Although the three children are released, many families still make choices on the question of whether to have two children or not.
Ordinary people choose a little more difficult, but for celebrity families, whether they want 2 children or not obviously has nothing to do with the economic basis and conditions, only the question of willingness or unwillingness.
Nie Yuan's family is very eager to have 2 children, among which Nie Yuan's parents-in-law have also been urging their daughter Qin Ziyue to hurry up and ask for 2 treasures.
On the one hand, Qin Dad and his mother like children, on the other hand, as Qin Dad said, he and his wife are still healthy and not very old, so they can have the physical strength and energy to help their daughter bring the second treasure.
This is the idea of many elders, even if Qin Zi is a star actor, Qin Dad and mother still hope to be able to personally bring their grandchildren.
In many families, many dabao are actually opposed to their parents having younger siblings for themselves.
On the one hand, these children are afraid that the arrival of their younger siblings will take away the love given to them by their parents, and on the other hand, these big treasures are not interested in their younger siblings themselves.
But Qin Ziyue's daughter didn't think so, she always wanted her mother to give birth to a sister for herself.
The reason is that she likes herself, so she wants to have a sister to play with
Listening to her daughter's words every day, it can be seen that Qin Ziyue and Nie Yuan's education of their daughters is very successful, at least every day they know how to share happiness and happiness, so they will always shout for their mother to give birth to her sister.
It's just that Nie Yuan is different, although he also likes to have a second child, but his worries are very realistic.
Nie Yuan sighed that if he wanted to have 2 children next year, he would be 44 years old!
When Erbao was 20 years old, he was 64 years old.
Obviously, Nie Yuan was worried that he had reached middle age, although the child did not need him to bring it, he had his own parents-in-law to help, and he could also ask the gold medal sister-in-law and nanny, and he only needed to work hard to earn milk powder money.
However, from the perspective of the age gap with the children, Nie Yuan's concerns are not unreasonable.
If he becomes a father again at the age of 44, then the joy is more than worry about the age difference with Erbao, and the generation gap will also occur.
And Nie Yuan is also worried that the age difference between himself and Erbao is too much, and if the child needs himself in the future, it is likely that the parents will not be able to do it.
Nie Yuan is a star, and financial freedom has almost no pressure to educate and cultivate the second treasure.
But even so, Nie Yuan still has his own practical concerns about the issue of 2 children, and it is conceivable that those ordinary families, middle-aged couples want to have 2 treasures, the pressure is even greater!
On the one hand, her parents and daughter urged her to give birth to a second treasure, on the other hand, Qin Ziyue also had to face the expectations of her husband Nie Yuan, and the overall face of a huge birth group, she herself was not under pressure.
Qin Ziyue also admitted that the reason why he wanted to have 2 children, on the one hand, in addition to the birth of relatives and husbands at home, he also focused on his daughter.
Especially after watching the relationship between Song Yanfei's family and seeing the happiness of Song Yanfei and her brother's parents bursting, she hopes more and more that she hopes to let her daughter feel Song Yanfei's happiness every day.
However, Qin Ziyue inadvertently said a truth, bluntly saying that for the sake of his daughter and his family's thoughts, even if he was tired, he would try to bring the second treasure well.
After listening to Qin Ziyue's words, Fu Seoul disagreed, and she asked: You can't have this kind of thinking, you should first ask yourself, do you want the second treasure?
Fu Seoul's words are very reasonable, Qin Ziyue wants a sister for his daughter, and his parents want a second grandson, so he agreed to have a second child.
Moreover, Qin Ziyue also said that even if he was tired and tired, he would have to persist!
But the problem is, what Fu Seoul said is very reasonable, whether to have a second child, should not be a mother to ask herself first, is it really like the second treasure to give birth?
If you choose 2 children for the sake of others, isn't this a "kidnapping" of family affection?
Obviously, Qin Ziyue did not seriously think about this question, so when Fu Seoul asked her if she wanted 2 treasures yourself, her reaction was a little stunned, and her eyes fluttered up, indicating that Qin Ziyue realized at that moment that Fu Seoul's rhetorical question had a certain realistic truth.
Yes, many mothers will be similar to Qin Ziyue's situation, facing the birth of their relatives, before choosing the second treasure.
However, Fu Seoul mentioned that a family and a mother have not considered their own ideas in the face of the second treasure, and have they ever thought that having 2 children will affect their happiness?
Don't easily decide to want a second treasure because of following, and don't be urged by your loved ones.
It is true that there are many reasons why a family chooses to have 2 children, there is no lack of nie yuan family, parents-in-law like to have one more grandson, daughters like to have one more sister, and Nie Yuan also hopes to have a second child.
But also because of the liking between the family, but ignoring Qin Ziyue's own true thoughts, does she really want to have a second child?
In addition, back to Nie Yuan's side, it can be seen that Nie Yuan really likes children.
It was cold, and I thought of not letting my daughter go to school.
Her daughter was too tired to practice the piano every day, and Nie Yuan secretly helped her daughter to intercede with the teacher, hoping to make her daughter lazy.
The standard "daughter slave" shows Nie Yuan's love and desire for children, and it is no wonder that he wants to have 2 children.
In fact, although Nie Yuan's concern about the second child is very realistic, he may wish to look at Song Yanfei's family.
Song Yanfei's father and daughter are also very different in age, Song Yanfei is 25 years old this year, her father is 67 years old, and the difference between father and daughter is 42 years.
This situation was similar to Nie Yuan's concern.
However, Song Yanfei's father and daughter get along very easily, just like friends, there is no generation gap, and her father is super spoiled for Song Yanfei.
Therefore, although the age and generation gap are also very important in reality, the love of parents for their children will never change!