"Ask what the worldly situation is, and the Orthodox Church promises life and death."
Once, there was such a pair of lovers, they are always a hot topic, their several points and combinations, always can set off an uproar, this pair of old lovers are Li Ao and Hu Yinmeng.
In February 2017, Li Ao, who had been unruly all his life, was finally completely conquered by the disease: at the age of 82, he was diagnosed with a tumor in the brain, and according to the doctor's notice, Li Ao could only live for about three more years at most.
Receiving such a notice, Li Ao was not sentimental, on the contrary, he accepted the news very calmly.
"A man will die, and his words will be good." In the last moments of his life, Li Ao thought of his ex-wife Hu Yinmeng, the woman with whom she had only been married for three months, the woman who had been scolded by her for forty years after the divorce.
In "Goodbye Li Ao", Li Ao once again talked about his ex-wife Hu Yinmeng.
"I want to see her again."
You know, before this, every time Li Ao talked about his ex-wife Hu Yinmeng in public, he was insulting him.
So, what happened between Li Ao and his ex-wife Hu Yinmeng? In the last moments of his life, why did he miss his ex-wife so much?
(Li Ao and Hu Yinmeng)
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When we talk about Li Ao, what do we talk about? Li Ao has too many labels on him, he is a writer, historian, critic, but also a "arrogant", "publicity", "untamed", "unsurprising", "unsurprisingly dead".
The land of Harbin has always bred countless strange anecdotes, and in 1935, Li Ao was born in Harbin, when the northeast had fallen under the iron hooves of the Japanese army.
In order to get rid of the rule of the "pseudo-Manchukuo" established by the Japanese army in the northeast, Li Ao's family moved to Beiping, due to the special environment at that time, the young Li Ao did not have the opportunity to study and study, and the chaotic war burned the land of China and also robbed him of the opportunity to study.
(Ao Li)
It was not until 1949, when Li Ao's family moved to Taiwan and settled in Taichung, that Li Ao had the opportunity to receive a formal and systematic education.
Later, Li Ao was admitted to National Taiwan University and began to specialize in law. The process of study was not smooth, in the tedious and boring study, Li Ao slowly found that he preferred deep history to the red tape in the legal provisions, so after some efforts, Li Ao entered the history department of National Taiwan University, at which point, Li Ao began to specialize in history.
In addition to studying history, Li Ao's favorite thing is to read, he likes to read various types of books, prose, poetry, novels, etc., he likes it. Because of his love of literature, Li Ao published his first book, Monologues under Tradition, in 1961.
(Monologues under Tradition)
At that time, Li Ao had already graduated from the history department of National Taiwan University. In fact, before this, Li Ao had already published some articles. When he first graduated from National Taiwan University, Li Ao began to write articles using his views.
Li Ao had the personality that most literati had, he was "arrogant", he was "untamed", at that time Li Ao was a complete liberal, influenced by foreign ideological trends, Li Ao vigorously advocated "total Westernization" by submitting some articles to the magazine, and this propagated liberal ideas, opposed the Kuomintang dictatorship, and made a big noise for free speech.
At that time, Li Ao published an article called "The Old Man and the Stick."
In the article, Li Ao promoted his views with sharp language and extremely ironic methods, and this article made Li Ao famous for a while and became the object of pursuit by many young students. But at the same time, these articles also caused trouble for Li Ao.
On August 10, 1961, Li Ao was imprisoned, which was the second time Li Ao had been imprisoned. In prison, Li Ao did not give in to the police, but instead took a very tough attitude, and he insisted on writing in prison.
The police did not interfere much with Li Ao's behavior in prison, because Li Ao was a public figure, and the police were afraid that Li Ao's accident would bring bad public opinion influence, so they had to "serve" for a good life.
In prison, Li Ao publishes a monthly volume called "Li Ao Qianqiu Commentary Series", which began when Li Ao was imprisoned and never stopped publishing until the day Li Ao was released from prison. Many people who care about Li Ao's situation will go to the newsstand every month to buy the series of books to understand Li Ao's recent situation and some of his views.
