Feng Xiaogang's latest masterpiece TV series "North And South", about the "struggle and emotional history" of five girls, when our male protagonist Zhu Yuchen appeared today, I once thought that this was Feng Xiaogang's version of "Struggle", in the play Zhu Yuchen played the accounting firm partner "Du Shijun" is a high-income group, with a stable job, a virtuous wife, a pair of cute children. In the latest plot, the intern girl "Wei Lan" of the firm, in order to retaliate against "Du Ruojun", smeared her own lipstick on his collar, creating the illusion that "Du Ruojun" was cheating, and almost destroyed the Du family.
However, outside the play, Zhu Yuchen is also looking forward to his wife and children's hot kangtou, but even the good girls who have appeared in his life for 42 years have finally been destroyed by his biological mother with "virtuous and virtuous virtue". In the program "My Family's That Kid", the rule set by Zhu Yuchen's mother for the future Zhu Yuchen's wife is "good wife and good mother".
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="4" >01 Zhu Yuchen was forced to commit suicide by his mother when he was a child</h1>
Zhu Yuchen, who was born in Shanghai in February 1979, his parents are ordinary workers, Zhu Yuchen also has an older sister who is a few years older, before Zhu Yuchen was born, his mother did not show his sister the attitude towards Zhu Yuchen afterwards.
Because in the eyes of the mother, "girls are worthless, there is no need to take good care of them."
After Zhu Yuchen was born, her mother began to "carry forward" her maternal love, eager to let everyone know that she had a son, and also responded to Zhu Yuchen's requirements, which also made her sister very envious.
When Zhu Yuchen was older, her mother's love began to make Zhu Yuchen a little unable to accept it.
When I was a child, my sister was the most noisy child in the family, on the contrary, Zhu Yuchen was very introverted, her mother arranged piano training for Zhu Yuchen, but when she was a child, Zhu Yuchen was very difficult to learn, and her mother started to pinch Zhu Yuchen, and finally pinched a piece of purple on her arm, and then Zhu Yuchen in order to escape learning, poured water into the piano, went out to rain on rainy days, ate raw beans, just to make herself sick, so that her mother could promise to give up learning, but every time the result was that Zhu Yuchen was beaten up and could not get out of bed, until one day, Zhu Yuchen took off the black protective cover on the electric door at home, stretched out his hand to touch the electric door, in an instant, Zhu Yuchen had an illusion in his head, felt that he was bounced off, and felt as if he had teleported, after being bounced off, Zhu Yuchen held his hand against the wall, feeling like a lightning flashing through the bones of his body.
After being electrocuted, Zhu Yuchen began to vomit, shouting "I don't want to practice the piano" with a handful of snot and tears, and then lay on the bed for 10 minutes, and obediently sat down in front of the piano.
From that time on, Zhu Yuchen thought that he could leave this family as soon as possible, and the most important thing was to leave his mother.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="14" >02 The first relationship was doused by Zhu Yuchen's mother's soup</h1>
In 1995, 15-year-old Zhu Yuchen finally got the opportunity to leave his mother, he was going to the Central Academy of Drama, at the examination center of the Zhejiang Academy of Fine Arts in Hangzhou, Zhu Yuchen met his first girlfriend, Tang Wei.
The first time they met, that day, drizzling rain, a group of candidates sat on the side, no one spoke, did not dare to speak, the teacher stood at the door of the teacher, always looking at them, wait until after the exam, Zhu Yuchen did not say a word to Tang Wei, but Zhu Yuchen remembered the name of Tang Wei, as for Tang Weizhi did not know Zhu Yuchen This person is not easy to say, the first meeting ended with the two of them falling off the list. The first time he saw Tang Wei, Zhu Yuchen had a feeling that he wanted to pull her under the eaves to hide from the rain. It's just that the two of them fell off the list and had to do it again. Interestingly, the two failed again in the second exam and decided to fight for another year.
In 1997, Zhu Yuchen and Tang Wei re-fought at the Drama Academy, the two met again at the Zhejiang Academy of Fine Arts, this time Zhu Yuchen plucked up the courage to say the first sentence to Tang Wei, the two had a wordless conversation, and then the two successfully went to Beijing to prepare for their last Chinese opera interview, and the two foreigners came together in Beijing.
