model" for a good man. Whether it is a show, a performance or a party, whenever there is an opportunity, he will remind his male compatriots: "You must love your family, love your wife, and be kind to your wife." ”
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