After his release from prison, Li Ao appeared in front of the public as a victim, and in the society, he published many articles that "exposed" the darkness of the judicial department, which caused a sensation for a while, and many people began to fight for Li Ao and the people in prison, until the situation improved after the Kuomintang legislator Wen Shiyuan came forward to stop it.
(Young Li Ao)
After that, Li Ao continued to introduce his own works, but for various reasons, many of Li Ao's books were banned.
However, the name Li Ao already has an unshakable huge power, young people pursue Li Ao, middle-aged people are optimistic about Li Ao, and even some elderly people also praise Li Ao.
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Compared with Li Ao, who was born ordinary, Hu Yinmeng was much more "noble".
Born in Taiwan in 1953, Hu Yinmeng is a typical child born "with a golden spoon". Hu Yinmeng's father was an official in Taiwan at that time, so Hu Yinmeng's family was relatively wealthy.
Although he was born in Taiwan, if you count upwards, Hu Yinmeng's ancestral home is actually in Shenyang, Liaoning. The good family environment makes Hu Yinmeng's childhood very fulfilling, Hu Yinmeng is the little princess of the family, no matter how excessive the requirements, the family will also find ways to meet.
(Hu Yinmeng)
Hu Yinmeng in middle school was a prominent figure on campus, in today's words is "school flower", when there were many suitors of Hu Yinmeng in the school, and the suitors expressed their love to Hu Yinmeng.
But in the face of these suitors, Hu Yinmeng only smiled slightly and ignored them.
This does not mean that Hu Yinmeng has no heart for love, on the contrary, Hu Yinmeng is very eager for a perfect love.
Hu Yinmeng has loved to read since she was a child, and there are countless books in her home, and Hu Yinmeng always looks through them in her free time. She likes to watch some love stories, and she will also shed tears for the protagonists in the stories, that is, Hu Yinmeng has been a sensitive woman since then.
In 1974, Hu Yinmeng, who returned to Taiwan from abroad, began to turn to the development of the film and television circle.
At the age of 21, Hu Yinmeng starred in the movie "Cloud Deep Unknown", in the movie, Hu Yinmeng played a girl named Chen Chunlan, once the movie was released, it set off a wave of enthusiasm, everyone was attracted by Hu Yinmeng in the movie, Hu Yinmeng had a perfect face, and the role he played made it look very pure, and a chuchu and moving appearance quickly spread throughout Taiwan.
(Hu Yinmeng in "The Clouds Are Deep and Unknown")
Hu Yinmeng became famous for this film, and was also known as "the first beautiful woman in Taiwan in the 1970s".
At that time, Hu Yinmeng was still waiting for someone, waiting for someone she was destined to do. But what she didn't know was that the man she was waiting for was a man who had tormented her for more than forty years.
This man is Li Ao.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > the love between a talented man and a beautiful person</h1>
In fact, the fate of Li Ao and Hu Yinmeng first appeared very early.
When they were very young, the two families' hometowns were very close, and Li Ao's father and Hu Yinmeng's father worked together for a period of time at that time, so the two families also had mutual contacts.
When she was a child, Hu Yinmeng's parents would often tell Hu Yinmeng some stories about Li Ao, which took root in Hu Yinmeng's brain, and she gradually became curious about the men in this story.
After growing up a little, Hu Yinmeng would occasionally buy Li Ao's books to read, and from Li Ao's books, Hu Yinmeng gradually began to have a certain understanding and understanding of Li Ao, and she felt that Li Ao's views were sharp and interesting. Slowly, Hu Yinmeng found that she began to develop an inexplicable affection for Li Ao.
She wanted to see this man in person.
(Hu Yinmeng and Li Ao)
The opportunity soon came, on September 15, 1979, Li Ao was chatting with his old friend at home, when there was a sudden knock at the door, Li Ao opened the door, and it was Hu Yinmeng standing outside the door.
At that time, Hu Yinmeng was already a popular big star, and Li Ao naturally recognized her, not only because of Hu Yinmeng's beautiful appearance, but also because of an article by Hu Yinmeng.
It turned out that Hu Yinmeng had published an article before, but that article was quickly blocked.