18-year-old Zhu Yuchen, with long hair and a leather coat, tang Wei at that time was wearing sneakers, sweatpants were also a long hair, and the two were preparing for the final interview of the Chinese drama together. After the exam, Tang Wei gave Zhu Yuchen a rattle, "Listen to the sound, don't forget to move forward", and the two encouraged each other.
Tang Wei is 18 years old and takes a group photo with Ma Yuan'an, the elder of women's football
This time Zhu Yuchen's luck was better, and he was admitted to the Central Academy of Drama, and Tang Wei regretted that he had fallen off the list again. Seeing that her boyfriend successfully entered the Chinese opera, Tang Wei decided to fight for another year, renting a small house with a monthly rent of 300 on the side of the Chinese opera to prepare for his own art examination.
When the two are together, Zhu Yuchen and Tang Wei are not romantic people, the most romantic thing the two have done may be that Zhu Yuchen accompanied Tang Wei to play badminton when he was resting, and Tang Wei came to send two eggs when Zhu Yuchen was in the morning.
The relationship between the two became extremely difficult as Zhu Yuchen's mother ran to Beijing.
After knowing that her son was admitted to the Chinese opera, the mother made a big decision to go to Beijing to accompany her. Before her son went to Beijing one step ahead, Zhu Yuchen's mother washed her face with tears almost every day, and Zhu's mother said, "I have to guard him every day, so that I can not cry."
When Zhu Yuchen was in high school, Zhu Yuchen's mother was the only parent in the class who resigned specifically to take care of her son's life.
Zhu Yuchen, who originally thought that she could finally get rid of her mother's "crazy love" after entering the university, knew that after she left her mother, she washed her face with tears all day long, and her heart was also sour, so she agreed to accompany her mother to study.
After her mother came to Beijing, the first "dismount" was given to Zhu Yuchen's roommate and the wall-climbing tiger outside the dormitory.
At the beginning of the school, because Zhu Yuchen was not the first to arrive, originally Zhu Yuchen wanted to sleep on the lower bunk, but at that time, the lower bunk had been occupied by other students with a small bear, and Zhu's mother was ready to throw the bear away, because in her opinion, this bed her son was going to sleep for four years, of course, to sleep comfortably. But after all, it has been occupied, helplessly Zhu Yuchen slept on the upper bunk, and the roommate on the upper bunk was Pan Taiming, the actor of "Liu Yuan" in the later TV series "Snow Leopard".
The mother climbed onto the upper bunk, laid out the futon for Zhu Yuchen, and then asked Pan Taiming, "Classmate, are you snoring?" Pan Taiming said, "Auntie, I don't snore."
As a result, Zhu Yuchen was the one who purred the loudest in the whole bedroom.
In addition, the wall-climbing tiger of the "one of the scenic spots" in the Chinese drama also made Zhu Yuchen's mother look unpleasant, afraid of mosquitoes, and was ready to burn the climbing tiger with boiling water, and later was stopped by Zhu Yuchen's good talk.
When the first "dismount" is followed, the second "dismount" is given to Tang Wei.
Zhu's mother got up at four o'clock every day to stew pear soup for Zhu Yuchen, and every day before Zhu Yuchen came out of the morning exercise, she sent the soup to the school, and then knew that Zhu Yuchen's girlfriend also lived on the side of the school, and she was even more hand-in-hand to teach tang Wei to cook soup, but at that time, Tang Wei himself was also preparing for the exam, and the two gradually had contradictions.
At that time, Zhu Yuchen had seen Tang Wei's mother, and left a good impression, Tang Wei also met Zhu Yuchen's parents, but at that time, Zhu Yuchen and Tang Wei did not think that the two might enter the palace of marriage in the future, and the two people were more down-to-earth, step by step.
But Zhu Yuchen's mother does not see it this way, thinking that since Tang Wei and Zhu Yuchen are together, they must assume the responsibility of "being a wife", even if Tang Wei did not show dissatisfaction in front of Zhu Yuchen's mother, but gradually she and Zhu Yuchen began to have contradictions, and Zhu Yuchen has always stood on the side of her mother, and the relationship between the two has reached an irreparable point, and then the two ended their love for more than 2 years.
And Zhu Yuchen attributed the reason for the breakup to his own "personality problems".
