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600 million people have cried, "Dog Thirteen": such parents have developed their children into "disabled" 0102030405

author:Uncle Chai will take you to a movie

Dog Thirteen is on fire. The film tells the story of how the 13-year-old protagonist Li Play was "persecuted" by Chinese-style family education step by step.

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At the beginning of the movie, Li Play was forced by his father's irrevocable momentum to change his favorite physics group to an English group, and in order to apologize, his father bought a pet dog for Li Play.

Adults are always accustomed to taking away what we like and trying to replace it with something else, hoping that we will forget their domineering and authoritarian.

With a compromise, it will be difficult for us to get rid of this fate of wanton "tampering".

600 million people have cried, "Dog Thirteen": such parents have developed their children into "disabled" 0102030405

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The Einstein, who was inseparable from Lee's play, was lost because of the negligence of his family. The adults repeated the trick and bought a pair of roller skates as compensation for Li to play after losing the dog.

This time, Lee couldn't sit still! She shouted Einstein's name over and over again in the dimly lit streets in the middle of the night, she posted dog-hunting revelations on the streets, she even pushed her grandfather who was chasing her home to the ground because she was eager to find dogs, and her grandmother also got lost in the street late at night for her.

600 million people have cried, "Dog Thirteen": such parents have developed their children into "disabled" 0102030405

In order to prevent Li Play from continuing to search for dogs, the family bought a dog of the same breed and forced her to admit that the new dog was Einstein. Adults make mistakes, not only not to admit it, but also to cover it up with a lie. Li Play saw the absurdity and hypocrisy of the adult world, and for the first time, her young mind was torn open by a bloody opening.

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All the actions of Li playing with dogs, in the eyes of Li Play's father, are making trouble! It's rebellion! Just don't understand! He was completely angry, and when he saw Li playing with a beer bottle, his father did not say a word, and directly smashed the glass bottle on the door, and the glass shard plunged into the palm of Li Play's hand, and the blood flowed.

600 million people have cried, "Dog Thirteen": such parents have developed their children into "disabled" 0102030405

He was followed by a severe beating: slaps, hair grabs, neck pinches, kicks in the butt. Her father tugged at her hair and forced her to apologize and admit her mistake: What else do you want? Enough trouble? Do I owe you? Li couldn't make a sound, and under the beating of his father, he convulsed and said the sentence: "I'm not making trouble, I'm sorry." "

Afterwards, his father regretted it, and he said the familiar words to Li Play: "Daddy beat you because he loved you." "

600 million people have cried, "Dog Thirteen": such parents have developed their children into "disabled" 0102030405

It was this night that Li Play understood that her father's love was so cone-hearted that it hurt so much that her flesh and blood were blurred. She learned her lesson and learned to "understand things", after all, such things will be more in the future.

This lesson with tears and blood, like venom, soaked into the bone marrow of Li Play. Wherever the blood flows, it is eroded.

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At the end of the movie, during a certain dinner party, Li Play was served a plate of braised dog meat in front of him. Li Play stared at the plate of dog meat in silence for a long time. Eventually, she picked up a piece and pretended to eat it happily.

This piece of dog meat that Li Play eats is the price of Li Play's growth.

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In order to understand things, in order to grow, Li played and lost himself. In the past, when the dog was lost, he would cry bitterly and desperately look for it; later, when he was reunited with Einstein on the street, he was not moved, but just walked away silently.

Li Play, who has a repressed personality, is violent and lies by his parents, and has cultivated a sensitive and extremely insecure person. Later in life, she could no longer trust others, did not dare to express herself, and was more afraid of establishing intimate relationships with others.

In the end, both parents raised us to be "disabled." What can we do? As Jiang Sida said in an interview: "No one told us I was sorry, we had no choice but to understand." "

600 million people have cried, "Dog Thirteen": such parents have developed their children into "disabled" 0102030405

Author: Chopping Wood Academy - Chen Yingying

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