This was the first time Hu Yinmeng had seen Li Ao, an ordinary-looking man with the figure that men of this age have, wearing glasses and hiding his deep gaze under the glasses.
And Li Ao was also attracted by the beautiful girl in front of him.
Through several contacts, the two soon fell in love.
In the process of communication, Hu Yinmeng developed a deeper understanding of Li Ao, and she began to find that this man has an unknown side, Li Ao seems to have a deep understanding of love, but he does not even know how to kiss.
Hu Yinmeng was very fond of Li Ao, and so was Li Ao. Hu Yinmeng is a big star, which makes Li Ao very face-saving, whenever he hears other people's praise for Li Ao's "hugging a beautiful person", Li Ao always feels that there is light on his face.
But in fact, at that time, Li Ao also had a girlfriend, her name was Liu Huiyun, and Hu Yinmeng also knew about this matter.
When the two fell in love and could not extricate themselves, Hu Yinmeng asked Li Ao what he planned to do with the relationship between her and Liu Huiyun. Li Ao said without hesitation: "I will tell her that I still love her one hundred percent, but now there is a thousandth of a thousand, so she has to avoid it for the time being." ”
This made Hu Yinmeng very uncomfortable, but at that time, the two were in a period of hot love, and soon forgot about it.
Li Ao took great care of Hu Yinmeng, even meticulously. After living together, Li Ao would make breakfast for Hu Yinmeng every morning, put it at the head of the bed and wait for Hu Yinmeng to wake up before eating, and he himself would go to the study to work and wait for Hu Yinmeng to wake up.
Hu Yinmeng also trusts Li Ao very much, she introduces her friends to Li Ao, takes Li Ao to various social occasions, and lets him know friends from various circles.
However, the relationship between the two soon broke down.
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Soon, Hu Yinmeng discovered the bad side of Li Ao's personality.
Li Ao has extremely high requirements for himself, and at the same time will ask others to be like him, and Hu Yinmeng is deeply affected.
Hu Yinmeng, who has been pampered since childhood, has never been constrained by anything, so she is also very casual in life, she likes to run around the house barefoot, but Li Ao does not like her like this, he feels that it is unhygienic, and often yells at Hu Yinmeng because of this matter.
Slowly, more and more small things in life became the source of quarrels between the two. Hu Yinmeng bought ribs to cook for Li Ao, but Li Ao scolded her that the ribs did not thaw and went to the pot, and nothing would happen; Hu Yinmeng put the washed vegetables on the screen window to dry, but Li Ao scolded her for not having a little sense of danger, so she was not afraid of vegetables falling downstairs from the screen window to hit people.
These trivial things are getting more and more trivial, and the quarrels between the two are becoming more and more frequent.
But lovers in love will always be carried away by love.
On May 6, 1980, Li Ao and Hu Yinmeng held a grand wedding.
Who would have thought that this marriage certificate would become Hu Yinmeng's deed of sale.
After the marriage, Li Ao smiled and said to Hu Yinmeng: "You have signed the marriage certificate now, I see where you can go, go make me tea and drink." ”
At first, Hu Yinmeng thought that Li Ao had said this sentence in a joke, but slowly, she found that what she guessed might be wrong. In the life after marriage, the personality difference between the two became more and more obvious, and the quarrels were more and more.
Finally, Hu Yinmeng decided to divorce and get rid of Li Ao's control over her.
But Li Ao, who has a stubborn personality, did not agree to divorce, and for this reason, the two had a fierce quarrel and even attacked each other at a press conference. Three months later, the two officially divorced.
After the divorce, Hu Yinmeng returned to her own life, she began to focus on her own life, began to do public welfare, reading, writing, but what has not changed is that Hu Yinmeng still longs for love.
Li Ao, on the other hand, attacked Hu Yinmeng in various public places for 40 years. In this regard, Hu Yinmeng only smiled slightly and no longer pursued.
The two have only been married for three months, but they have quarreled for a lifetime, but at the end of their lives, the person Li Ao wants to see most is still Hu Yinmeng, as for the reason, I think only Li Ao himself knows.