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="37" >03 Mother's "suffocating" love</h1>
In 2002, Zhu Yuchen graduated, and his classmate Deng Chao at that time had become a veritable "emperor professional household" by relying on "Young Heavenly Son", "Young Kangxi" and "The First in the World".
During this period, Zhu Yuchen will write what he has seen and heard during the filming process, including what he filmed yesterday and what explosive scenes were filmed today, and Zhu Yuchen's mother carefully copied the content of Zhu Yuchen's hair, including time and place, in a notebook without falling. When she knew that her son took some plays, the mother had to "send a thousand miles" to tell her son not to take the scenes that were beaten by others, and later followed the crew all the way.
As usual, I got up at four o'clock every day to cook soup, delivered it to Zhu Yuchen's bed on time, watched him drink it, and then went to prepare breakfast, lunch, and then every day at 11 o'clock in the evening, I began to prepare the materials for the next day. At that time, Zhu Yuchen went out to act and it was difficult to get rid of his mother, and as a result, his mother followed a plane and took root in the crew.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="48" >04 Zhu Yuchen was lucky</h1>
In 2007, Zhu Yuchen defeated Ren Zhong and became the actor of Huazi in the TV series Struggle, and the appearance of a hanging child Lang Dang was played very well by Zhu Yuchen, and was praised by director Zhao Baogang: Zhu Yuchen's arrogance and nobility are innate, and his and coolness are in his bones. In addition, the theme song and ending song of "Struggle" were also completed by Zhu Yuchen himself.
It's just a little embarrassing, the drama is red, the role is also red, but the people are not red.
After that, he was hand-picked by Zhao Baogang again to star in the TV series "Who Is The Master of My Youth" and "The Nth Power of the Family", relying on "Struggle" and "Who Is the Master of My Youth", Zhu Yuchen was known as "Inspirational Brother".
However, outside the play, Zhu Yuchen's "youth" is mainly dominated by her mother and sister.
Years of habits, Zhu Yuchen entered the crew, the mother also opened a room in the actors' hotel, every day at four o'clock in the morning to cook soup, on time to Send Zhu Yuchen's room, but also to prepare to write bottles and cans, let Zhu Yuchen's staff take to the set to tell Zhu Yuchen to drink the drink on time. After drinking it, my stomach was filled with my mother's soup water.
Zhu Yuchen had wanted to sneak these out many times, but every time he saw his mother's busy back, he still helplessly drank these sugar waters. Consuming so much sugar every day, Zhu Yuchen's face nibbled like the moon.
Zhu Yuchen was very depressed, but did not dare to resist.
After "Struggle" and "Who Decides My Youth", Zhu Yuchen took her mother to participate in Li Jing's "Super Visit", and on the show, Zhu Yuchen's mother made up her mind to change and let go of her son in the future.
Only later, a beam of light appeared in Zhu Yuchen's repressed life.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="59" >05 Zhu Yuchen's relationship with Jiang Yan was also ruined by her mother</h1>
In 2012, Zhu Yuchen partnered with Ren Zhong, who had been defeated before, starred in the TV series "Don't Call Me Brother" and met actress Jiang Yan.
Jiang Yan in the theater is lively and cheerful, and also has the craftsmanship of "kitchen god", which not only conquers the crew, but also conquers Zhu Yuchen.
And Jiang Yan's cooking skills were praised by Wang Han and others in the subsequent programs, saying that her wisdom and beauty coexisted, and Jiang Yan who praised her was embarrassed, saying that she was a graduate of the Culinary Department of the Beijing Film Academy.
At that time, the 26-year-old Jiang Yan was still a rising star, and there was no scandal, so Zhu Yuchen always thought she had a boyfriend, but did not chase after her.
Until one day, Jiang Yan showed her knife work again, made a plate of cucumbers in a coat ready for Zhu Yuchen to bring to the crew colleagues, and Zhu Yuchen returned to the hotel to get a drink, just happened to be zhu mother saw this plate of knife work exquisite cucumbers, the mother then asked a question This child has a girlfriend? Zhu Yuchen also said casually, there must be something.
After learning that Jiang Yan did not have a girlfriend, Zhu Yuchen quickly started to get off and finally hugged the beauty.
However, Zhu Yuchen, who successfully took down Jiang Yan, was once again defeated in the hands of his mother.
In the face of Jiang Yan's cooking skills, the mother is very pleased, so that finally someone can take over the soup for her son, under the efforts of Jiang Yan, Zhu Yuchen's weight has increased from 120 pounds to 180 pounds, and finally for the image needs to work hard to lose weight.
Fortunately, Jiang Yan is "beautiful and wise coexist", and when there is a conflict with Zhu Yuchen, Jiang Yan questions Zhu Yuchen
"You're not looking for me because I can cook and take care of people." Or do you think I'm fit to be a wife?"
However, when the outside world was in love with each other for the "golden boy and jade girl", the two accidentally broke up.
Not surprisingly, Zhu Yuchen's mother once again "interfered" with Zhu Yuchen's relationship.
Mother Zhu has several criteria for choosing a daughter-in-law, first, believing in her own feelings at first sight;
Second, do not be too frivolous in front of your elders;
Third, we must be educated.
However, it was obvious that Mother Zhu did not feel good at first glance at Jiang Yan. In Zhu's mother's cognition, girls must be conservative, but they cannot be too exposed to dress. Obviously, Mother Zhu has long forgotten what she swore in 2007, "Make up your mind, you must change".
However, 26-year-old Jiang Yan, a good figure explosion, convex and upturned, and as a sports enthusiast, swimming and fitness are her hobbies.
Mother Zhu has standardized the standards for her daughter-in-law to cook, take care of her son, and dress standards, just as she said at the beginning of the article, she requires that her daughter-in-law must be "virtuous and virtuous".
After being with Zhu Yuchen, Jiang Yan did lose herself for love, but fortunately, Mother Zhu's "stick to beat the Mandarin Duck" woke Jiang Yan up, and the two finally parted ways. Although Jiang Yan, who is now 30 years old, is still unmarried, she has lived herself.
Until Zhu Yuchen's third relationship was photographed by the media, the girl wore a small vest with Zhu Yuchen walking on the street, and at that time, some netizens expressed concern that you could not pass the level of Zhu Yuchen's mother by wearing it like this.
In addition, I also found an interview with Huo Siyan before. Huo Siyan's words punctured Mother Zhu's criteria for choosing a daughter-in-law.
"To marry a bride, to marry a bride, is to marry a bride with a surname"
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="89" >06 The mother's love makes the sisters and brothers afraid of marriage</h1>
Starting from Zhu Yuchen's high school, her mother resigned to accompany her to college, broke Off Zhu Yuchen and Tang Wei, and then broke off her marriage with Jiang Yan at work.
In the Zhu family, the father is like an invisible person, the mother is in power, and the family has the final say in matters big and small, even if Zhu Yuchen's sister has not been married until now, and the reason for not being married is also because of the fear that she cannot be a "good mother".
In the program "My Family's That Kid", Zhu Yuchen even shed tears and said how there was no girl who was willing to be by his side.
The mother's "suffocating" love not only makes her sister afraid of marriage, but also makes 42-year-old Zhu Yuchen afraid of marriage, her mother always uses her own way of treating her son to find her daughter-in-law, Zhu mother also admitted: The reason why her daughter is single is because she sees my attitude towards her son from childhood to adulthood, she said that she can't bear this responsibility.
Although she said "must change", Mother Zhu's performance was very realistic, and she continued to cook soup and prepare meals every day.
Some people say that Zhu Yuchen said "cherish and brave", but every time he encountered a choice between his mother and his girlfriend, he still chose to stand on his mother's side without hesitation.
Some people also said that with the broadcast of the program, "the whole country knows the situation of the Zhu family, and the female artists are even more afraid to talk to his son, and the vegetarians are estimated to be unable to withstand the strong pressure of their mother-in-law!" ”
Marry someone without marrying a mother and a man, and marrying a wife without marrying a brother-in-law
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="99" >07 Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren</h1>
There is a saying that "children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren", but the second half of the sentence is the mystery of "Do not be a horse and cow for your children and grandchildren",
Zhu Yuchen's mother began to accompany Zhu Yuchen from the age of 14, until the age of 42, for a full 28 years, she followed Zhu Yuchen and took good care of her. He has been a cow and a horse all his life, but in exchange for his son's blows again and again.
As for Mother Zhu's mouth, "Mother Bao is not cute", perhaps only Zhu Yuchen himself knows it.